"Bad parts" of Mormon History...forget about it?

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BishopRic wrote:
wenglund wrote:Perhaps you can clear up my admitted confusion, and help me get your point, by reconciling these two seeming contradictions:


I see how it could be seen as contradictory. This is why I don't believe it is. I see the church as an organism. It does what is necessary to survive. "It" has chosen to cover up unsavory parts of its past, and in my opinion, to survive and thrive in the future, it needs to become honest and open to its members and others. From a therapeutic standpoint, I believe one helpful step is to apologize for its wrongs. Because of the internet and media, I believe the truth of its past is more available to the public, and to continue its desired growth, it must evolve and do what's right, and that is to come into integrity.

The healing I speak of is between individuals. Many families are split between members and non/ex members. Perhaps neither is fully educated in the history we speak of here daily. They simply think the other is naïve, and/or wrong about their religious beliefs. Whether they are right or wrong, they ARE brothers and sisters of the others. They share many commonalities...hobbies, interests, etc., and I think it is a shame that a little thing called religion splits them apart so much.

As you and I have discussed in the past, I don't think it is necessary, but it involves getting past the silence. Dialogue is necessary. Respect is critical. Viewing the other as equal, as they are, is the step required to get to unconditional love -- the only real "love" there is. I believe it is possible -- without changing the beliefs of the other. I might be a Jazz fan, and you a Laker's fan. Does that mean we can't be friends? Why can't we have different religious beliefs -- even discuss our differences, and still be friends?

Hope this helps.


I think it does help.

In other words, as a member of the Jazz organization, you believe the Laker organization (to which I belong), should apologize for things that we, as an organization, don't believe we did wrong. And until we, as an organization, see things your way, and do what you view as "right" and "come into integrity" (in other words, you are insinuating that the Laker organization that I belong to is not, in this respect, integritous), the therapeutic process will not be helped. But, there is no reason we can't heal and be friends.

And, were this to be reversed, and certain members of the Laker organization (not including me) believe the Jazz organization, to which you belong, should apologize for things that you and the Jazz don't believe you did wrong. And, until you Jazz see things the Laker way, and do what some of the Lakers view as "right" and come out of evil and deception (in other words, they are insinuating that the Jazz organization to which you belong, in this respect, is evil and deceiving), the therapeutic process will not be helped. But, there is no reason you can't heal and be friends.

Does this make sense and seem workable to you?

I'm sorry, but it doesn't make sense or seem workable to me.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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beastie wrote:Wade,

You have not changed one little bit. Your "message" about wanting to "help exmormons heal" is just an way to blind yourself to your real goal - the same goal you've always had. It's the same goal you had when you wanted to "heal" homosexuals or wanted to point out bigotry or logical fallacies. Your goal, whether or not you know it, is it belittle exmormons in any way you can, and to attempt to minimize their assertions.

Anyone who is familiar at all with your posts won't be fooled by your smokescreen, although it's possible you're fooling one person - yourself. Heaven knows it's too risky to admit your own malignant motivations to yourself - why, then you'd have to repent and quit doing it! Heaven forfend!!


I can respect that that is your prejudiced opinion. Clearly, projection is not just in the movies. ;-)

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Mister Scratch wrote:
wenglund wrote:
Mister Scratch wrote:
wenglund wrote:Given the Church's declared three-fold mission (which, incidently does not mention history as an end or otherwise), history may then be viewed as a means (one of many) to that end.


Part of the mission is "Perfecting the Saints." Obviously, failure to provide an accurate picture of Church history is a major obstacle to accomplishing that.


In a strained sort of way that may be true.

But, I suspect that there is an immense gulf between what you may view as an "accurate picture" of Church history than what the Church in general may view regarding the same. So, around and around we go.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Why not deal with a specific example then? How would you recommend that the Church present, say, the polygamy-polyandry material? Or Joseph Smith's treasure hunting? Or MMM? Or the history of the Book of Abraham?


