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Mktavish wrote:Well thanx for the spelling check ... but you missed the word liscense.

Ack! How did that get past me? :lol:

Mktavish wrote:And on the polls , that's fine , but we all know ofcourse those can be skewed to say what ever you want. I'm talking about how much of the worlds governing powers over how much of the world demographically does grant a license for gay marriage.

That's true. And even if the media is right and a majority of adults in the US do favor gay marriage, that doesn't necessarily mean a majority of actual people who will vote favor gay marriage. Currently, even with a newly re-elected president who favors gay marriage, there's practically no chance whatsoever that the Republican-controlled House will repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. It's an open question whether US voters will elect a future congress that manages to make gay marriage legal nationwide.

Of course the Supreme Court is a whole different matter; with the delightfully unpredictable John Roberts in charge of it, it could legalize gay and lesbian marriage next month!

Mktavish wrote:Care to give us a demographic or geographic percentage on that?

Seems like many nations in Europe already have gay marriage legal, but other than that I don't know what the worldwide views are on gay rights.
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KevinSim wrote:Let me just say that if there's a relationship between black people being able to vote and the speed limit on state roads being 85 miles an hour, I definitely don't know what that relationship is. On the other hand, I had already posted the relationship between making it legal for gay couples to marry and making it legal for polygamous triples to marry. Darth J either didn't notice that or chose to ignore it.


No, you didn't. The issue that currently exists in real life before the U.S. Supreme Court in Hollingsworth v. Perry is whether gay people are constitutionally entitled to legal recognition of their marriages under the equal protection clause of the 14th Amendment. Nobody is arguing that the number of people involved in a marriage raises an equal protection issue. The Brown family members, who are currently litigating the "polygamy" (actually polyamory) issue in Utah are not seeking legal recognition of plural marriage.

Just to make it absolutely clear for him, I am not saying that there is any connection at all between the First Amendment and the Fourteenth Amendment, that were used to support legalizing polygamy and legalizing gay marriage, respectively.


Thus negating your statement on page 4 of this thread, "I said that if you can justify legalizing marriage for gay couples then there's no way you can fairly prohibit legalizing it for polygamous triples."

Rather, I'm saying that there is a very definite connection between the arguments used to fight against the two suggested legalizations.


I am aware that you are saying this. The problem isn't that I don't understand you. The problem is that you are completely wrong.

I just got done reading the website at "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reynolds_v._United_States". The decision of the Supreme Court was that someone cannot use the First Amendment to claim the right to take some action that her/his religion requires her/him to do if there exists a law prohibiting that action.


No, that's not an accurate assessment of Reynolds, and that's not the status of Free Exercise jurisprudence now. A statute does not violate the Free Exercise clause if it involves neutral principles of generally applicable law.

So everything hinges on that law; everything depends on whether the law should remain, or whether it should be repealed.


What???

The website says the court observed that the law against polygamy had existed in one form or another "since the times of King James I of England." I think it's fair to say that the law in its original form was a result of the Victorian value system that prevailed at the time. Darth J, do you disagree with that?


Yes, I do disagree with that. I disagree with it because it is wrong. The Reynolds court noted that there are secular reasons to reject a Free Exercise defense to polygamy that are not based solely on religion or on whatever it is you mean by "Victorian morality." In fact, the Reynolds court distinguished between the religious aspects of marriage and the civil (secular) aspects. (Note to anyone reading this: the following wall of text is necessary because it is what the U.S. Supreme Court actually said in Reynolds v. U.S.) Here is where they explained separation of church and state, and articulated the secular basis for prohibiting polygamy:

