asbestosman wrote:I was thinking about shoes being on the other foot and I realize that there are classes of people I treat in a way such that I wouldn't be happy if the shoe were on the other foot--adults who have sexual relations with a minor (even if they can legally marry them, but have not).
If the minor is capable of giving meaningful consent, then I don't see an issue with it. Like most people, though, I'm opposed to pedophilia, because I don't think that children are capable of giving meaningful consent, for a number of reasons.
Also, people who engage in bestiality. You can kill ad eat animals as food without their consent, but you can't play with this potential food (in the Biblically sense of knowing it).
I'm a vegetarian, actually, so this argument won't work against me, although it may expose inconsistencies in other people's beliefs.
Neither of these examples are meant to parallel homosexuality. It is limited only to consideration about whether shoes on the other foot is a necessary or good consideration. That is, what is the real rule if naïve application of the Golden Rule or Categorical Imperitive or whatever is not applicable to treatment of criminals. Is it ultimately a matter of personal preference?
Rule utilitarianism is pretty useful, I think. It doesn't have the problems that a God-based morality have (look up the Euthyphro dilemma to see what I mean), and it doesn't run into most of the problems that other systems of ethics do.
I believe one could try making some interesting arguments about both cases mentioned above concerning why the laws governing them should be different than they are. There could be a lot more controversy concerning them. So while they aren't fully parallel to homosexual rights in my mind, they do bring to my mind the difficulty o classifying what sort of things we should treat equally and what we shouldn't (on the basis of our own prejudicial opinions about consent even when no similar consent is required for similarly significant but legal acts).
I'm not claiming that all of our laws are consistent with each other.