
I have a brother who was world famous in athletics in the 1950s, held several world sprint records, and in 1955 was called "the world's fastest human". He later went on to become a millionaire, and then lost it all in the stock market crash of '87, then rebuilt his life again. He's like you, a doer, an achiever, and ambitious.
I am not you, nor my brother, but no one can call me lazy. Unambitious, perhaps, and a rather pedestrian runner in comparison to my brother. I have worked pretty hard throughout my life, but I've never been ambitious to get rich, and in fact prefer to live modestly, or as has been said of Nibley, "not high on the hill nor high on the hog". I'm actually a very simple person who enjoys simple things. So, we are different. And harmony is different. But my brother never understood this about me. Today he's in serious debt again. I am not. In fact I'm reasonably well off, but instead of working harder to earn more, which I could, or risking it like my son and earning $3,000 per week, I'm content to earn much less and get by on modest meals.
You're trying to impose on someone else your philosophy of life, which is something my brother always did to me, and at the time I resented it. Today he realises that the old story of the hare and the tortoise is true. Maybe one day harmony will have an effect, but let her pursue it in her way, rather than trying to force yours upon her.