Mr. Jefferson afterwards, in reply to an address to him by a committee of the Danbury Baptist Association (8 id. 113), took occasion to say:
"Believing with you that religion is a matter which lies solely between man and his God; that he owes account to none other for his faith or his worship; that the legislative powers of the government reach actions only, and not opinions -- I contemplate with sovereign reverence that act of the whole American people which declared that their legislature should 'make no law respecting an establishment of religion or prohibiting the free exercise thereof,' thus building a wall of separation between church and State. Adhering to this expression of the supreme will of the nation in behalf of the rights of conscience, I shall see with sincere satisfaction the progress of those sentiments which tend to restore man to all his natural rights, convinced he has no natural right in opposition to his social duties."
Coming as this does from an acknowledged leader of the advocates of the measure, it may be accepted almost as an authoritative declaration of the scope and effect of the amendment thus secured. Congress was deprived of all legislative power over mere opinion, but was left free to reach actions which were in violation of social duties or subversive of good order.

Polygamy has always been odious among the northern and western nations of Europe, and, until the establishment of the Mormon Church, was almost exclusively a feature of the life of Asiatic and of African people. At common law, the second marriage was always void (2 Kent, Com. 79), and from the earliest history of England, polygamy has been treated as an offence against society. After the establishment of the ecclesiastical courts, and until the time of James I, it was punished through the instrumentality of those tribunals not merely because ecclesiastical rights had been violated, but because upon the separation of the ecclesiastical courts from the civil the ecclesiastical were supposed to be the most appropriate for the trial of matrimonial causes and offences against the rights of marriage, just as they were for testamentary causes and the settlement of the estates of deceased persons.

By the statute of 1 James I (c. 11), the offence, if committed in England or Wales, was made punishable in the civil courts, and the penalty was death. As this statute was limited in its operation to England and Wales, it was at a very early period reenacted, generally with some modifications, in all the colonies. In connection with the case we are now considering, it is a significant fact that, on the 8th of December, 1788, after the passage of the act establishing religious freedom, and after the convention of Virginia had recommended as an amendment to the Constitution of the United States the declaration in a bill of rights that "all men have an equal, natural, and unalienable right to the free exercise of religion, according to the dictates of conscience," the legislature of that State substantially enacted the statute of James I., death penalty included, because, as recited in the preamble, "it hath been doubted whether bigamy or poligamy be punishable by the laws of this Commonwealth." 12 Hening's Stat. 691. From that day to this, we think it may safely be said there never has been a time in any State of the Union when polygamy has not been an offence against society, cognizable by the civil courts and punishable with more or less severity. In the face of all this evidence, it is impossible to believe that the constitutional guaranty of religious freedom was intended to prohibit legislation in respect to this most important feature of social life. Marriage, while from its very nature a sacred obligation, is nevertheless, in most civilized nations, a civil contract, and usually regulated by law. Upon it society may be said to be built, and out of its fruits spring social relations and social obligations and duties with which government is necessarily required to deal. In fact, according as monogamous or polygamous marriages are allowed, do we find the principles on which the government of the people, to a greater or less extent, rests. Professor, Lieber says, polygamy leads to the patriarchal principle, and which, when applied to large communities, fetters the people in stationary despotism, while that principle cannot long exist in connection with monogamy. Chancellor Kent observes that this remark is equally striking and profound. 2 Kent, Com. 81, note (e). An exceptional colony of polygamists under an exceptional leadership may sometimes exist for a time without appearing to disturb the social condition of the people who surround it; but there cannot be a doubt that, unless restricted by some form of constitution, it is within the legitimate scope of the power of every civil government to determine whether polygamy or monogamy shall be the law of social life under its dominion.


My point is that the Victorian value system that prompted the prohibition of polygamy in James' day, just as certainly prohibited homosexual behavior of any kind, and very possibly was a precursor to the sodomy laws many American states had on their books


I am aware that this is your point. I have no problem understanding what you think your point is. But your point is based on mistaken assumptions.

until the Supreme Court struck them down, a year or two back.


More than a year or two back.

If we can't count on Victorian ethics to give a sound moral judgement on the question of homosexuality, why should we allow it to make a sound moral judgement on the question of polygamy?


