Apologists and Critics at War?

The catch-all forum for general topics and debates. Minimal moderation. Rated PG to PG-13.
_harmony
_Emeritus
Posts: 18195
Joined: Fri Oct 27, 2006 1:35 am

Post by _harmony »

Ray A wrote:
harmony wrote:
Ray A wrote:As far as personal insults are concerned, surely you can't argue that Pahoran's are any worse than the personal insults we've seen here against Mormons, and individual Mormons? Isn't that kind of looking at it from one point of view? When people write "F*** Christ, F*** Joseph Smith, F*** Mormonism, and post ridiculing cartoons of the prophets, what do you expect people like Pahoran to do, lie down and die in the gutter?


If Pahoran holds a temple recommend, is striving to be worthy to enter the CK, is trying to endure to the end, then the answer to this question is a resounding YES. It's called turning the other cheek, and is a requirement of entrance into the CK.

If he doesn't hold a temple recommend, he's not living church standards anyway, so it's just one more thing to add to his detriment.


Have you been "Christlike" in your "assessments" of DCP? Never judged?

D'ya hold a temple rec? Turned the "other cheek"?


The day I hold myself to the standard of "apologist", you can castigate me for my lack of humility, Ray. Until then, we can safely assume God has no intention of putting me in a kingdom where I refuse to live the basics, so the argument is moot. I'm on an entirely different trajectory than the likes of Pahoran and those with whom he associates.
_Gadianton
_Emeritus
Posts: 9947
Joined: Sat Jul 07, 2007 5:12 am

Post by _Gadianton »

Internet Mormons love the fact that Jesus went ape in the temple. They've used this many times to justify their vigorous "defense". What Jesus did once in his 3 year ministry, they get to do every day. And funny thing, Jesus nowhere indicated his disciples were authorized to do the same. In fact, he seems to indicate "judgement is his" and that he will forgive who he will while we are required to forgive everyone.

Of course, I don't expect Mormons to really hold to those high standards. I realize that there is no God nor Christ, and that Internet Mormons suffer from at least all the same failings I do and will behave at least as badly.

For the record, as I was explaining to Scratch the other day, I like Pahoran and I consider him a friend. I will also say that when I was on mod on Z, I was typically more forgiving of Pahoran's actions than the LDS mods were. I'd love for him to come over to our forum. I can honestly say that I'm pretty sure if we were nieghbors, we'd get along great. I'd have no problem inviting him over for a bbq and a beer.
Lou Midgley 08/20/2020: "...meat wad," and "cockroach" are pithy descriptions of human beings used by gemli? They were not fashioned by Professor Peterson.

LM 11/23/2018: one can explain away the soul of human beings...as...a Meat Unit, to use Professor Peterson's clever derogatory description of gemli's ideology.
_Ray A

Post by _Ray A »

Gadianton wrote:For the record, as I was explaining to Scratch the other day, I like Pahoran and I consider him a friend. I will also say that when I was on mod on Z, I was typically more forgiving of Pahoran's actions than the LDS mods were. I'd love for him to come over to our forum. I can honestly say that I'm pretty sure if we were nieghbors, we'd get along great. I'd have no problem inviting him over for a bbq and a beer.


If I was Pahoran, I'd be very wary of your invitation. First of all, he doesn't drink beer. Second of all, why would he "drink beer" with someone who associates with Scratch, as one of his "informants"?
_Ray A

Post by _Ray A »

Gadianton wrote:
For the record, as I was explaining to Scratch the other day, I like Pahoran and I consider him a friend. I will also say that when I was on mod on Z, I was typically more forgiving of Pahoran's actions than the LDS mods were. I'd love for him to come over to our forum. I can honestly say that I'm pretty sure if we were nieghbors, we'd get along great. I'd have no problem inviting him over for a bbq and a beer.


I realise you're probably too inebriated to reply now, which shows in your post, but maybe tomorrow?
_moksha
_Emeritus
Posts: 22508
Joined: Fri Oct 27, 2006 8:42 pm

Post by _moksha »

Ray A wrote:
Gadianton wrote:
For the record, as I was explaining to Scratch the other day, I like Pahoran and I consider him a friend. I will also say that when I was on mod on Z, I was typically more forgiving of Pahoran's actions than the LDS mods were. I'd love for him to come over to our forum. I can honestly say that I'm pretty sure if we were neighbors, we'd get along great. I'd have no problem inviting him over for a BBQ and a beer.


I realize you're probably too inebriated to reply now, which shows in your post, but maybe tomorrow?


