dartagnan wrote: I had to crank up some tears on more than one occassion, especially when my mission President literally forced me to bear my testimony in front of a crowd of people who were already in tears. It was probably easier for me to do since I was just a scared kid, and the tears were actually genuine in that sense. But there is plenty of pressure in the Church to cry. If you don't then there is a spiritual deficiency in you. So yes, I think Mormon men are able to pump out tears with little effort, or at the least, tap into their femine side at the drop of a hat.
And while you haven't gone there, I have.
Well, Kev, I have actually gone there. My mission president asked me to bear testimony as a convert of only 14 months, to an area-wide conference. I was reluctant to do so, but only because at the time I was shy, and couldn't understand the focus on me. Undoubtedly I was a willing pawn of the fraud :) (I deeply regret that. Insert smiley here) Nothwithstanding, I managed to pump out the tears, all insincere of course. I couldn't think of anything better than two years of sacrificing all that I had, all because I was insincere. I just thought a mission was a fun distraction. Something different. Better than a Rubic's cube obssession.
Do you think you have a corner on objective truth, Kev?