Westridge & Other Schools(Formerly LDS Perceptions thread)

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Re: LDS Perception of Family Humiliation-Eric's Original Post

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JAK wrote:Your suspicion is well founded, marg. What are they hiding? Why are they hiding? Perhaps worse, why is "no government department doing the exploratory work necessary to determine if a private residential treatment program is psychologically…abusive”? (Your point)

Secrecy in the specifics of this “facility” appears to have no legitimate justification. On the contrary, it appears to be done to conceal activities, treatments that would not pass open, legal scrutiny.

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I'm not sure they're hiding anything. Why do you think they are? What are you expecting from them?
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Just going to ramble here.

I think our best resource with regards to protocol here would be truthdancer.

Just bouncing this around though. Why does anyone think that a cooling off period, separation and no contact with parents is at all unusual in a behavior mod program?

I should think that if a child's behavior is inappropriate, has been so for years, became more pronounced in adolesence to the extent that it might include illegal acts on the part of the minor, separating parents from children is exactly the way to go. Were the family dynamic not in some way enabling, the child wouldn't be resorting to unsafe, inappropriate, anti-social behaviors to begin with.
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JAK wrote:The larger issue here is how is this “facility” held accountable by the laws of the federal or state government. If there is no oversight, no inspection, no subordination to the laws of the state or federal government, the “facility” is operating deliberately beyond the reach of the law.


JAK...what? West Ridge holds 4 separate licenses through the Utah Department of Human Services. It is regulated out the literal wazoo. Further, it is accredited by multiple organizations.

DHS performes regular announced and UNannounced site visits. They inspect the environment, files, professional credentialing.

For example, inspections of the environment are NOT a walk through bed check. The environment is inspected against licensing standards. A few examples: The square footages of rooms according to their uses and age of children. The temperature of the darn water in the kitchen, bathrooms and showers. Sorry...I work with this stuff every day and have done so for years. If folks here understood how regulated and inspected a licensed facility really is, they wouldn't be so quick to suspect one of chronic and/or hidden abuse.

I've been present for unannounced visits more times than I care to mention. When DHS knocks on the door, you open it and stand aside. You open any file, cabinet, closet to any part of the facility they ask to inspect. You give them the master key if they ask for it. There is NO part of the facility that DHS doesn't have access to.

When DHS conducts a scheduled or unannouced visit, a list of violations is collected. They print out the list of the violations (could be a missing form from a child's file) before they leave and hand it to you with a 30-90 day response date. (Would depend on the violation) You correct whatever it is, send in your response letter and they often will make a return unannounced visit to verify that the violations have been corrected.

DHS is NOT going to close a program based on the 9 year old reports of one former resident. Unless a hidden and common grave of missing students is found under a building or something like that, it takes MULTIPLE reports. That is why some of us have repeatedly encouraged Eric to report what he has on himself, attempt to rally others to do the same and try to find out if there are any instances of unreported abuse going on at the present time.

This is also why I've suggested to marg to ask DHS what standing and/or reports of violations are on file for West Ridge.

by the way, Accreditation org's add yet another level of criteria to the mix of already in place standards.
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Here's another question to think about. If the youth enrolled at West Ridge and other similiar schools are there due to their anti-social, inappropriate, unsafe or perhaps illegal behavior, they would likely or eventually be in a juvenile detention center.

Isn't West Ridge the lesser of two evils?
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GoodK wrote:I'm not hiding it, I'm in the car on my iphone. I don't have the exact date. The quote is several years old - I'll post a link when I can - while Buttars still served as executive director.

Chris Buttars is currently on the board of directors.


Eric,

I'm going to be completely and blatantly honest with you: you don't know what you're talking about.

Here's a link to the Board of Directors (etc) as of 1 Mar 09.

http://utahboysranch.org/BoardofTrustees/BoardofTrustees.html

Chris Buttars name appears NOWHERE on any of these lists.

