What absolutely mystifies me are modern day LDS who know about Joseph Smith's "marriages" and yet still defend him. I've debated this issue several times with quite a few LDS (at least the ones who have enough guts to even go down this road) and when the discussion reaches this point they will nearly always fall back on: You don't understand sacred things, the Helen Kimball marriage was purely dynastic, Fanny was married to the prophet, there was no sex with his polyandrous wives, etc. etc. Instead of looking at the situation for what it is, they attempt (valiantly) to defend Joseph Smith and blame God for LDS polygamy.
What I have found is that True Believers (in the Eric Hoffer sense of the word), will defend their guru/prophet/leader regardless of the behavior. ANYTHING can be dismissed, defended, ignored, minimized, or rationalized away. in my opinion, it demonstrates the fascinating workings of our human brains
You can point to the Manifesto and ask why would God back down to the U.S. Government... they don't have an answer. You can point out that Smith denied having more than one wife and it doesn't bother them. You can point to the 1835 D & C 101 and it appears to be no big deal to them that Smith either had at least one plural wife at the time or was having an affair--both of which are condemned. You can show them that Emma denied Smith's plural marriages and they will show you convincing evidence that she's lying. You can point out that John Taylor secretly sent envoys to places like AZ, Mexico & Canada in order to keep the "New & Everlasting Covenant" everlasting and now that same church considers the resulting "Fundamentalists" apostates(!) and still... they have no answer for the larger question: WHY? God did it.
Yep! You state this phenomenon very well. Again, I think the LDS True Believers are no different than others; whether FLDS, Scientologist, Ralian, Peoples Temple, JW, etc. etc. etc., it seems virtually impossible for some people to even begin to contemplate the idea that their guru/prophet/leader is not what he/she claims.
Having said this, I do know a few believing members who admit Joseph Smith made up the whole polygamy idea to cover his bases (smile), but they go with "the prophet is not perfect and God works with what "he" has, and so what if Joseph Smith made a few mistakes along the way" excuse.
I hold to the belief that few men who applaud Joseph Smith, would come up with the same excuses if it were their wives and young daughters, or mothers and sisters who were being told by a thirty something year old married neighbor that God sent an angel demanding these girls and women "marry" him.
In other words, the excuses given to Joseph Smith only work for Joseph Smith... anyone else who engaged in similar behavior would not get a free pass; they would probably be in jail (or worse

~td~
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