Open-mindedness vs. Close-mindedness

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MishMagnet wrote:But HOW are people supposed to know if they are being deceived? I am very devoted to my husband but a certain amount of evidence would convince me that he was having an affair - despite his arguments that he wasn't. People that have gotten themselves in false religions - how are they supposed to know they are being deceived and that the feelings they feel are not from God?


That's exactly right. What David Bokovoy said recently seems to be what charity is getting at: there are certain "truths" that are beyond questioning. So, believers can be "open-minded" only to the extent that the truths they accept are not challenged.
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Before - Satan's influence is very real

After - He doesn't deserve the credit. I've concluded it's about time I took responsibility for all of my thoughts, words and actions - including the ones I permit to "pop" into my head and bypass the filter.

Dog Chapman seems to have noted something like this as well this past week or so.

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Post by _charity »

Chap wrote:
There are people on this board who have been through an experience like that in terms of their belief in Joseph Smith as a prophet, and in some cases in their belief in God.

Say what you like about your own state of commitment - but don't tell these people that they are not 'open-minded' because they are never going to come back to where you still are.


Wouldn't real open mindedness leave room for a change of mind a second time for them as they changed their minds once?
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Great thread Guy, thanx.

For Charity:

I think it took a tremendous amount of open-mindedness to leave the Mormon church. I had everything in the world trying to keep me there. Family legacy, immediate family, a wanting and desire for it to be true for 35+ years and also trying to make it true and years of living it and faking it, etc. etc. I had my whole life invested in this belief system and way of life. I cannot see how you can consider someone closed-minded who can walk away from all of it as I did about 20 years ago.

Now, why can I predict the common TBM reply? Oh why? I didn't study enough, didn't pray enough, wasn't patient long enough, I wanted to go sin outside of the church, someone hurt my feelings, and on and on. But it was none those, it was a preponderance of the facts. The scale tipped out of favor for the church and tipped to it was not true, but all a man-made, 19th century creation.

It took an open mind to get to that conclusion, a closed mind would have me back there "keepin' on keepin' on" for twenty more years.
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charity wrote:
Chap wrote:
There are people on this board who have been through an experience like that in terms of their belief in Joseph Smith as a prophet, and in some cases in their belief in God.

Say what you like about your own state of commitment - but don't tell these people that they are not 'open-minded' because they are never going to come back to where you still are.


Wouldn't real open mindedness leave room for a change of mind a second time for them as they changed their minds once?


Almost thou persuadest me to become little sharp with you. The people I am referring to, to pursue my analogy, feel that they have in effect come home early and found the husband in bed with the maid. Or they have found the discarded condom in the back of the car after the 'long evening of urgent work at the office'. Anyone who is open-minded after that is in need of psychiatric help. They know their partner is an adulterous liar, and there is no going back to the time before they knew that.
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charity wrote:
Chap wrote:
There are people on this board who have been through an experience like that in terms of their belief in Joseph Smith as a prophet, and in some cases in their belief in God.

Say what you like about your own state of commitment - but don't tell these people that they are not 'open-minded' because they are never going to come back to where you still are.


Wouldn't real open mindedness leave room for a change of mind a second time for them as they changed their minds once?


Charity, sorry I didn't add this to my list of common TBM replies in my last post.

I have kept an open-mind since I left the church. I haven't stopped studying it for that last 20 years. I been on the internet heavy for the last 4-5 years studying with an open-mind. Show me something, please. No one, not you or FAIR or FARMS has shown enough to tip the scales back in favor of the church. It all boils down to, as every TBM argument does, a feeling in the heart or bosom just like I can get from watching Braveheart.

Now the next common TBM reply: I'm obsessed with the church, I can leave the church but I can't leave it alone.

And you think that takes a closed-mind rather than an open one?
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For all those "open minded" enough to seriously consider, not only once, but for a second time, the proposition that a space alien from Kolob along with a series of dead indian warriors visited a farmboy and led him to a magic rock, here's a site that could keep you busy for the rest of your life:

http://www.crank.net/contents.html
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charity wrote:
Chap wrote:
There are people on this board who have been through an experience like that in terms of their belief in Joseph Smith as a prophet, and in some cases in their belief in God.