We don't count on Victorian ethics as to whether polygamy should be legally recognized. But legal recognition is not the same thing as decriminalization. You know, kind of like what has already been discussed in this thread.

To push forward laws legalizing gay marriage is to reject Victorian ethics; having rejected Victorian ethics, why in the world should we retain other laws based on Victorian ethics unless there's some other good reason separate from Victorian ethics to keep them in force?


There are rational bases for not legally recognizing polygamy that are not based on whatever you mean by "Victorian ethics." I personally don't care whether a state government wants to legally recognize a menage-a-trois marriage, but whether you personally agree with something isn't the issue. Among the many problems in your reasoning is that you continue to confuse a constitutional right to legal status with a political position to change how many people can participate in marriage. That's why there is my remark about black people voting if the speed limit is 85. Your "gay marriage, therefore three-way marriage" is the same kind of non sequitur. I'm not misunderstanding what you are saying. The problem isn't that your words don't make sense, it's that your conclusions don't follow your premises, and your premises are wrong, anyway.

That is the connection between legalizing gay marriage and legalizing marriage of polygamous triples. It has nothing to do with the sections of the Constitution their adherents used to try to justify them; it has everything to do with the Victorian-based laws that were in existence that opposed those legalizations.


No, it doesn't. Here is just one example of why you could argue for same-sex marriage but not legally recognized polygamy: divorce. Nothing about a divorce between two people would change if the two people are of the same sex. Their sex has nothing to do with dividing up the marital estate (debts and assets). But a marriage between three people is going to be problematic, especially if you are in an equitable distribution state (like Utah is). Why should one spouse who is leaving this arrangement be presumptively entitled to 1/3 of the marital assets when there are two other people who are still remaining in a marriage? How do you make that fair? Do you treat the whole arrangement as one gestalt marriage, or as three different marriages (husband-wife, husband-other wife, wife-wife)? What do you do about divorcing on the grounds of adultery if, say, a man is married to two women, and the two women decide to have sex with each other, but it was the man's understanding going into this marriage that the two wives would only have sex with him?

Those are secular legal problems that a state government could rationally wish to avoid, which have nothing to do with religion or whatever "Victorian ethics" are.

Mktavish wrote:And on the polls , that's fine , but we all know ofcourse those can be skewed to say what ever you want. I'm talking about how much of the worlds governing powers over how much of the world demographically does grant a license for gay marriage.

That's true. And even if the media is right and a majority of adults in the US do favor gay marriage, that doesn't necessarily mean a majority of actual people who will vote favor gay marriage.


So?

Currently, even with a newly re-elected president who favors gay marriage, there's practically no chance whatsoever that the Republican-controlled House will repeal the Defense of Marriage Act.


Funny how so many of our religious right Republican friends insist that defining marriage should be left up to the states unless we're talking about DOMA.

It's an open question whether US voters will elect a future congress that manages to make gay marriage legal nationwide.


Congress has no power to make any marriage of any kind legal nationwide.

Of course the Supreme Court is a whole different matter; with the delightfully unpredictable John Roberts in charge of it, it could legalize gay and lesbian marriage next month!


Whatever you mean by John Roberts being delightfully unpredicatable, the Supreme Court does not "legalize" gay marriage, and a victory for the respondents in Hollingsworth v. Perry will not "legalize" gay marriage. It would simply mean that once a state government creates the legal parameters of marriage, it has to give equal protection of law to all persons within that state, and cannot discriminate against a class of people unless there is a rational basis for doing so. Thus far, none of the petitioners or amici have offered a rational basis that actually exists in law (e.g., the childless geriatric marriage of Dallin H. Oaks sort of belies Kirton McConkie's assertion in its amicus brief that marriage as a legal relationship is about having and raising children).
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Darth J wrote:Polygamy has always been odious among the northern and western nations of Europe,

This doesn't say why polygamy "has always been odious among" those nations. Darth J, can you tell us why they found it so odious?

