Bride Gives Dad a 'Certificate of Her Virginity'

[_MissTish]

The creepiest daddy-daughter wedding ritual: Please don’t let these “certified” hymen inspections catch on


A woman's purity certificate shows how ignorant we still are the female body


Brelyn Bowman says that back when she was 13, she signed a “commitment contract,” cosigned by her parents, to “abstain from fornication (rubbing and petting) but keep myself until I am united in marriage to the young man that God is preparing for me.” And earlier this month, when she married gospel singer Tim Bowman, Jr., that contract ran out. After her Maryland wedding for 3,500 guests, the new Mrs. Bowman posted a photo of her dancing with her dad, Dr. Michael A. Freeman — the Founder and Pastor of Spirit of Faith Christian Center — with the caption, “Another one of my favs! Dancing with my first love! I was able to present a certificate of purity to him signed by my doctor that my hymen was still intact. Also the covenant he gave me when I was 13. When you honor God, your life will automatically honor others! I love you daddy @drmikefreeman.”

Freeman also posted a photo of himself with his daughter, smiling and holding their official, doctor signed “certificate of purity.” He also added the hashtags “#meetthebowmans #readyourbible #prayingforyou.”

The newly married couple, who have a Meet the Bowmans Web site and certainly seem to already believe that they’re in their own Christianity-themed reality show, have unsurprisingly received an intense amount of publicity for their hymen-themed announcement, much of it disparaging the “archaic” practice. But Freeman says, “I was totally unaware of what was about to take place. During the remarks, she shared that she wanted to honor me by not allowing any man to touch her before her husband.”

He adds that all three of his children signed similar pledges, and that while his other daughter gave him a purity certificate at her wedding, his son opted to get out of his contract early. And you will perhaps not be surprised that Bowman apparently did not get up and hand anybody a signed document swearing to his virginity.

I have two young daughters, and I really can’t imagine either of them handing them their dad a certificate of intact-ness at any future nuptial event. I don’t really get why a girl’s purity is something that even on her wedding day is any business of her parents, let alone everyone on Instagram. That’s not our family’s scene, but you do you, Freemans. And if Mrs. Bowman says she’s “So excited to share our story and encourage others to wait!” that’s just fine for her. I honestly don’t have enough hours in the day to rail against the numerous ways in which the cult of female purity is antiquated at best and profoundly misogynist at worst.

But I think it is worth questioning what the hell kind of doctor says, “Oh sure, I’ll get you this certificate of hymen integrity! I keep a stack in my drawer! Just hold up while I just check your vagina. Your dad will be so pleased.” Who goes to medical school to issue virginity diplomas?

More significantly, does anyone in any of this understand that hymen does not equal virgin? I believe that Brelyn Bowman is proud to have honored her contract to the letter, but generations of horny Catholic teens and Brigham Young University students will tell you, the human body was designed for all kind of sexual loopholes and sex is not just something that happens inside vaginas. It’s just that you can’t get a doctor’s certificate for your mouth, hands, or butt.

Conversely, a hymen is not a great indicator of what’s actually gone on down there. It’s just a tissue, that can be broken in any manner of ways long before a God-approved wedding night. So what happens to young women who’ve tightly held on to their V cards but lost their hymens? That stuff about horseback riding is real! Are they less pure because they can’t flaunt a certificate at their wedding reception? Of course not. So if you’re into vows of chastity, knock yourself out. Keep your virginity as long as you want. But please, lose the ignorance of what sex — and the female anatomy — truly are.

http://www.salon.com/2015/10/22/the_cre ... _catch_on/

[_The Erotic Apologist]

http://www.hymenshop.com/

[_SteelHead]

Get the 5 pack.

[_MissTish]

This is raunchy, but it's hilarious


http://youtu.be/j8ZF_R_j0OY

[_just me]

Just no.

[_Quasimodo]

Conversely, a hymen is not a great indicator of what’s actually gone on down there. It’s just a tissue, that can be broken in any manner of ways long before a God-approved wedding night. So what happens to young women who’ve tightly held on to their V cards but lost their hymens? That stuff about horseback riding is real! Are they less pure because they can’t flaunt a certificate at their wedding reception? Of course not. So if you’re into vows of chastity, knock yourself out. Keep your virginity as long as you want. But please, lose the ignorance of what sex — and the female anatomy — truly are.

http://www.salon.com/2015/10/22/the_cre ... _catch_on/

A hymen can also can remain intact after coitus. There is no reliable (or even unreliable) way of testing a males virginity. Since virginity testing is unreliable for both sexes, why bother?

Seriously, does it really matter? Silly people. If potential mates signed an affidavit promising to never abuse their spouse, it would mean a lot more to me.

[_Jersey Girl]

The one and only thing that bugs me about this story is that she felt a need to get a doctor to verify it in writing when her word should have sufficed. But it's not my thing, so it's not really my call to make.

She's on Facebook, by the way, and it looks like all her posts are public. She's a very beautiful woman and looks so happy in her wedding pics!

[_moksha]

A hymen can also can remain intact after coitus.

Are you talking about that old rubber cement and bubble gum trick?

[Guest]

A hymen can also can remain intact after coitus.

Are you talking about that old rubber cement and bubble gum trick?

It's a tricky manoeuvre and usually very temporary. I've heard that a trip to the Virgin Islands to get renewed works better.

[_ludwigm]

Swaziland rulez !

http://www.234today.com/2015/08/in-swaz ... girls.html -

IN SWAZILAND, KING PUBLICLY TEST GIRLS VIRGINITY BEFORE CHOOSING A WIFE [PHOTOS]
As seems to be the tradition in Swaziland, King Mswati reportedly tested girls virginity before choosing a wife for himself.

In 2012, Dailymail reported that topless virgins were paraded in front of the Swazi King, to celebrate chastity and unity.

Now, photos have been released showing under aged* girls being publicly checked to ascertain that their virginity was still intact.
All this was done in a bid to help King Mswati choose a wife.

Many consider this babaric* and backward but it seems to be a tradition the people willingly live by.

(*the spelling is from original)


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(the pic censoring is the editor's courtesy; apparently they know the limits of this site)

EDA
The article is unaccurate even in other way; it says "choose a wife". Should be "choose one more wife". That is, King Mswati III currently has 15 wives. He was crowned in 1986. Apparently Swazi law says the king should choose the addition in every other year...

[MODERATOR NOTE: ludwigm, never, EVER, EVER label a picture as "NOT NSFW" if it is, indeed, NSFW.]