Unlike some, I do not view myself as in a position, or in need, to make recommendations to the Church (I am pleased to leave that to those who have been called by God to that capacity), but have chosen instead to reserve my recommendations to where they are most needed and best served--i.e. regarding ways to personally improve myself and other individuals I care about.

That having been said, I am entirely comfortable in the way in which those subjects are currently being handled by the Church.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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Mercury wrote:Its the only choice they have. Would you honestly still take them seriously as a world religion if they confronted the bad history upfront?

This is the issue that drives my disdain for Mormonism. It can ONLY function as an organization built on lies and misdeeds.

The operating system of the church has been rooted and there is no way to restore the kernel. No hope for help other than putting a bullet in the box.


True, the die has been cast. Even if the church was to do an about face now and become totally open the big question would be why the deceit for so long? Of course if a full discloser was made then all the chapel Mormons would become aware that their testimonies were built on a foundation of lies and propaganda.
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wenglund wrote:
Unlike some, I do not view myself as in a position, or in need, to make recommendations to the Church (I am pleased to leave that to those who have been called by God to that capacity), but have chosen instead to reserve my recommendations to where they are most needed and best served--I.e. regarding ways to personally improve myself and other individuals I care about.

That having been said, I am entirely comfortable in the way in which those subjects are currently being handled by the Church.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


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As I see it, that depends. If the sharing is done as it is now, in extra-curricular ways (such as through books and articles written by LDS and non-LDS historians), then I don't believe it would thwart the mission of the Church. However, if the sharing is done as a part of Sunday lesson material, then it may thwart (to a nominal degree) the mission of the Church--more as an unecessary and non-productive distraction than anything else. In other words, given the time constraints of Sunday class periods, it would be inprudent to take time away from instruction that is deemed pertinent to satisfying the mission of the Church, and devote it instead to impertinent matters (in my opinion) such as those you mentioned.



I am sorry but I think the argument that there is not enough time to teach LDS history is SS classes or seminary or institute is really somewhat of a cop out. The Church finds time to teach whatever is wants to emphasize. And the fact that you believe the some of these topics coudl distract from what you view is the mission of the Church really bolsters the idea that there are issues that will serve to not foster faith and may do the opposite.

Clearly this is why the Church choses to leave them out and let people find them as they may. Thus they should not be surprised when some rightfully are hurt and angry about this and feel they may have been treated unfairly.

Honestly it just seems that the Church wants to use the faith promoting parts of history selectively to convince people Joseph Smith was a prophet, Anything that might persuade differently is left out.

Obviously, that is what the Church is doing. Given the mission of the Church, it makes perfect sense for the Church to be selective in that way. This is precisely my point.


I so not know that it makes sense in the arena of what is the right thing to so. It seems an organization that expect total devotion in lifestyle, money and time would want to be open and upfront about all the things that its members might want to know about before making such a HUGE commitment. If there are things that may persuade some to choose otherwise I think in the long run all would be better off.



And you are wrong. The founding history of the LDS Church is CENTRAL to it claim of truth.

Certainly, there are aspects of founding history of the Church that are critical (not to be confused with CENTERAL) to its claim of truth. That is not in dispute.

What is in dispute is which aspects of the founding history are critical to the truth claims. Historical aspects like what kinds of clothes the Smiths wore, whether they ate candy at times, stick-pulling activities, who was the best at harvesting maple, what trees they may have climbed, etc. etc., I don't see as critical. What I (and evidently the leaders of the Church and the Church curriculam designers) view as critical, are found in the lesson material.


Why is it whenever "aspects" of what is important about Church history the apologists brings up nonsensical issues like this? Of course what Joseph had for dinner of March 18, 1822 is not important to his truth claims. What is important are events and happenings that reflect on his character and whether we can trust him. The Church emphasizes ONLY the positive things. That is what they see as critical Anything that could be negative is left out Thus people, unless they dig on their own, are left with a picture of Joseph and early Church history that does not reflect reality. Then they are told to pray about this character that really is not the way it was. This in order to decide truth and base their whole life on. But The Church certainly is not going to volunteer things that are not positive.

