Hi Droppy,
And for good reason: heterosexual marriage and family are the foundation of a free, civil society, and should be encouraged by the state at every turn. Homosexual marriage has no viable social purpose beyond the sexual liaison and psychological/emotional attachments of the people involved, and is void of procreational possibility. It is a sexual fetish raised to level of a deviant subculture having its own alien norms, values, and sexual mores, and none of them are compatible with the maintenance of a free, civil society because the moral norms of the homosexual culture are disastrously destructive to individual human beings, as any cursory examination of what the homosexual lifestyle is actually like for most homosexuals and the grossly disproportionate social pathology that exists in that culture.
What nonsense Droopy... seriously. You keep repeating this mantra (homosexuals are evil and destroying society, yada, yada, yada), but have yet to demonstrate how a gay or lesbian couple is actually harming anyone.
My lesbian neighbors have a lovely family; three children, two of whom were adopted from a horrible orphanage in Siberia. These fabulous women are providing a beautiful home and lots and lots of love for these darling children, who otherwise would be eating a piece of bread and water three times a day, without anyone who cared about them.
They aren't hurting ANYONE. They are making an incredible contribution to our world. No one in my neighborhood has suddenly turned homosexual. No one has stopped going to church because of this family. No one has all of a sudden adopted "alien norms, values, and sexual mores."
I mean really... your assertion is silliness.
This couple is not part of some "deviant subculture" that is destroying our community. Rather, they are part of our neighborhood, participate in our parties, hang out at the pool. They are a lot of fun and no one cares about what they do in the bedroom, just like we don't care about what YOU do in your bedroom.
You seem to have some convoluted, made up, idea of what homosexuality is, as if an adult couple's private sexual behavior is going to destroy humanity and make humankind turn evil... or something. (sigh)
The reality is YOUR private sexual choices do not impact anyone but your partner (and you). We don't care about your sexual behavior so why do you care about the sexual behavior of others who may not share your particular choices?
I'm pretty sure if everyone discussed all their private sexual behavior in the open, there would be all sorts of things with which some are uncomfortable... so what? No one cares.
I do not get the obsession with what a couple does in their bedroom and why some people think whatever it is is going to destroy the world.
And, there are a lot of couples who cannot procreate. So? Who cares? There are couples who can't or don't have sex. So?
A family is more than the sex life of a couple. A family is about love, concern, support, providing the necessities of life, taking care of each other, and being there for one another.
In civilized society we don't define a heterosexual couple by what they do in their bedroom, we don't even ask. So why the obsession with a homosexual couple? Why does anyone care?
~td~One more thing... I do understand that some think those with SSA are going to Hell (or some lower Kingdom), but that is an individual consequence and has nothing to do with humanity.