I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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_Dr. Shades
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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CaliforniaKid wrote:It can get bad here, but MADB is the worst. It's just a great big mutual admiration society, a dogpile of people who think they know more than they really do and think you're stupid for disagreeing. . . I love the community here at MDB, and I love all you folks and your fun and entertaining personalities, . . .

I have an idea. Why not partake of the best of both worlds? If you see something on MA&D to which you want to respond, simply copy-and-paste it over here and then share your thoughts with the people here instead.
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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In my experience, the honest truth-seeker is often not posting, or if posting not at the center of the debate taking place. Should the debate be conceded without a fight, he loses a critical opportunity to have his mind opened to possibilities not previously considered, or to weigh the strength of arguments made on a crucial matter to the course of his life.

Those of you who engage in substantial debate on matters central to the truth claims of the Church, though it can often be frustrating, provide a greater service than you may be aware of.
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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CK:
Frankly, I'm getting sick of message board debates. Is it really that difficult to communicate without the snideness, the sniping, the disrespect, the personal attacks?

From what I have seen over the course of the past few years, you don’t seem to mind the “snideness, the sniping, the disrespect, [and] the personal attacks” so long as it’s your guys heaping it upon someone you all believe deserves it.

And believe me, I’m quite familiar with the whole process involved.

It can get bad here, but MADB is the worst.

:shok:

I damn near choked when I read this.

It's just a great big mutual admiration society, a dogpile of people who think they know more than they really do and think you're stupid for disagreeing.

You’ve just described, with economical brevity, the circle jerk atmosphere that prevails here – and yet you are apparently quite sincere in believing that it describes the MAD board?

In-freaking-credible!

This is the biggest pile of BS you have ever laid in all my association with you. The fact is that you are simply frustrated because your little pet subject area of “disproving” John Gee’s claims about the length of missing scroll is crumbling down around you right after you’ve committed yourself so publicly, and even had a triumphal post-Sunstone West victory party to seal the deal. I’m sure you had big plans to make a big splash at Sunstone in August; to show all your new-found exmormon acolytes what a smart man you are and what an imbecile the would-be Egyptologist John Gee is.

Just one problem: I and a group of my friends at FAIR spent a little time looking into this stuff, and we quickly realized that not only do you have a bad argument, but that we have a great argument. The facts are virtually undeniable that the missing scroll length was significant. You know damn well that John Gee’s measurements, if they’re wrong at all (and they might be to an extent – it’s a measurement nightmare) cannot be that wrong.

Another thing: unless I’m mistaken, I think “Chap” saw the writing on the wall pretty early on and made the wise (and, frankly, somewhat admirable) decision to vacate this whole debate. I think he’s probably intellectually honest enough to realize that, given the existence of samples of papyrus as thin as 100 microns, it quickly becomes an unwinnable debate, especially given the import of Gee’s winding measurements.

But you’re “fully invested” in the argument at this point. And it’s going to be quite painful for you to disengage from it in the face of strong objective proof (read: mathematical) that you are simply wrong.

So, wring your hands for a few days. Swear at me a little if you’d like. Come back periodically and have the “community here at MDB” with their “fun and entertaining personalities” console you in your period of grief.

And then get over it, you big baby.

Either that, or stick with your indefensible arguments and disgrace yourself. As always, the choice is yours.
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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CaliforniaKid wrote:Frankly, I'm getting sick of message board debates. Is it really that difficult to communicate without the snideness, the sniping, the disrespect, the personal attacks? It can get bad here, but MADB is the worst. It's just a great big mutual admiration society, a dogpile of people who think they know more than they really do and think you're stupid for disagreeing. I love the community here at MDB, and I love all you folks and your fun and entertaining personalities, but I'm really gonna have to cut back on the debating aspect of the boards. It leaves me mentally and emotionally exhausted, and tremendously frustrated at the utter lack of progress, respect, and understanding. Bleh.


Those who cry "foul" the loudest on these boards tend to be the worst offenders themselves. You are, however, a stellar exception to the rule. I enjoy your blog and you were quite respectful to me when I posted some disagreement with your conclusions.

I have said before that I have taken exception to the tone of apologetic writing and specifically to some FARMS-produced material. That led me to being expelled from an apologetics list (not skinny -- I was ne'er a member).

But, the tone here is vicious. Not that I am complaining; I'm not. But you'll never have many nice believing posters here if every post is a mocking attack against one's religion and one's self. The personal attacks I have had to endure, some in real life, from posters on this board is enough to drive most away. I keep vowing to get out of here to avoid dragging my children into the mix, but what the heck.
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Kevin Graham wrote:It can be just as bad here as it is over there, the main difference is that the mods here don't take sides.

This is well-put. Both critics and TBMs can be awfully nasty. MADB only seems worse because one side isn't allowed to fight back there.

I've made enemies on both forums for simply expressing an unpopular view. For example, if you had decided to step up to the plate and defend theism on this forum, I have no doubt that you'd be on the receiving end of contempt and ridicule the same as I have been.


Kevin, people give you crap here because of your aggressive writing style and your contempt for science, not because of your theistic beliefs. I've never seen anyone lay into Ray A, for example, or any of the lower-key believers.

