MG wrote:Do you have any clue as to how silly you sound?
Well yes, I sound as silly as you do when you assume that open-mindedness towards your beliefs is the only rational option for any and every person. That was the point.
I was born and raised LDS, MG, I graduated seminary, I served a mission, graduated BYU, paid tithing; for the most part was a dyed-in-the-wool believer for the first half of my life. Over a few years, I came to the painful conclusions that the Church isn't true and I also came to believe there is no God.
Sure, I could have come to the wrong conclusion, but if you think after all of that effort, that I'm simply guilty of black-and-white thinking, and I automatically don't give God a chance, then your criteria for remaining open-minded is extraordinarily high. I'll make you a deal: If you move to Syria for just one year, and use that time to get to know at least 10 ISIS members, and take the time to learn about ISIS from the source, and really "plant the seed" as the Book of Mormon says we must do, and see if it will sprout and begin to grow, and after that you decide it isn't for you, then I'll let your one year count the same as my 20+ years, and we can both say of each other that we're pretty open minded, fair thinkers. But until then, I'm sorry, but I win: between the two of us, you are the binary thinker.
You might not understand, MG, that "give it a chance" works both ways: it's not just others who always have to give your beliefs a chance when they seem wrong to them, but you must give their beliefs a chance when their beliefs seem wrong to you. You are willing to only give other beliefs a chance when they don't fundamentally contradict yours. You set a double standard, as obviously people who don't give your beliefs a chance are just doing the same thing -- a bridge too far.
In other words, your heuristic of looking for dogmatism in others is one-sided, and of zero value.
We can't take farmers and take all their people and send them back because they don't have maybe what they're supposed to have. They get rid of some of the people who have been there for 25 years and they work great and then you throw them out and they're replaced by criminals.