Will: name one---just one---person beside yourself who's willing to openly stand by / support / blithely dismiss your actions as they've been summarized in this thread. Just one.
You need to distinguish between between my
real actions and the
alleged actions of the caricature manufactured by you and your cohorts.
In any case, my wife is well aware of my posting history on this message board, and took the time to read MsJack's opening post on this particular thread. Anything I ever said in a humorous vein, she laughed at. Those things I said in earnest, she concurs with.
So there you have it--your one person.
Incidentally, whichever of you, going by the name "Frank Rizzo," sent her the link to this thread via her Facebook account--she sincerely appreciates your concern.
LOL!