If you want to understand how people thought during the age of Mormon polygamy, there is much to read out there. Read their journals and their letters to one another. Read letters to home from Civil War soldiers, for example. There is a good example of how a man thought in 1860s America.
They didn't think like us! They didn't write like us! They didn't have the same sense of morality, or decency, or propriety.
In many ways, I think we would greatly offend them. That's why any discussion of plural marriage in the 19th century has simply got to take place after a serious study of the times in question. Our current discussions of the practice in that era are so rife with presentism that it distorts the entire conversation, and leads to no greater understanding about what was really going on at the time. <sigh>
I think I understand what Will is saying...and I can appreciate it. I'm not a historian, so if some of my facts are wrong, please correct me. But as long as we are trying to understand the early church and the culture then, isn't it appropriate that we also look at the dramatic claims of visions, angelic visitations, spiritual witnesses, etc. as presentism of that era?
In other words, I've been reading here that we really need to stop looking at their culture with modern eyes, and try to see it from their perspective. So what about the visions? Isn't it possible that what we understand as a literal visitation from God, Moroni, etc, really wasn't that at all? When viewed from their eyes, maybe it was all dreams, results of hallucinogenic sacramental wine, or otherwise -- but not a physical event as we would picture it today?
I've been told that around that time (I'm not a lawyer, so this is "hearsay"...) dreams were admissable as evidence in a court of law. If so, and what we understand the placebo effect to be today, shouldn't we look at the truth claims to possibly be very different than the way we are told they were?