"...it is unlikely there will ever be consensus on Joseph Smith's character or his achievements. The multiplication of scholarly studies and the discovery of new sources have only heightened the controversies surrounding his life. The central difficulty is that Joseph Smith lives on in the faith of the Mormons, like Abraham in Judaism or Muhammad in Islam. Everything about Smith matters to people who have built their lives on his teachings. To protect their own deepest commitments, believers want to shield their prophet's reputation. On the other hand, people who have broken away from Mormonism--and they produce a large amount of the scholarship--have to justify their decision to leave...Given the emotional crosscurrents, agreement will never be reached about his character, his inspiration, or his accomplishments" (emphasis added)
This seems pretty straight forward. As a TBM, I am deeply committed to TCoJCoLDS, and all that it entails. I cannot consider the idea that the cause to which I am committed is patently false. I will not. I received and continue to receive assurance from God that it is right. So I continue on in he path in which I started. I am better for it.
To those that have left or are critical of the Church for one reason or another surely find that there exists a certain commitment to their perspective that allows very little wiggle room. So committed in fact that they seem to be just as dogmatic and bullheaded as we are.
So what to do?
(This glimpse into Joseph has almost nothing to do with the OP except that it shows the Divinity of his calling and his humanity in a single episode.)
Josiah Quincy remarked after a day spent with Joseph that, "You have too much power to be safely trusted to one man."Joseph replied that in Quincy's hands or another person's "so much power would no doubt, be dangerous. I am the only man in the world whom it would be safe to trust with it. Remember, I am a Prophet! The manner of Joseph's answer intrigued Quincy. "The last five words were spoken in a rich, comical aside, as if in hearty recognition of the ridiculous sound they might have in the ears of a Gentile." Joseph knew his visitor was amuse and skeptical, yet remained unfazed, sure of himself no matter what the Bostonian thought."
HA! Priceless Joseph.
Will we ever agree to disagree? Doubt it. But will one of you ever admit that the Joseph restored a Church that has redeemed me from Hell and brought me into the light and Redemption of Jesus Christ. If you can concede this fact, then why fight against it?
Big UP!
Lamanite