The obvious counter to this would be for the Church to crack down on this 'rebelliousness'. Of course what you said could also also apply to those who do not believe in God as they "wish, pick and chose what they will or will not obey". Thousands justify whatever behavior they wish. You seem to want religion to check behavior while on this board I've heard you protest that you don't need religion to be moral. Aren't you in this same danger?
You missed the point. Let me try again.
NON-believers don't use God as an excuse. Only believers do. Seems believers use the "God said" excuse even when it is contrary to their doctrine or teaching.
If a non-believer abuses a child, there are consequences and no one thinks it is OK. There is no "God said" excuse.
If a believer abuses a child, and claims GOD TOLD THEM TO, they somehow think it is OK.
Or, if a guy flies a plane into a building most folks think it is a horrible thing.
However, if a guy flies a plane into a building and says God told him to do so, he (and fellow believers) somehow think it is all well and good.
The "God said" excuse gets a lot of mileage.
~dancer~