Darth J wrote:From that day to this, we think it may safely be said there never has been a time in any State of the Union when polygamy has not been an offence against society, cognizable by the civil courts and punishable with more or less severity.

Why is polygamy "an offence against society"? What is so bad about polygamy that it gets this condemnation?

Darth J wrote:Professor, Lieber says, polygamy leads to the patriarchal principle, and which, when applied to large communities, fetters the people in stationary despotism, while that principle cannot long exist in connection with monogamy.

I'm not sure what "the patriarchal principle" is that Lieber is referring to. Darth J, feel free to explain it to me if it would help, but largely I just want to know why polygamy would inherently lead to "stationary despotism" any more than monogamy would. What is it about polygamy that leads to any kind of despotism at all, in such a way that monogamy does not?

Darth J wrote:No, it doesn't. Here is just one example of why you could argue for same-sex marriage but not legally recognized polygamy: divorce. Nothing about a divorce between two people would change if the two people are of the same sex. Their sex has nothing to do with dividing up the marital estate (debts and assets). But a marriage between three people is going to be problematic, especially if you are in an equitable distribution state (like Utah is). Why should one spouse who is leaving this arrangement be presumptively entitled to 1/3 of the marital assets when there are two other people who are still remaining in a marriage? How do you make that fair?

Why would a divorce of a polygamous triple be any harder to resolve than a divorce of a monogamous couple? Why would giving the one spouse who's leaving a triple 1/3 of the marital assets be any less fair (or simplistic) than giving the one spouse who's leaving a couple 1/2 of the marital assets? You haven't given a clear reason why one type of divorce would be any more complicated than the other.

Darth J wrote:Do you treat the whole arrangement as one gestalt marriage,

Clearly as one gestalt marriage.

Darth J wrote:do you do about divorcing on the grounds of adultery if, say, a man is married to two women, and the two women decide to have sex with each other, but it was the man's understanding going into this marriage that the two wives would only have sex with him?

I thought that was what no fault divorce was for. It certainly applies to this kind of divorce no less than it applies anywhere else. You see, Darth J, the fact that you can bring up objections to legalizing the marriage of polygamous triples does not mean that good solutions can't be found to those objections. Clearly any member of a polygamous triple should be allowed to leave the marriage whenever s/he chooses to.

Darth J wrote:Those are secular legal problems that a state government could rationally wish to avoid, which have nothing to do with religion or whatever "Victorian ethics" are.

I have yet to see any insurmountable problems. Granted, the marriage of a polygamous triple is going to be more complex than the marriage of a monogamous couple. But is that, perhaps convenience, enough reason for a state government interested in fairness to make polygamous triples illegal?

Monogamy is itself a complicated arrangement. In a lot of ways it's much more simple for a single person to control a household. That single person can make all the decisions; there's nobody else (except perhaps minor children) to disagree with her/him. Does that mean that a household run by a single person is optimal? Hardly; there are a lot of other issues to consider. How then can we say that a household run by two people is any more optimal (in all situations) than one run by three people?
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Darth J, I need to ask a question here in order to resolve some logic issues that I thought of while reading that quote you included from the Reynolds decision.

In that decision, that Supreme Court used the fact that polygamy was banned in every colony and remained so in the states, even while the First Amendment rights were written into the Constitution, as evidence that prohibition of the government from such regulation of what constitutes marriage cannot have been included in the aim of the First Amendment.

It follows, then, that the question could be asked: given that gay marriage was excluded by every state law at the time the Fourteenth Amendment was ratified, and remained so afterwards, can this not be seen as evidence that the Fourteenth Amendment was never foreseen as providing homosexuals with claims for marriage rights based on the equal protection provisions of that amendment?

It would seem that the Reynolds court took for granted that what was important was what the First Amendment meant to those who framed it originally. They certainly wrote nothing in that opinion that would justify an expansive new evolution in its meaning.

It would seem to me that, based on this logic, a Fourteenth Amendment rejection of Prop 8 would rely on specifically not its original intent, but on a later meaning attached to it (an evolution of the meaning).