Eric, every claim you make regarding Buttars and West Ridge is easily accessible to the public via the website or through licensing for verification.

Are you attempting to verify the claims that you're making here?
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harmony wrote:
JAK wrote:Minors have some responsibilities. None of these supersede the responsibility of parents and parenting. Legally, parents have responsibility for minors. They are certainly responsible for where they place their children.


Children, yes. Teenagers aren't children. Which is why under some circumstances they are tried as adults. And it depends on the behavior, if the minor is responsible or not. Illegal activity is always going to be the minor's responsibility (and the parents', if they knew about it and did nothing, at least in some states).

Did GoodK “kill someone”?


I wasn't referring to GoodK in that paragraph at all. Those were general rhetorical questions. I'm wondering why you sought to direct them to GoodK?

Why raise the issue? Specifically, what confirmed information is there regarding what GoodK did? What objectively reviewed detailed information is available to legal authority?


Because teenagers, which is what GoodK was when he was sent to the facility, have been known to engage in all of those activities, and be tried as adults.

So... is it possible GoodK smoking tobacco? Maybe he was smoking pot or using drugs? Was he drinking? Was he drinking and driving? All of those things are illegal for teenagers. On a sliding scale, getting caught with tobacco would only get him a slap on the wrist and a fine, but if he was drunk, drove his car, and killed a pedestrian or another driver, he would not be tried as a juvenile; he would likely be tried as an adult and would serve his sentence in an adult correctional facility. And in some states, his parents would have some legal responsibility if they knew about his actions and did nothing.

While many would not agree with his parents' decision, if his behaviors spilled over into illegal activity, it's not hard to justify their decision.

If his parents “shipped off” this teenager to a place where no access was permitted in either direction, the parents are entirely responsible for what they did.


And the teenager, while there, is solely responsible for his/her behavior there, and the resulting consequences.

The larger issue here is how is this “facility” held accountable by the laws of the federal or state government. If there is no oversight, no inspection, no subordination to the laws of the state or federal government, the “facility” is operating deliberately beyond the reach of the law. Why?


I think Jersey has shown how the system works in Utah. If you need a refresher, just scroll back a few pages. She laid it out quite plainly.

Any parent who places a minor in a place which makes itself invisible to legal authority takes a great risk with that minor. If a minor kills someone, that minor is subject to the application of the law.


I don't see how these two sentences are related. Would you explain how you think they are?

If this “facility” attempts to hide its treatment of minors from parents and from the law, it’s a highly questionable “facility.”


I don't think anyone is disputing that, JAK. Why are you?


Teenagers are minors. You don’t refute that. Parents are responsible for their teenage children. They are responsible for where they send or place their teenage children.

I directed no questions to GoodK. You speculated with “kill someone” in the discussion. It was irrelevant unless you were applying it specifically. You continue to refer to “GoodK” who was the person connected with the discussion of a “facility” which appears to operate in secret.

Your references are to “GoodK.” Your questions are not merely “rhetorical.”

The issues surround the extent to which any “facility” as described in these discussions is subject to federal or state laws.

harmony states:
“And the teenager, while there, is solely responsible for his/her behavior there, and the resulting consequences.”

If a “facility” operates in secret and in hiding from the law, what that “facility” does to any “teenager” holds responsibility. The teenager is not “solely responsible for his/her behavior there…” as you argue. If that teenager is abused by those running the “facility” and that abuse is concealed from the law, the parents, and objective scrutiny, that “facility” has responsibility for responses and reactions it produces from a “teenager.” To state without qualification “solely responsible” is not supportable.

The “facility” has responsibility to the laws of the state and to federal laws. Absence of transparency is a sharp indicator that the “facility” has something to hide. Failure of the state to investigate a “facility” that houses teenagers for weeks or months is an abdication by the state of its responsibility.

It was you, harmony, not I who introduced the phrase “kills someone.”

I responded to it. If a teenager “kills someone” it becomes the business of the law. It was in the context of your rejoinder.