I am not sure what the answer is but it really seems that fully disclosing things is the right thing to do.
Now, you may have a different opinion as to what is critical. And, that is perfectly fine, and I can respect that. We each are entitled to our own opinions. Hopefully, you can respect the opinions of the lesson material decisionmakers, even though it may differ from your own.


I can respect opinions but if someone does the wrong thing do they deserve respect? Would you respect someone who sold you a home if you later found out that it had a cracked foundation? Would you not feel a bit cheated? Would you have bought the home had you known? Or asked for a lower price? If the seller had the attitude of "My mission is to sell this house and I will only tell what things I need to to get it sold" would you not be angry and feel cheated? Would you respect them? Or would you sue them?

I think I know the answer.

So why the different set of standards for the LDS Church?
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Mercury wrote:
wenglund wrote:
Unlike some, I do not view myself as in a position, or in need, to make recommendations to the Church (I am pleased to leave that to those who have been called by God to that capacity), but have chosen instead to reserve my recommendations to where they are most needed and best served--I.e. regarding ways to personally improve myself and other individuals I care about.

That having been said, I am entirely comfortable in the way in which those subjects are currently being handled by the Church.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Spoken like a true slave.


One may well marvel about a mind that construes an orientation towards introspection/personal responsibility and an aversion to busybodyness, to be indicitive of "slavery". One may well wonder what planet such a mind may be from (figuritively speaking, of course)? Could his self-inflating screen name (wisely providing the cover of anonymity so as to avoid invariable personal embarrassment) provide a clue? ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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wenglund wrote:I think it does help.

In other words, as a member of the Jazz organization, you believe the Laker organization (to which I belong), should apologize for things that we, as an organization, don't believe we did wrong. And until we, as an organization, see things your way, and do what you view as "right" and "come into integrity" (in other words, you are insinuating that the Laker organization that I belong to is not, in this respect, integritous), the therapeutic process will not be helped. But, there is no reason we can't heal and be friends.

And, were this to be reversed, and certain members of the Laker organization (not including me) believe the Jazz organization, to which you belong, should apologize for things that you and the Jazz don't believe you did wrong. And, until you Jazz see things the Laker way, and do what some of the Lakers view as "right" and come out of evil and deception (in other words, they are insinuating that the Jazz organization to which you belong, in this respect, is evil and deceiving), the therapeutic process will not be helped. But, there is no reason you can't heal and be friends.

Does this make sense and seem workable to you?

I'm sorry, but it doesn't make sense or seem workable to me.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


I don't know if you're being intentionally difficult, or are just blinded by your convictions. Your Lakers analogy is completely unrelated, since the church DOES admit to the wrongs they have done -- they have just chosen not to apologize.

Take the blacks. They were told that they were a cursed race, that they were less valiant in the pre-existence, and they would never enjoy the fullness of blessings in the celestial kingdom. Today they don't teach that, and we can only presume the teaching was wrong back then.

How 'bout the gays -- until recently were told that the way they are is an abomination, that the attraction they have for the same sex is sinful. Today they just say they don't know why they are that way, but it is not a sin to have certain "feelings," just don't act on them. And you'd be a fool to believe the teachings about that over the years hasn't led to much emotional traumas and scores of suicides.

Then the "so called Mountain Meadows Massacre." As much as the church has attempted to look good to the public about this disaster, they have not apologized for it.

So no, I don't think you understand yet. Or perhaps you just don't want to admit, like many I know, that the church is less than perfect. How can an organization that professes to be the ambassador to the world for repentence and forgiveness ever be taken seriously if they refuse to practice what they preach?
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wenglund wrote:
Mercury wrote:
wenglund wrote:
Unlike some, I do not view myself as in a position, or in need, to make recommendations to the Church (I am pleased to leave that to those who have been called by God to that capacity), but have chosen instead to reserve my recommendations to where they are most needed and best served--I.e. regarding ways to personally improve myself and other individuals I care about.

