But I do appreciate the fact that you seem to be implying that at least in a discussion between the two of us we can "agree to disagree" in a civil manner.
All well and good Liz, but is some cases, people must be confronted, sometimes civilly and diplomatically, and sometimes in a more stern and uncompromising manner, when they are wrong, intellectually sloppy, disingenuous, tendentious, dishonest, immoral, or obnoxious.
Since, in my rather long experience with criticism of the Church, especially from the EV and secular exmo worlds, this kind of thing is rife, apologists are always confronted with the choice of calm civility and speaking "betimes with sharpness".
I think a proper expression of disapproval, anger, and, as many times seem appropriate here, satirical dismissal of stuff that just cannot be taken seriously at all, but that some do, indeed, take seriously (at the Church's expense) can be healthy and bracing, and, make no mistake, a number of people here and in forums similar to it need a grabbed and shaken violently now and then.
Like everything else in life, kindness and softness must be in balance. That is the fundamental idea behind the concept of Yin and Yang; dynamic complimentarities.
There is a time to gather stones, and a time to cast them away.
I don't always do it properly, but I'm a human being, after all.