I think he may be onto something. Is there any reason to assume that Pahoran would be equally abrasive in his life outside the internet? He might be quite different at a barbecue. Perhaps I was too hasty before in suggesting he remain outside as a lookout when we fired off the BFG 10K.




(I was hoping someone would come up with a list of other Mormon critics to be saved in the bunker)
Cry Heaven and let loose the Penguins of Peace
_beastie
_Emeritus
Posts: 14216
Joined: Thu Nov 02, 2006 2:26 am

Post by _beastie »

Someone like Pahoran is only "effective" in allowing True Believers the vicarious pleasure of attacking critics in personal ways that they won't allow themselves to do. If a person is truly wavering and struggling with doubts due to discovering new information about church history or claims, he is counter productive due to his willingness to assume the "worst" about the person's motives and begin the attack.

Of course, there are quite a few other MADdites who treat doubters with disdain and attacks, but usually not quite as openly as Pahoran.


So I guess whether or not he's "effective" depends upon what one's goal really is in defense of the faith. I believe the real purpose of defense of the faith isn't to help those wavering or doubting, but rather to make True Believers - those who will never stop believing, no matter what - feel better. It may make them feel better by telling them that really smart people with PhDs have studied this and can reassure them that they should continue believing, or it may make them feel better by venting and engaging in personal attacks on critics. After all, the critics are on Satan's side, so they "should" be attacked. Some MADdites are too PC to do so openly, but they certainly seem to enjoy it when other, less PC comrades, indulge in their behalf. (I will qualify that not ALL MADdites do enjoy it, I knew several believers on Z who wanted Pahoran to be banned permanently due to his behavior.)

Sometimes I suspect that defenders of the faith realize that there are really no good defenses of certain issues, and that someone who is genuinely questioning and wavering will probably not be convinced by the arguments they can muster up. So, in a way, the loss of those kind of folks is inevitable, and the people to really focus on is True Believers.
We hate to seem like we don’t trust every nut with a story, but there’s evidence we can point to, and dance while shouting taunting phrases.

Penn & Teller

http://www.mormonmesoamerica.com
_Infymus
_Emeritus
Posts: 1584
Joined: Thu Dec 21, 2006 7:10 pm

Post by _Infymus »

Ray A wrote:As far as personal insults are concerned, surely you can't argue that Pahoran's are any worse than the personal insults we've seen here against Mormons, and individual Mormons? Isn't that kind of looking at it from one point of view? When people write "F*** Christ, F*** Joseph Smith, F*** Mormonism, and post ridiculing cartoons of the prophets, what do you expect people like Pahoran to do, lie down and die in the gutter?


Hey, I resemble that statement.

I wrote, "What *if* I said", I haven't yet written it in full context. Give me some more time and I probably will.

War? I still don't see a war.

Pahoran, or whoever this guy is over at MAAD is protected by MAAD, nobody will ever be really able to tell him what for.

Jason Bourne and Nehor - I think you want to say F* you to people like me. I wish you'd just out and say it, rather than hide behind the guise of being so "holier than thou". I think it would be good therapy for you. Unfortunately, I think you'd have to deal with your own guilt for doing so. Just come out and say it, you won't hurt my feelings.

Gaz, well, the guy is just nutts. Hardcore. He'd dress up as an Ex-Mo and cut off your head if he could, all in defending the Corporation. The guy seems to have no sense of compassion as it is all black and white. Obey, kill for the Lord, burn the wicked, et all. The only other place I've seen this kind of hard core militant Mormon was on the Mormon Zion's Camp boards. Those white and delightsome Mormons over there remind me of a bunch of Danites.

Harmony and Liz, you fence sitters. You mingle with both sides and do nothing. At least your messages don't start out with personal attacks and character assassinations.

Jason Bourne or “Mr Strawman", who will call you an idiot, a dumb ass and other personal attacks to get his point across. What war is that?

Charity? My favorite insane "fingers-in-her-ears" TBM? "That has already been debated" and "Oh, and we have the truth on our side." Absolutely worthless. Has no opinion of anything except quoting everyone else.

Mercury? I don't even know where you stand dude.

Daniel C. Peterson? Well, his stint here was short as he had no power here. He had no hidden moderators who could squelch those in opposition to him. He had to run back to the safety of MAAD.

What war?

There is no goddamn war.

There is just straight up bickering and personal attacks on both sides. And even the positive messages written by Shades, or Mr. Scratch, or even Runtu (dude, next to scratch, and because I personally met you, I have a lot of respect for you), there is NO WAR.