By the way, this same question exists all over the law when you think about it. Capital punishment by hanging, shooting, etc. were all ubiquitous when the Eighth Amendment was written, and for decades (centuries?) thereafter, and therefor it should be obvious that it was never intended that hanging, firing squad, etc. be considered "cruel and unusual punishment". What is the justification for now so deeming them?

note: I am not against gay marriage. I'm asking for the sake of resolving the question that came up while I read this.
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KevinSim wrote:
Darth J wrote:Polygamy has always been odious among the northern and western nations of Europe,

This doesn't say why polygamy "has always been odious among" those nations. Darth J, can you tell us why they found it so odious?


You're doing great, Kevin! I think it's very helpful to interject these questions about introductory material, when the Reynolds court was in the process of explaining why. Let me see if I can apply this technique: "The Declaration of Independence was dated July 4, 1776." "But can you tell me why men are endowed with certain inalienable rights?"

Darth J wrote:From that day to this, we think it may safely be said there never has been a time in any State of the Union when polygamy has not been an offence against society, cognizable by the civil courts and punishable with more or less severity.

Why is polygamy "an offence against society"? What is so bad about polygamy that it gets this condemnation?


"Many people have credited Thomas Jefferson for having a major role in drafting the Declaration of Independence." "But why are all men created equal?"

Darth J wrote:Professor, Lieber says, polygamy leads to the patriarchal principle, and which, when applied to large communities, fetters the people in stationary despotism, while that principle cannot long exist in connection with monogamy.

I'm not sure what "the patriarchal principle" is that Lieber is referring to. Darth J, feel free to explain it to me if it would help, but largely I just want to know why polygamy would inherently lead to "stationary despotism" any more than monogamy would. What is it about polygamy that leads to any kind of despotism at all, in such a way that monogamy does not?


http://verdict.justia.com/2011/07/20/si ... be-illegal

The Supreme Court [in Reynolds v. U.S.] also noted that the “patriarchal” principle typically leads to oppression. The Browns and their Stepford Wife-like existence are a perfect example.

Here you have one man who has one family with four subparts and who holds all the power. Typically, he spends his evening with the family he chooses. It is obvious that there is an equation in the family: one man = four women (or five women, or 10 women) and he is the one who will choose how many women are his equal.

Part of the pathos of the Sister Wives show comes when patriarch Kody Brown introduces a new wife and mom to the “sisters.” (Is anyone else as offended by the title of this show as I am, with its overtones of incest? Sisters have brothers; wives have husbands. It is just another marker of the women’s troubling, second-class status.) For those who believe in gender equality, this arrangement should be seen as more than just television entertainment; it is a recipe for oppression, and a foot in the door for the patriarchal principle that unfairly ruled our world not so long ago.

No collection of individuals—even those with their own reality-television show, or a set of religious beliefs—has the power or right to define what marriage is. That is the obligation and power of the state legislature. When marriage is defined, it also determines a wide range of issues, including who is responsible for which children, who inherits from whom, and who owns what. These are crucial constitutive elements of our society that cannot be left to the whim of each individual.

Utah has declared polygamy illegal, and for good public-policy reasons. When practiced in a community, it leads to the necessity of each man looking to younger and younger women, and the abandonment of some of the boys to make the odds work for the men. Even if the Brown clan can make polygamy look banal, as opposed to outright evil, the structure has a sure tendency to suppress women, foreclose the full flowering of their potential, and make children defenseless.


To pass the rational basis test, you don't have to agree with why such-and-such statute is the way it is. There just has to be a plausible, legitimate legislative purpose behind it. (Marci Hamilton's article here is right about the secular reasons for not recognizing plural marriages, but she is confusing the issue of actually recognizing plural marriage versus decriminalizing the private conduct of consenting adults who do not purport to be actually married.)