Well, it is silly to expect progress, really. You mainly speak on Book of Abraham issues. Now do any of us here really expect folks at MADB to realize, via debate, that the Book of Abraham is a hoax and that this means Joseph Smith was a fraud, and therefore the Church isn't all that it claims to be? I was the exception, but it involved much more than simple debate.
This is interesting. Do you mind elaborating?
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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Kevin Graham wrote:I also want to express my appreciation for you CK. If it weren't for you, I might be divorced by now. I am a married man with kids and I was spending way too much time on this topic a few years ago. I was banned from MADB the week my son was born in August 2006, and I remember my wife getting on my case because I was always trying to find an internet café so I could respond to the latest wave of attacks on my character.

Afterwards, I was always trying to hit the library to research Nibley/Hauglid claims. I never could put in the time required, and then you came along and started pumping out one informed response after another. You've done a great job, just keep up the good work.

Well, if I can save just one marriage, then I guess it was worth it after all. :smile:

I think the worst aspect of posting over there is that there's no backup. Somebody can deliver a phenomenally ignorant attack on your character, and you just know that everyone who's reading is nodding with a self-satisfied smile and thinking, "That's exactly right. You tell 'em, Greg Smith. You show 'em, Will Schryver." Will can make a post like the one above on this board, and I don't even have to read it, let alone respond to it, because I know no one here is foolish enough to take him seriously. But over there I feel like I'm swimming up stream all the time, and the piranhas are attacking.

rcrocket wrote:Those who cry "foul" the loudest on these boards tend to be the worst offenders themselves. You are, however, a stellar exception to the rule. I enjoy your blog and you were quite respectful to me when I posted some disagreement with your conclusions.

Thanks, Bob. This actually does make me feel better.

But, the tone here is vicious. Not that I am complaining; I'm not. But you'll never have many nice believing posters here if every post is a mocking attack against one's religion and one's self. The personal attacks I have had to endure, some in real life, from posters on this board is enough to drive most away. I keep vowing to get out of here to avoid dragging my children into the mix, but what the heck.

I'm sure that's true, and I'm sure believers here feel just as frustrated as I feel over there. It doesn't exactly give one hope for the prospects of interfaith understanding, does it?

Dr. Shades wrote:I have an idea. Why not partake of the best of both worlds? If you see something on MA&D to which you want to respond, simply copy-and-paste it over here and then share your thoughts with the people here instead.

That's not a bad idea, and sometimes I do just that. But of course, over here I'm just preaching to the choir, for the most part.

Best,

-Chris
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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CK:
I think the worst aspect of posting over there is that there's no backup. Somebody can deliver a phenomenally ignorant attack on your character, and you just know that everyone who's reading is nodding with a self-satisfied smile and thinking, "That's exactly right. You tell 'em, Greg Smith. You show 'em, Will Schryver." Will can make a post like the one above on this board, and I don't even have to read it, let alone respond to it, because I know no one here is foolish enough to take him seriously. But over there I feel like I'm swimming up stream all the time, and the piranhas are attacking.

I tells ya, I'm just ripped open with sympathy for you.

by the way, why don't give us just ONE example one of a "phenomenally ignorant attack on your character." Man, you have really become the mega-whiner overnight, haven't you? And it doesn't even strike you as minimally ironic that you can write that sentence, and then immediately follow it with this one: "Will can make a post like the one above on this board, and I don't even have to read it, let alone respond to it, because I know no one here is foolish enough to take him seriously."

Well, my would-be friend, I know who does take me seriously, and why and how it matters. And so, if you're so damned confident of your arguments on this missing scroll business, I want to encourage you to go right ahead with your plans to continue the fight. Present on this topic at Sunstone. See if you can get papers published on it. I can't wait! Because if you think it's hard on your tender ego to be mildly smacked down for a defective argument on the MAD board, just wait until you try to defend your arguments in a bigger arena.

Now, if I were you, I'd cash in my chips in this game and move on to the next table. But hey, if you want to keep playing this crappy hand until you're flat out broke, go right ahead, Ahab.
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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William Schryver wrote:Man, you have really become the mega-whiner overnight, haven't you?

You never fail to entertain, Will, I'll give you that. Thanks for making things interesting, and for considering me at least a "would be friend" even I'm frustrated with you.

Peace and love,

-Chris
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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Will, there's not a doubt in your mind that Joseph Smith was a truthful man and a prophet of God, that the scroll is longer than any critic dare imagine and that your argument is rock solid. The facts will surely bear that out. All is right in Mormonism. You possess The Truth.

More power to you, Pangloss.

KA
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Re: I'm beginning to think it isn't worth it

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KimberlyAnn wrote:Will, there's not a doubt in your mind that Joseph Smith was a truthful man and a prophet of God, that the scroll is longer than any critic dare imagine and that your argument is rock solid. The facts will surely bear that out. All is right in Mormonism. You possess The Truth.

More power to you, Pangloss.

KA

Kimberly dear, you say there's not a doubt in your mind that Joseph Smith was a deceitful man and anything but a prophet of God, that the scroll is shorter than any apologist dare imagine and that your argument is rock solid. The facts will surely bear that out. All is right in exMormonism. You possess The Truth.

More power to you, Candide. ;)
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by the way, got anymore funny stories for us? We're still laughing about the Boy Scout OB-GYN! Did that really happen? Because I've since found different versions of the story elsewhere in cyberspace, and I really don't want to believe that you posted ahistorical (albeit entertaining) fiction in your otherwise seemingly authentic blog.
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