I don't know that justification is required, although I understand that those making the justifications will seek to excuse themselves for filling what evidently is not a void in human activity. Moreover, "he did it first" didn't work well when I was five years old, and I doubt it really improves with age. I will say this, however, Gemli does about as well as anyone could expect in an environment that is hostile to his point of view. He is generally respectful, and he should be commended for that. Indeed, what Gemli does is a lot more respectable than some of what I see here, e.g., when people make comments about DCP's weight or obsessively pick apart his newspaper writing.Gadianton wrote: ↑Wed Mar 24, 2021 4:42 amWhether it's right or wrong, I predict that it will continue to happen based on basic Newtonian laws of interpersonal dynamics. For every action there's an equal and opposite reaction.
The individual at issue uses "his life" as a means to condescend to others. Sometimes it's indirectly, such as when a random critic asks a question he doesn't wish to answer, and so he excuses himself by noting all the important things he has to do, implying that the critic is less important than he is, and so the question is unworthy of a response, as the asker is unworthy to ask. Sometimes it's direct, such as criticizing Gemli's credentials. FARMS was notorious for this, taking aim at the occupations and schooling of Brent M. Dan V. Ed A. And it comes up all the time in travel logs. His perfect pitch for grammar was brutalized at Taco Bell one day when a young black girl asked him to elaborate when he asked for "a couple" of tacos. How dare this worker from the underclass talk to an important Islamic professor like that? How could "a couple" mean anything other than two? He failed to consider that a fast-food worker might have equally perfect grammatical pitch, yet not knowing the educational attainments of every random customer hitting the drive-through, it's possible and likely that some customers would use the terminology imprecisely and so the worker must clarify every case.
A person who talks about his personal life constantly, and in many cases is doing so in order to either aggrandize himself, put somebody else down, or both, will naturally reap retaliation. Perhaps the retaliators are wrong, but I kid you not, if every known retaliator were to disappear from the earth tomorrow, a completely new set would replace them within months if not weeks, so long as the blog output remains unchanged.
In being assholes to people whom we perceive to be assholes, we end up looking like assholes, and some may argue that this is exactly what we are.