Darth J wrote:No, it doesn't. Here is just one example of why you could argue for same-sex marriage but not legally recognized polygamy: divorce. Nothing about a divorce between two people would change if the two people are of the same sex. Their sex has nothing to do with dividing up the marital estate (debts and assets). But a marriage between three people is going to be problematic, especially if you are in an equitable distribution state (like Utah is). Why should one spouse who is leaving this arrangement be presumptively entitled to 1/3 of the marital assets when there are two other people who are still remaining in a marriage? How do you make that fair?

Why would a divorce of a polygamous triple be any harder to resolve than a divorce of a monogamous couple? Why would giving the one spouse who's leaving a triple 1/3 of the marital assets be any less fair (or simplistic) than giving the one spouse who's leaving a couple 1/2 of the marital assets? You haven't given a clear reason why one type of divorce would be any more complicated than the other.


The reason you don't think this is complicated is because you've never represented a party in a divorce. Here's just one example of the kinds of problems this will cause: the marital home. Wife #1 wants to divorce the Husband. Wife #2 wants to stay married, and she and Husband want to stay in the house. Husband and Wife #2 made the down payment and all the mortgage payments so far. Wife #1 hasn't paid in money, but has exerted a lot of effort maintaining the house for several years. The way divorce law works in an equitable distribution state, Wife #1 is equitably entitled to a share of the equity in the home (I'm using the word "equity" twice because these are two different kinds of "equity" at issue here), even though she has paid no money out of pocket. So when she divorces Husband, she is presumptively entitled to 1/3 of the equity in the home, even though two other people want to stay married and live in it. Wife #2 now either has to help buy out Wife #1's share of the equity, or she has to sell or refinance the house and lose part of the accumulated value in the house, even though she's not the one getting divorced. So Wife #2 gets screwed because Wife #1 and Husband don't get along anymore. And since divorce is an equitable remedy in the first place, this is not a minor issue, to say the least.

Alimony is going to be even worse, as is dividing up retirement accounts. How are you going to equalize the standard of living that three people had together now that it's going to be either one person leaving and two still married, or all three now divorced because it only take one to veto the marriage altogether? You will inevitably screw one of the spouses in this three-way if one wants to pull the plug but the other two want to stay married. You will have to completely re-think and re-work a couple hundred years of American jurisprudence about what a marital estate is and what equitable remedies are available. That isn't the case when there are only two people in the marriage, regardless of what sex those two people are.

Darth J wrote:Do you treat the whole arrangement as one gestalt marriage,

Clearly as one gestalt marriage.


You really didn't think this through before you posted it, did you? Okay, all three people are all married to each other. So they have to have three-way sex to consummate the marriage. As hot as that might sound to some people, what if it's two men and one woman, or one man and two women, and they're all heterosexual? You just have to take one for the team so you can all be married, right? The state can say your marriage is voidable if you don't have homosexual relations at least once. There's your gestalt marriage, Kevin.

And if one person wants out of the marriage, he or she can force the remaining two spouses to end their marriage, too. That's what a gestalt marriage would mean.

Darth J wrote:do you do about divorcing on the grounds of adultery if, say, a man is married to two women, and the two women decide to have sex with each other, but it was the man's understanding going into this marriage that the two wives would only have sex with him?

I thought that was what no fault divorce was for. It certainly applies to this kind of divorce no less than it applies anywhere else.


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Not every jurisdiction has no-fault divorce. Utah, for example, does not have no-fault divorce. You always have to have legal grounds for a divorce in Utah, even if those grounds are just irreconcilable differences.

And not every divorce is in reality "no fault." If one of the spouses deliberately broke the marriage contract---by, say, committing adultery---then you can get a divorce on those grounds. A "fault" divorce can affect how a judge divides up the assets and liabilities of the marriage, because the judge can look at whose fault it is that the marriage is ending in determining what is fair under the circumstances. The hypothetical I gave is not a no-fault divorce, because 2/3 of the parties are at fault. It also means completely re-examining what "adultery" even means, and whether the subjective expectations of the parties are grounds for divorce (the expectation that my two wives are going to remain temple-worthy and not have sex with each other, since that's a grievous sin in Elohim's eyes).

