Where I will be...

[_jskains]

He resurrected it when Josh arrived? Hmmm... I might have to reassess. My personal dislike of Scratch is based on current history, beastie, not something he/she might have said or disclosed 5 years ago in the past. The mob scene here was totally disgusting.

And now I'm done with it.

Feel free to continue hammering away at Josh throughout the day, into the night and the middle of next week if you feel the need. I won't participate in this further.

My mistake is giving in to the desire to defend myself against Josh's accusations, ie, that I was simply attacking him (calling him a depressed, diabetic fool, in his own words). I should simply shrug and walk away. My attempts to defend myself by providing context have been interpreted by Josh - and you - as hammering attacks.

In addition, I'm iced in this weekend without my boyfriend so I have too much time on my hands.

But in your "defense" you simply kept up your attack. Instead, you could have stepped back and said "I really do not know this guy enough at all to accurately make an armchair pop pyschological statement about his mental health"

OR, if you REALLY were concerned about my mental health, you could have privately PMed me the concern. Instead you made a public spectical with can only be interpreted as either a cry for attention or a vicious attack.

Let me ask you this, how many psychologists broadcast their findings to the public? How many, if the law allowed, would want to?

This is why I don't believe the ones who claim to be trained mental health experts. They are violating many of the basics.

JMS

[_OUT OF MY MISERY]

Don't let the door hit you on the ass as you leave

[_jskains]

Don't let the door hit you on the ass as you leave

Why not bite my ass? :)

JMS

[_the road to hana]

Don't swim in toxic waters with bottom feeders, Josh.

Jersey Girl is right. Why not go over to FAIR/MAD and see how long you last there?

You might think people are intolerant here, and that this is a hostile environment to you. But whatever this is, there is a greater mix that exists and less restrictive moderation. Try going over there and telling them how badly treated you were here. They believe same as you; see how sympathetic they are.

I doubt you'd last 24 hours over there. Even Jersey Girl knows that.

Whatever this is, it's still a place you can talk, vent, argue, discuss, even distract if you want. I doubt there's another forum right now that discusses things Mormon that would give you as much latitude. But you're welcome to prove that wrong.

[_beastie]

Are you honestly saying a gangup DID NOT occur? Are you denying that?

Are you SERIOUS? Of course a gangup occurred.

Josh, you created a seven minute youtube video bashing this site.

What do you THINK is going to happen?

This is just one more example of the disconnect you demonstrate between YOUR statements and actions, and the REACTIONS of others.

But in your "defense" you simply kept up your attack. Instead, you could have stepped back and said "I really do not know this guy enough at all to accurately make an armchair pop pyschological statement about his mental health"

OR, if you REALLY were concerned about my mental health, you could have privately PMed me the concern. Instead you made a public spectical with can only be interpreted as either a cry for attention or a vicious attack.

Let me ask you this, how many psychologists broadcast their findings to the public? How many, if the law allowed, would want to?

This is why I don't believe the ones who claim to be trained mental health experts. They are violating many of the basics.

Oh, for heaven's sake. I'm not pretending to be a psychologist. I told you to get help, and when I was attacked for that, I defended myself by providing the context for my statement. That context also feels like an attack to you. So what in the world do you want from me? I'm not going to say I was wrong for advising you to get help, given the information I was working with. Now, maybe you are just really bad at expressing your thoughts on the internet, and those thoughts that alarmed me this time, and alarmed me in the past, do not accurately represent your thoughts. But how in the world am I supposedly to magically know that?

by the way, the tone of your unsolicited PMs to me persuades me that PMing you would have resulted in an even worse reaction than this did, because you would feel less inhibited in your language.

[_jskains]

Are you honestly saying a gangup DID NOT occur? Are you denying that?

Are you SERIOUS? Of course a gangup occurred.

Josh, you created a seven minute youtube video bashing this site.

What do you THINK is going to happen?

This is just one more example of the disconnect you demonstrate between YOUR statements and actions, and the REACTIONS of others.

But in your "defense" you simply kept up your attack. Instead, you could have stepped back and said "I really do not know this guy enough at all to accurately make an armchair pop pyschological statement about his mental health"

OR, if you REALLY were concerned about my mental health, you could have privately PMed me the concern. Instead you made a public spectical with can only be interpreted as either a cry for attention or a vicious attack.

Let me ask you this, how many psychologists broadcast their findings to the public? How many, if the law allowed, would want to?

This is why I don't believe the ones who claim to be trained mental health experts. They are violating many of the basics.

Oh, for heaven's sake. I'm not pretending to be a psychologist. I told you to get help, and when I was attacked for that, I defended myself by providing the context for my statement. That context also feels like an attack to you. So what in the world do you want from me? I'm not going to say I was wrong for advising you to get help, given the information I was working with. Now, maybe you are just really bad at expressing your thoughts on the internet, and those thoughts that alarmed me this time, and alarmed me in the past, do not accurately represent your thoughts. But how in the world am I supposedly to magically know that?

by the way, the tone of your unsolicited PMs to me persuades me that PMing you would have resulted in an even worse reaction than this did, because you would feel less inhibited in your language.

Why, cause I called you an arrogant bitch? Perhaps that was a bit out of line, but you were acting like one.

JMS

[_OUT OF MY MISERY]

Josh
So you are really leaving this board? I got all excited for nothing. Maybe you can start a topic about why you are staying. Like i said before you are enjoying this. You like to piss people off and see their reactions. I have never seen such a feeding frenzy like this. You have not made a good impression here. You have made things a bit more interesting though, I will give you that.

[_beastie]

Why, cause I called you an arrogant bitch? Perhaps that was a bit out of line, but you were acting like one.

Well, to be more exact, "screw you you arrogant bitch" along with threats to sue me for libel.

Please understand my point. I don't care if you behave aggressively and combatively. Others here do. Just drop the victimization ploy and the silliness of telling posters you won't respond to them when they are directly responding to your points because of the tone of their posts. If you want to play rough, go ahead, but in the middle of the game don't go crying to mommy that they're being mean to you for no reason.

[_jskains]

Why, cause I called you an arrogant bitch? Perhaps that was a bit out of line, but you were acting like one.

Well, to be more exact, "screw you you arrogant bitch" along with threats to sue me for libel.

Please understand my point. I don't care if you behave aggressively and combatively. Others here do. Just drop the victimization ploy and the silliness of telling posters you won't respond to them when they are directly responding to your points because of the tone of their posts. If you want to play rough, go ahead, but in the middle of the game don't go crying to mommy that they're being mean to you for no reason.

Actually, your the only one playing victim, which is ironic. Matter of a fact, you not only played victim, but had to go dig up dirt..

"See see, he is as bad as I said!!!!"

Oh, the irony.

JMS

[_OUT OF MY MISERY]

So I am done. None of this is worth the heartache. I asked Shades to delete or ban my account so I will have no temptation in posting here again. Expecially after Gad's nasty comments about how I am a nobody and that I am not worth anything and basically implied I was stupid. Yawn.

I will be posting more commentary:

www.joshskains.com

and

www.youtube.com/jskains

if anyone cares (doubtful). I got out of ZLMB for many reasons, but even at ZLMB, it never got this nasty and hateful. Some of you really need to move on. Obsession is scary. Obsession on something you hate is dangerous.

JMS

You lie. You can't leave this board because it is fulfilling a sick need of yours.
If you going to leave then leave. Don't tease us with your departure.
We will move on when you move on.