The primary issue is secrecy employed by a facility. In a period of weeks or months, anyone could become ill and require medical attention. A “facility” which prevents access of any youth to parents or parents to that youth for weeks or months as a matter of policy places its self at risk for charges of neglect or abuse or worse.

Your last line is non sequitur. A “facility” which takes in teenagers has responsibility for what happens to those teenagers in that “facility.”

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I'll stay on this thread a little while more and then bow out for the night. I just got off from work a few hours ago and to be quite honest, this thread is WAY too close to what I do in real life. I'd rather not do it after hours.

JAK ALL:
The primary issue is secrecy employed by a facility. In a period of weeks or months, anyone could become ill and require medical attention.


I don't have the website for West Ridge in front of me. My best guess is that the facility employs at least one full time RN and has an MD on call. Best guess. Because it is state licensed, all instances of illness are documented by state law. Every cut, every bruise, every temp (according to nursing practices), hospitalization or ambulance call are all documented. Best guess: every cut, every bruise, every temp., hospitalization, ambulance calls are reported to parents by law. If *I* have to document every scrape, cut, bruise, bump, so does West Ridge. Could they cover it up? Sure...would they? Would an entire professional staff including medical and psych. who has full access to the students/residents file engage in a cover up?

Why?

A “facility” which prevents access of any youth to parents or parents to that youth for weeks or months as a matter of policy places its self at risk for charges of neglect or abuse or worse.



Not if it's part of professional protocol and the parents have relinquished temporary custody to the facility, JAK.

As for placing oneself at risk for charges of neglect or abuse, every person who accepts children under their care, contracted by parents places themselves at risk for charges.

Myself included.

Where are the reports of violations against West Ridge?
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harmony wrote:
JAK wrote:Your suspicion is well founded, marg. What are they hiding? Why are they hiding? Perhaps worse, why is "no government department doing the exploratory work necessary to determine if a private residential treatment program is psychologically…abusive”? (Your point)

Secrecy in the specifics of this “facility” appears to have no legitimate justification. On the contrary, it appears to be done to conceal activities, treatments that would not pass open, legal scrutiny.

JAK


I'm not sure they're hiding anything. Why do you think they are? What are you expecting from them?


Of course they are hiding something. A “facility” which denies inspection, denies access by parents who place their teenagers there, denies access of the teenagers to their parents, is hiding something. If it rejects all external funding (state/federal) it likely rejects any state inspection. Why would a “facility” do that?

It is naïve to conclude otherwise.

No parent contact for weeks or months including phone calls demonstrates intent to hide something. Why?

No teenager in the “facility” may contact parents or others on the outside. Why?

Hypothetical speculation is to speak in the dark in response to why.

Perhaps there are disclaimers somewhere which allows for contact.

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JAK ALL:

Of course they are hiding something. A “facility” which denies inspection, denies access by parents who place their teenagers there, denies access of the teenagers to their parents, is hiding something. If it rejects all external funding (state/federal) it likely rejects any state inspection. Why would a “facility” do that?


It can't "deny" or "reject" state inspection, JAK. Further, it cannot deny or reject any inspection by the accreditation orgs that it's accredited by.

It is naïve to conclude otherwise.

No parent contact for weeks or months including phone calls demonstrates intent to hide something. Why?

No teenager in the “facility” may contact parents or others on the outside. Why?

Hypothetical speculation is to speak in the dark in response to why.

Perhaps there are disclaimers somewhere which allows for contact.



No, it doesn't demonstrate intent Old Testament hide something. It demonstrates an intent to disrupt a dynamic wherein the youth regularly relies on parents, family and friends to enable them. That is to say, when confronted with their behavior they cannot appeal to parents, run away to a friend or other relatives house. They are left to confront their behavior and reasons for it.
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You might want to listen to Jersey, JAK, instead of trying to corner me. She's the expert, and she's showing that your questions about the facility are totally full of crap. And so is GoodK. In a manner of speaking, of course.

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