That having been said, I am entirely comfortable in the way in which those subjects are currently being handled by the Church.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Spoken like a true slave.


One may well marvel about a mind that construes an orientation towards introspection/personal responsibility and an aversion to busybodyness, to be indicitive of "slavery". One may well wonder what planet such a mind may be from (figuritively speaking, of course)? Could his self-inflating screen name (wisely providing the cover of anonymity so as to avoid invariable personal embarrassment) provide a clue? ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Gawd you are an idiot. You remind me of the individuals in high school who debate in class by staring at the floor and using words he/she overheard smarter students use to ridicule the opponent.

And again with the aspersions casted towards the anonymous. You are a fool wade and your life is a wasteland.
And crawling on the planet's face
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Jason Bourne wrote:
As I see it, that depends. If the sharing is done as it is now, in extra-curricular ways (such as through books and articles written by LDS and non-LDS historians), then I don't believe it would thwart the mission of the Church. However, if the sharing is done as a part of Sunday lesson material, then it may thwart (to a nominal degree) the mission of the Church--more as an unecessary and non-productive distraction than anything else. In other words, given the time constraints of Sunday class periods, it would be inprudent to take time away from instruction that is deemed pertinent to satisfying the mission of the Church, and devote it instead to impertinent matters (in my opinion) such as those you mentioned.


I am sorry but I think the argument that there is not enough time to teach LDS history is SS classes or seminary or institute is really somewhat of a cop out.


But, I haven't made that argument. In fact, I fully acknowledge that there is rightly a place for LDS history being taught in LDS classes.

Rather, my argument is that there is not sufficient time to provide an EXHAUSTIVE history of the LDS Church, nor would it make sense to provide such. Given the mission of the Church, and given the various means for accomplishing that mission (only one of which is teaching select aspects of Church history), and given the limits of class time, then pragmatism and prudence dictate that whatever portion of the lesson material that is historical in nature, be pertinent to attaining the mission of the Church. that's all.

What I am suggesting is not radical or untowards or specious, but fundamental to the widely accepted (secular and religious) conventions of effective instructional design.

The Church finds time to teach whatever is wants to emphasize. And the fact that you believe the some of these topics coudl distract from what you view is the mission of the Church really bolsters the idea that there are issues that will serve to not foster faith and may do the opposite.


Correct. And, it makes perfect sense for the Church to do so.

Clearly this is why the Church choses to leave them out and let people find them as they may. Thus they should not be surprised when some rightfully are hurt and angry about this and feel they may have been treated unfairly.


I don't know that the Church has been suprised. I suspect that they understand quite well that, given the broad range of mental and emotional temperments and maturity within the Church, and the human vulnerability to misunderstandings, that dysfunctional emotional reactions are bound to occur regardless of how well intended and appropriately designed the courseware. Again, as the poet John Lydgate wisely noted: "You can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time."

I so not know that it makes sense in the arena of what is the right thing to so. It seems an organization that expect total devotion in lifestyle, money and time would want to be open and upfront about all the things that its members might want to know about before making such a HUGE commitment. If there are things that may persuade some to choose otherwise I think in the long run all would be better off.


Even were it possible to determine that if the Church were to disclose such-and-such about Church history, that no investigator or member would ever feel hurt, angered, or unfairly treated by the Church, then I don't know that it would even then be practical or prudent to make such disclosures. Given the myriad of permutations of what the millions of members and investigators, at varied times throughout their life and with their varied experiences with and within the Church, may think they need to know in order not to be hurt or angered or feel unfairly treated, the Church could conceivably spend all of its time (far more than the hour or two each Sunday) and still not completely satisfy that end. It is just not practical. At some point, pragmatism demands at least some measure of selectivity as to what should be taught historically. And, given that the mission of the Church isn't to be completely politically correct and avoid any chance of hurt, anger, or feel unfairly treated, but rather to bring the willing in heart to Christ, then prudence and reason dictates an even greater measure of selectivity.

