Sethbag wrote:Nobody's blaming the kids here. It's not about saying it's the kids' fault that they didn't document their abuse better, so that 40 years later they could prove their case in court. It's totally not about punishing the kids for their lack of good evidence.
Because
nobody would try and "punish" a victim of childhood abuse for lack of good evidence...
It's about how in the heck some former LDS missionary is supposed to defend himself against charges 40 years later made by someone with no more evidence than their claim in court that something happened.
I'm not sure that we know what the evidence is.
If it were you, how would you prove that an LDS missionary molested you years 40 years ago?
I wonder if it ever crosses through the abusers head,
"Hey, I am a bishop/priest/scout master/missionary/home teacher/etc... and this is an 8 year old kid. Who will they believe? I'll tell this kid not to say anything, and in a few years, he probably won't even remember. Even if he does, who will they believe?"Seriously, how do you defend against that? Do we really want a legal system where almost anyone can make claims about someone they knew 40 years ago, cry in court, show some dysfunction in their life, and walk out with a cool million?
I don't think that is a fair assesment of the situation, but no, I don't want that.
Part of justice being served is confidence by the public that the guilty people are being convicted, and the innocent people are being aquitted. On such flimsy evidence as "when I was 11 or 12 this guy touched me on my weewee", how can we have such confidence?
Again, what do you suppose a child that is being molested do? Take pictures? Contact the Feds and go in wearing a wire?
Can we really be sure that someone isn't just making up the accusation in order to get some money? You don't suppose there's any chance that in America in 2008 anyone would stoop to that, do you? Nah, couldn't happen...
Of course it happens. All the time. But then again, you don't suppose there is any chance that some sick bastard would touch a little kid and lie about it, do you? Nah, couldn't happen...