Kevin Graham wrote:
This seems to dovetail nicely with what he said before, that he evolved on the issue. It seems legit to me. I mean why drag his daughters into this years later when, according to you, Obama does nothing unless there is a political benefit of some kind. Makes no sense. Especially when his daughters are now old enough to know their father is lying about them.
So, to answer my question, you
do think David Axelrod is a liar when he said he convinced Obama to ignore his personal belief in gay marriage and come out in favor of civil unions as a compromise to not alienate support of black social conservatives. Ok. You also don't find Obama's path from supporting to opposing to supporting gay marriage and all that entailed to be implausible. Ok. And you don't find his evolving language to be weird and inappropriately ambiguous in the context you think it was used. Ok, again.
But then what we are left with is the simple fact that Obama's words were widely interpreted by the LBGT community as him supporting gay marriage, but waiting until the time is right to come publicly in favor of it (again). Obama had to be aware of this common view, and did nothing to correct it by explaining that no, he really does oppose gay marriage and he's not signaling that.
Humorously, I think this is far worse than the mere political expediency he's widely viewed to have engaged in. In order to rescue him, you've made him worse by implicitly accusing him of a worse form of political expediency.
What I think about the daughter's quote is that if you read between the lines, he's probably saying that they played a role in convincing him not to dishonestly come out against gay marriage when he personally believed in it. I'm sure that Obama thought his pragmatic compromise wasn't that big of a deal since civil unions entailed the rights of marriage. It's perfectly possible he was later convinced that this veiled compromise was actually still quite harmful/wrong due to stigmatizing effects.
Or, to quote the exact post of mine you are responding to:
Let me suggest to you that Obama personally favored gay marriages, became willing to compromise on the issue for his personal ambition by advocating for civil unions that entail all the same rights as marriage if not the name, then later found that compromise unnecessary. He may have discovered that compromise was more harmful than he thought, but that's distinct from representing a public stance he did not believe in privately.
according to you, Obama does nothing unless there is a political benefit of some kind.
Feel free to quote me saying that Strawmany McStraman.