You see, Darth J, the fact that you can bring up objections to legalizing the marriage of polygamous triples does not mean that good solutions can't be found to those objections.


That is SO NOT RELEVANT AT ALL TO ANY ISSUE THAT EXISTS IN REAL LIFE. The question is whether a state legislature's refusal to legally sanction a plural marriage has a rational basis. The answer is yes. Therefore, "if gay marriage, then three-person marriage" is a complete non sequitur. The reasons why the former is recognized in many U.S. jurisdictions, while the latter is recognized in none, are completely different. If you think three people should be married to each other, then that's a political question about changing marriage statutes. It's not a constitutional question of equal protection under the law. The two things have NOTHING TO DO WITH EACH OTHER.

Clearly any member of a polygamous triple should be allowed to leave the marriage whenever s/he chooses to.


That contradicts your idea that it should "clearly" be one gestalt marriage, just so you know.

Darth J wrote:Those are secular legal problems that a state government could rationally wish to avoid, which have nothing to do with religion or whatever "Victorian ethics" are.

I have yet to see any insurmountable problems. Granted, the marriage of a polygamous triple is going to be more complex than the marriage of a monogamous couple. But is that, perhaps convenience, enough reason for a state government interested in fairness to make polygamous triples illegal?


Yes, it is. The desire to avoid the problems altogether is a valid, rational reason under a state's general police power.

Monogamy is itself a complicated arrangement.


See: continuum fallacy

In a lot of ways it's much more simple for a single person to control a household. That single person can make all the decisions; there's nobody else (except perhaps minor children) to disagree with her/him.


That has absolutely nothing to do with the legal framework of what a marriage is.

Does that mean that a household run by a single person is optimal? Hardly; there are a lot of other issues to consider. How then can we say that a household run by two people is any more optimal (in all situations) than one run by three people?


You can't say anything about it at all, because "optimal" is a subjective idea that is going to be different for each individual, and different for each individual relationship, and subjective, variable standards aren't particularly useful in crafting general rules of law for a society.
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Sethbag wrote:Darth J, I need to ask a question here in order to resolve some logic issues that I thought of while reading that quote you included from the Reynolds decision.

In that decision, that Supreme Court used the fact that polygamy was banned in every colony and remained so in the states, even while the First Amendment rights were written into the Constitution, as evidence that prohibition of the government from such regulation of what constitutes marriage cannot have been included in the aim of the First Amendment.


Let me tell you why I think you are reading that too narrowly. Reynolds did not offer a religious or moral value judgment about why Congress could legitimately ban polygamy in U.S. territories. It referred to Western values against the "patriarchal principle," where a few men are de facto running a community. Here is some more about that idea: http://books.google.com/books?id=yf3J88 ... my&f=false

The reference to sources like Jefferson's famous "wall of separation between church and state" is talking about the principle that secular government gets to regulate secular conduct, and you can't rely on "my tribal god says I have to do this" to trump laws that are generally applicable to everyone in society. But Free Exercise law has a whole lot of nuance, so it's not quite as simple as I just said. For example, here's a case from Pennsylvania saying that Amish people have a constitutional right not to put traffic reflectors on their buggies because it offends their religious beliefs: http://www.aclu.org/religion-belief/pen ... tzentruber (Note that these Amish people making this freedom of religion claim were represented by the ACLU, because the ACLU consists of communist atheists who want to destroy the Constitution.)

It follows, then, that the question could be asked: given that gay marriage was excluded by every state law at the time the Fourteenth Amendment was ratified, and remained so afterwards, can this not be seen as evidence that the Fourteenth Amendment was never foreseen as providing homosexuals with claims for marriage rights based on the equal protection provisions of that amendment?