More to the point, as already intimated, it is not possible to determine what all would need to be disclosed to prevent any hurt, anger, or feelings of unfair treatment. As humans, at least some people are bound to be hurt and so forth no matter what may be done. What you are suggesting, then, is an unreachable standard--no matter how right you may think it is.

Besides, the Church, and the gospel of Christ upon which it is based, is not a one-sided proposition where the Church bears the entire burden for education, or even where the only commitment is of members to the Church. Ours is a covenant relationship, which means that both parties share the burden of education, and both parties are committed to each other and to self. What you state above entirely misses this very critical factor.

Why is it whenever "aspects" of what is important about Church history the apologists brings up nonsensical issues like this? Of course what Joseph had for dinner of March 18, 1822 is not important to his truth claims. What is important are events and happenings that reflect on his character and whether we can trust him. The Church emphasizes ONLY the positive things. That is what they see as critical Anything that could be negative is left out Thus people, unless they dig on their own, are left with a picture of Joseph and early Church history that does not reflect reality. Then they are told to pray about this character that really is not the way it was. This in order to decide truth and base their whole life on. But The Church certainly is not going to volunteer things that are not positive.


I can't speak for other apologists, but the reason I brought up the so-called "nonsense" is because apparently you and others lack the capacity to grasp our point in relation to disputed areas of historical disclosure, and so to better facilitate your cognition, we point out the areas of little dispute--with the hope that once you get that it is nonsense to think that every "aspect" of Church history need be taught (dinner of March 18th for example), then you may be better disposed to understanding that it may not be sensible to teach other aspects of history (presumably some of the aspects you may personally think should be taught).

It is also quite niave for you to suppose that only positive, and not negative, aspects of Church history are being taught. You need to read the D&C a little more carefully, and you may find an abundance of chastisements from the Lord for negative things done by Church members--including Joseph Smith. The point isn't so much selectivity based on positive or negative history, but whether the historical disclosures tend to advance the mission of the Church. Clearly, there are negative as well as positive aspects of Church history that lend themselves to that end.

I am not sure what the answer is but it really seems that fully disclosing things is the right thing to do.


Given our agreement that it is nonsense to think that all aspects of Church history should be taught, then the problem come in finding agreement on what constitutes "full disclosure". Those aspects of Church history that you, in good faith and for reasons of your own, may think should be fully disclosed, are likely not what the leaders of the Church may, in good faith and for reasons of their own, may think practical and reasonable to be fully disclosed. And, that is okay. Reasonable people can reasonably and respectfully disagree. Each has their own opinion as to the "right thing to do" as based on their respective objectives. You believe that the right thing to do is disclose certain select aspect of Church history of your choosing so as to prevent any chance of peoples feelings being hurt or angered; and the Church believes the right thing to do is disclose select aspects of Church history of their choosing so as to satisfy the mission of the Church. To each their own.

I can respect opinions but if someone does the wrong thing do they deserve respect? Would you respect someone who sold you a home if you later found out that it had a cracked foundation? Would you not feel a bit cheated? Would you have bought the home had you known? Or asked for a lower price? If the seller had the attitude of "My mission is to sell this house and I will only tell what things I need to to get it sold" would you not be angry and feel cheated? Would you respect them? Or would you sue them?

I think I know the answer.


With as one-sided, distorted, and distrusting as apparently is your point of view of the issue, it is understandable that you would not respect the Church's opinion. And, given your evident uncharitable sentiments, reasoning tends to be futile. So, I'll conclude by saying it was nice talking to you.

So why the different set of standards for the LDS Church?


Actually, I am fine with applying the standard both ways, and I have even done so by respecting your opinion even though I disagree with it. You, on the other hand, seem reluctant to do the same in return, and as such, and ironically, the set of double standards you mentioned, is your own. ;-)

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