Say what you like about your own state of commitment - but don't tell these people that they are not 'open-minded' because they are never going to come back to where you still are.


Wouldn't real open mindedness leave room for a change of mind a second time for them as they changed their minds once?


Not necessarily. It depends on the issue and on the context. To take an extreme example, if one used to believe that blacks were inherently inferior to whites, but who experienced a change of mind, do we consider her to be closed minded if she doesn't leave open the option to come back around to the opinion that blacks are indeed inherently inferior? In some cases, the weight evidence, and the totality of human experience, have effectively settled the issue.

If one used to believe that the Halocaust was a hoax, but has since become convinced that it happened, do we think him closed minded if he considers the issue settled?

As for Mormonism, I, like many others, left because of evidence against it was overwhelming. It's not one thing, but its all of it together: a philandering, lying, manipulative founding Prophet; a blantantly 19th century work of fiction masquerading as an ancient text; a belief in a world-wide flood and other obvious fables, such as Adam and Eve; granting of divine status to a book that glorifies mass murder; the worship of a egotistical, capricious, cruel God; the chattelization of women; the overt racism and bigotry of its leaders; the creation of personality cults around falible humans; the institutionalized sexism and homo-phobia; the constant lagging behind human rights advances; the elevation of emotion over reason; the routine failure of prayer; the routine failure of priesthood blessings; the sexualization and trivialization of morality; the patently fraudulent "translation" of ancient funeral texts; the perpetuation and cover-up of mass murder; etc, etc.. All these add up to a damning indictment of Mormonism's truth claims. A few spurious parallels between the PofGP and ancient texts are not enough to tip the scale. Sorry.

Based on the evidence, I judge the probability that it's true to be no better than, say, .001. I'm open to evidence, but I've seen most of it, and I don't find it compelling. It hasn't changed my estimation of the probability.

Also, I can't help but wonder, how open are you personally that Islam is the true religion? Or Judaism? Or Evangelical Christianity? Or Shintoism? You consider those issues settled, and you don't mind if we think the same, but you want us to privilege your religion by leaving the door open that it might be true. But why should we privilege Mormonism in such a way? Why not privilege one of the other "major" religions? Why privilege this tiny, inisignificant sect that has left almost no footprint on human history?
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Gadianton wrote:For all those "open minded" enough to seriously consider, not only once, but for a second time, the proposition that a space alien from Kolob along with a series of dead indian warriors visited a farmboy and led him to a magic rock, here's a site that could keep you busy for the rest of your life:

http://www.crank.net/contents.html


I think this very well may be my last post ever on this board. Thanks Gad for my new hobby. :)
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barrelomonkeys wrote:I think this very well may be my last post ever on this board. Thanks Gad for my new hobby. :)


NOOOOOOOO!!!!!


I've been anti-capital punishment and pro-gay marriage for as long as I can remember. I've modified my views on the abortion issues before I even joined the Church; I would prefer to think I would never do it myself under most circumstances, but the truth is, just because you have a uterus, it doesn't mean you are obligated to let something live in it.

I've always thought polygamy and polyamory were disgusting. But I have a family member who used to live with two partners, and there is really nothing wrong with that as long as everybody gives their consent.

Near the end of my TBMness I frequented a polygynist chat room in order to see if there are any benefits to polygyny, what with it being practiced in the CK and all, and they showed me that the Bible does not explicitly prohibit polygyny anywhere, hence Christian polygamists for you. And in general, there were some pretty nice people and whatever works for them, works for them, as long as they are not coercing anyone. Not for me, though.

So I'm okay with polygamists now way more than I was as a TBM, ironically. I definitely think it should be decriminalized and maybe even legalized, but that would be pretty hard, IMHO.

I still think God is real, but allow the possibility that it's not true. There is no rational basis for my belief in God, anyhow.

Don't think the Church is true anymore, obviously.

Always been against the Iraq war and wars in general.

Think marijuana should be legalized; more serious drugs - probably not.

Adultery still wrong.
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