I have a question wrote:kjones wrote:Why ex-Mormon haters devote such huge amounts of time and energy into debunking a religion they no longer believe in. It would be like Ben Carson, who was raised Seventh Day Adventist but no longer thinks of himself as such, spending hours and hours every week debunking Seventh Day Adventism.
Bad karma, it seems to me. Why don't you guys get a life? — and engage in some positive, instead of negative, pursuit.
Most non attending Mormons are still part of huge socially integrated member families.
Spending time researching and understanding the culture within which they were brought up and within which their families still live, is a hugely positive step. Discussing things in an open way, something that cannot be done at Church or within those member families, is again very positive and healthy. That you only see negative and make a negative criticism suggests the one with the issue might be closer to home...
Hmm. Maybe. But do you see Catholics doing this? Catholics who still have family inside and active in the Catholic church? How about Hasidic Jews who leave the Hasid community? You might see them seeking help, or counseling, about how to navigate the world, but you don't see them attacking the faith they once believed in.
I see this as a mostly Mormon phenomenon — or an ex-Mormon phenomenon. It always amazes me the amount of time ex-Mormons (i.e., people who were once devout Mormons but now are Mormon haters) devote to debunking their former faith.