why me wrote:truth dancer wrote:Hi Why Me,
No the comparison holds...
Typically, the polygamous wives of powerful cult leaders love their master/husband/prophet.
Of COURSE they do. They wouldn't have joined the harem unless they believed they were acting in accord with God's will.
It makes no difference if the leader is Joseph Smith, Koresh, Jeff's, the dynamic is exactly the same.
You are still doing it, making the illogical leap. For example comparing the dynamics of Joseph Smith, Jeffs and Koresh. And yet, I see no comparison except on the surface. One must have proof that Joseph Smith was an abuser and the best spokespeople for this would have been the wives especially after he was murdered. But...if it makes you feel better, then you can believe your comparisons. I know that if I were a critic I would do the same. Why not...it will always get some kudos from the other critics on the board.
Why me... my comparison concerns girls and women who attach themselves polygamously to powerful religious/cult leaders.
My point stands, it is extremely rare a polygamous wife/concubine will not speak highly of her powerful husband/master/prophet.
You suggest there is something special about Joseph Smith because his "wives" never spoke negatively about him, I am telling you that this behavior found in the girls and women attached to cult/religious leaders is common; the norm, consistent across cults and religions.
See the problem is, many believers of various religions and cults want to treat their leader differently than everyone else, when in fact there is little difference. Most of these powerful men claim to be a representative of the Divine, called, chosen, asked to engage in sex with multiple women. Joseph Smith was not the first powerful leader to call this play.
The behavior that most find disgusting in others gets rationalized away in their own leader.
There is nothing superficial about this Why Me, it is what it is.
~td~