Look, even if you debate down to the longest wind of any kind of item - such as Joseph Smith, was he really a martyr? You will find that there is NO WIN. You finally have to agree to disagree.

Mormons will always start with the fact that the "Church Is True" (Patent Pending) and work from there. Ex-Mormons will always start with logic and evidence and work from there. In the end, it will always be the position of the Mormon to defend the faith - even in the face of all evidences; the Trump card of "I know the Church is True" will be played. You cannot win, there is no goddamn win!

When I left the Church and started reading the dreaded Anti-Mormon literature, I still had a tinge in my heart that I might find something that would lead me back to the truth. And what I found was evidence after evidence that showed just how much of a fraud it really was. Compound that after years of studying hundreds of facets of Mormon history, there was no way I could ever say it was true again.

If you want to look at it as a war, then look at it from their (Mormon) perspective. They are so caught up in the myth of Mormonism that they see themselves as "God Warriors".

Remember her?

Image

I AM A GOD WARRIOR!!!

Or better yet for Mormons, they see themselves as Stripling Warriors.

They see the need to defend in an almost magical, mystical way that evidences or real truth cannot touch. They are beyond those barriers. Hell, I did it myself when I was hardcore TBM. I refused to look at the real evidence. I manufactured truth in my own mind and purposefully blocked out what I could not comprehend. The word we use now is “cognitive dissonance.” I would NOT see what I did NOT want to see.

I have been debating FOR Mormonism far far longer that I have ever debated against. I have never seen a win, ever. Period. The so-called “War” is a manufactured term placed into the heads of so-called “Apologists” to justify their way of looking at the world through Mormon Colored Glasses.

I have far more respect for Mormons who begin to look at the religion critically and begin to look over the dreaded “forbidden material”. It is far easier to live the fantasy that it is true than to examine the evidence and realize the emperor has no clothes. Once that realization has been made, there is no turning back. This, I believe, is the fear that Apologists live with. It drives them. They have to deal with the “Anti-Mormon” literature and because of this, they are more aware of the issues than your standard “Chapel Mormon”. People like DCP have to write ten thousand word documents that obfuscate, character assassinate, subject change and go off in a dozen different directions. It is done not only to confuse, but to help confuse and obfuscate not only others, but themselves. They do NOT want to arrive at the conclusion that the critic MAY be right. And people like DCP also have to always take the position that the Church Is True, otherwise, FARMS (or whatever the hell they want to call themselves now) may not get that $21 million dollars a year in funding – and DCP may end up on the line with his job. He has to defend, or he will loose it all.

Really, in the end, there is no war. There is only he said, she said, they said. Do we agree or do we agree to disagree? That is all.
_Gazelam
_Emeritus
Posts: 5659
Joined: Thu Oct 26, 2006 2:06 am

Post by _Gazelam »

Gaz, well, the guy is just nutts. Hardcore. He'd dress up as an Ex-Mo and cut off your head if he could, all in defending the Corporation. The guy seems to have no sense of compassion as it is all black and white. Obey, kill for the Lord, burn the wicked, et all. The only other place I've seen this kind of hard core militant Mormon was on the Mormon Zion's Camp boards. Those white and delightsome Mormons over there remind me of a bunch of Danites.



Your latest barrage of propaganda in our little war does little to deter our efforts. You shall eventually be overcome and the truth shall prevail!

Despite our differences, I still remain civil and salute you sir.

Image
We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. - Plato
_Jersey Girl
_Emeritus
Posts: 34407
Joined: Wed Oct 25, 2006 1:16 am

Post by _Jersey Girl »

Infymus
Gaz, well, the guy is just nutts. Hardcore. He'd dress up as an Ex-Mo and cut off your head if he could, all in defending the Corporation. The guy seems to have no sense of compassion as it is all black and white. Obey, kill for the Lord, burn the wicked, et all. The only other place I've seen this kind of hard core militant Mormon was on the Mormon Zion's Camp boards. Those white and delightsome Mormons over there remind me of a bunch of Danites.


Ah character assassination, how very MADesque.
_Mercury
_Emeritus
Posts: 5545
Joined: Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:14 pm

Post by _Mercury »

Apologists and critics are diametrically opposed. I can't get why the apologists continue to being proud of boldly going where no respectable academic would venture.
And crawling on the planet's face
Some insects called the human race
Lost in time
And lost in space...and meaning
Post Reply