Can you make that argument if you are textual originalist? Yeah. And you can also make that argument to say that the drafters of the 14th Amendment never envisioned the result in Brown v. Board of Education. But the Constitution doesn't say how it is supposed to be interpreted. What you're talking about is textual originalism, which is a school of thought in constitutional construction that pretends to be objective but is just a "living constitution" with extra-smug sanctimoniousness. Here's Richard Posner, a federal appellate judge, talking about the problems with this kind of constitutional construction: http://www.newrepublic.com/article/maga ... riginalism

It would seem that the Reynolds court took for granted that what was important was what the First Amendment meant to those who framed it originally. They certainly wrote nothing in that opinion that would justify an expansive new evolution in its meaning.


But they went on to explain why polygamy is problematic for Western ideas about how society works, in real time (that "patriarchal principle" thing was in fact happening in Utah at the time they wrote that opinion). They didn't just say, "George Washington wasn't a polygamist, so case closed."

It would seem to me that, based on this logic, a Fourteenth Amendment rejection of Prop 8 would rely on specifically not its original intent, but on a later meaning attached to it (an evolution of the meaning).


Except that's not really the issue in Hollingsworth v. Perry. It is California that's defining marriage, not the federal government. And California does in fact have domestic partnerships for same-sex couples that are de facto marriages, so whatever would have been unthinkable to the drafters of the 14th Amendment is a moot point.

By the way, this same question exists all over the law when you think about it. Capital punishment by hanging, shooting, etc. were all ubiquitous when the Eighth Amendment was written, and for decades (centuries?) thereafter, and therefor it should be obvious that it was never intended that hanging, firing squad, etc. be considered "cruel and unusual punishment". What is the justification for now so deeming them?

note: I am not against gay marriage. I'm asking for the sake of resolving the question that came up while I read this.


Well, see, you're kind of wanting there to be an objective standard for how the Constitution is supposed to be interpreted. And there isn't one. And the reality is that even both people who do know what they're talking about (like Antonin Scalia) and people who don't know what they're talking about (like Droopy) wring their hands over the supposed leftist plot to supplant the text of the Constitution with a "living constitution," we do have a living Constitution, the interpretation of which changes as it has to be applied to a changing society, and liberals, conservatives, and moderates all do it.
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KevinSim wrote:... It takes an exceptional woman to realize that her marraige shouldn't be based on selfishness....


Kevin,

Are you saying that you really cannot see the offence in this statement that you posted earlier in the thread?
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Droopy wrote:That there is such a thing as authorized and legitimate manifestations of certain institutions, and others that are unlawful and unauthorized, seems confusing? That certain similar institutions that appear related on the surface can contain different elements, meaning, and motives, rendering them quite different in both intent and practice, in a moral and cultural sense, is confusing?

Ah, so that's why most Christian religions don't recognize mo-ism as a form a Christianity. Unlawful and unauthorized. Good to know.
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Bazooka wrote:Are you saying that you really cannot see the offence in this statement that you posted earlier in the thread?

In retrospect I can see why some people might take offense at this statement. But I reiterate that I didn't mean to offend when I made it. I was trying to make a statement that wasn't very complicated, but that was in fact true. I probably should have taken more time to say what I meant.
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MsJack wrote:I strongly suggest you at least skim the link I posted above. It's a 69-page court brief submitted by a chair of evolution at a university in Canada arguing against the legalization of polygamy. Whether you agree or disagree with his arguments against polygamy, I don't believe a single argument contained therein could be applied to gay marriage.



It needn't, because homosexual marriage is not now and never has been about homosexuals marrying per se; its about the overarching cultural and moral domestication and normalization of homosexuality, which is a substantial deviation from Judeo-Christian/Western social norms and as the history of the sexual revolution quite clearly shows, once one barrier is pulled down, others soon follow, and there is no specific, clearly defined limit - save human imagination and the remaining cultural thresholds still in place at a given time - to the continuing development and redefinitions of sexual "liberation."
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