Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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_Kevin Graham
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Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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When I said someone from MAD took a photo from my Facebook account, Nemesis responded at MAD with:
Hmmm Kevin wrote this, and now I am hoping I did not make a mistake. If he truly believes this when all the facts presented show it was someone who had access to his Facebook and it was announced earlier their was a picture of him with his shirt off on mdb why would the conclusion lead here. What reason other then to obfuscate the real issue by using a distraction such as that? I wonder if there is just to much bad old history to extend olive branches and move forward.

There is no reason to be offended by my assumption that it was someone at MAD. I'm certainly not condemning the entire community there. But I'm pretty familiar with most of the posters here and I don't think I have any "home turf" enemies that would do something like this, even those who are staunch LDS apologists and even those who might resent MAD to a breaking point. I just don't see them taking these kinds of cheap shots at my expense. The person who made a remark about my Facebook pictures a few weeks ago is actually an LDS apologist, who from what I understand, migrated from the MAD board. The only enemies I'm aware of are those who call the MAD board home. I got the sense that some people were becoming very protective of Juliann, and I can understand that. But some people consider me to be one of her biggest enemies, whether justified or not, which is why I assumed it was someone from that board. I assumed they wanted to retaliate in some way, and I was the perfect punching bag available to them. I get dragged into a lot of criticisms of Will Schryver for the same reason. I just get to be enemy #1 for so many apologists at times.

Also, I thought the purpose of reactivating my account was because Nemesis wanted to communicate with me and work together in order to identify the culprit. He offered to use his list of user IP addresses to help pin-point the guilty party, which presupposes he was willing to accept the possibility that it was someone on his forum, so again I don't understand his response here about an olive branch. Is he really suggesting I return to the MAD forum and engage in the day to day conversations? Because that isn't what I understood his intentions to be.
Kevin I have been thinking, how could Eric Norwood known about your meme?

Quite easily actually. Early this morning I was working on removing all the offensive material on Juliann's photos. Others from the forum were awake and active on the thread, including Eric. When you go to the meme website, it shows you the latest memes that have been generated on the forum. By going to the main page, you scroll down and the bottom half of the page lists all photos from the most recently generated memes, and my photo was right there on the front page. Now, the reason I do not believe Eric is the culprit here is because:

1. He immediately informed me of this via private message. He said he wanted me to be aware of it, but that he didn't want to advertise it on the forum.

2. I expressed my gratitude for bringing it to me attention, and then asked him if he would go ahead and let the forum know that someone has decided to retaliate in the worst possible way. This he did, only after I asked him to, and he did not post a link to the "Apostate-Bliss" meme because he didn't want to expose me and my children in that manner. I thought that was cool of him.

3. I just don't think he is capable of this. He and I have gotten along fairly well as of late, and I just don't sense this kind of hatred towards me, and hatred is pretty much what would be required.

After he brought this to my attention I went to the main page of the meme site and saw my photo, as it was one of the recently generated memes. I didn't have to search for it. It just jumped out at me the same way it probably jumped out at Eric. This doesn't mean someone at MAD did this. I'm just saying I have a very hard time believeing Eric did.
Lets think about this your meme didn't have your name in it, who would have thought to do a search for apostate bliss?

They wouldn't need to for reasons explained above.
If I were you I would see if he is a Facebook friend of yours and consider removing him.

He is, but as Blair Hodges learned the hard way, one doesn't need to be on your friends list in order to snag photos from your albums. And as I said before, the only person I know who has been perusing my Facebook albums, is an LDS apologist. And no, I do not think he had any part in this either.
You were the only one that objected to his approval of the juliann meme and I can bet if shades looks at the poll it will be his moniker that comes up as the only vote out of sync with the rest of the group.

I wasn't aware of any approval expressed by Eric. In fact, he agreed with EAllusion when he said: "I condemn the obscene and genuinely meanspirited ones. In particular, mocking her for being abused is one of the worst things I've seen either side of the non-LDS/LDS divide from these boards. It's wrong. She's a real person, and it is not Ok to treat people like that."

That doesn't sound like someone who necessarily approves, but Eric can clarify if he so chooses. It seems to me that some thought a few of the memes were funny, but the rest were disgusting. And to be perfectly honest, I laughed at the first two or threee which were rather innocuous, and then I stopped reading after I saw a really offensive one. That's when I knew this had gotten out of hand.
Once again sorry they targeted you for taking a stand for something wrong. Hope this gets you one step closer to finding out who is responsible.

I appreciate the offer, but I'm not really that concerned about it at this point. The offensive stuff has been removed, and I know there is no chance the Russian based memegenerator website will be giving out IP addresses of whomever was responsible for it. I just wish whoever is responsible for the Juliann meme would remove the material instead of constantly adding to it.
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Re: Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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I almost posted this on the other thread, but saw Kevin mention that he started a new thread. I haven't read Kevin's new OP yet.

As much as I've been on the side of Nemesis, and as much as I disagree with Eric, I do have to say that his story about visiting the meme site and finding the picture is plausible. I occasionally saw Juliann's picture on the first page simply by visiting the site (just before I entered the search terms).

Now granted, I do think it's awfully suspicious that Eric happened to be the one, but his story is plausible and I'm not sure that pointing the finger of suspicion is going to be very fruitful. While I do think of Eric as a pot-stirrer and not exactly my favorite poster, I don't think he'd drag Kevin's kids into this even just to frame someone else.

Who really did it? Who knows. I actually hope we do get to the bottom of this one, but I don't think it's very likely. Putting kids into the mix is beyond despicable. It's worse than anything else I've seen on this board.
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Thanks for explaining all of this Kevin. I don't really have anything to add. Anyone who knows me knows I'm above this kind of thing. Plus I'd like to think of myself as much more clever than whoever did it. And little kids? Come on...
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Re: Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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Kevin Graham wrote:I wasn't aware of any approval expressed by Eric. In fact, he agreed with EAllusion when he said: "I condemn the obscene and genuinely meanspirited ones. In particular, mocking her for being abused is one of the worst things I've seen either side of the non-LDS/LDS divide from these boards. It's wrong. She's a real person, and it is not Ok to treat people like that."

This also strikes me as correct. I may not like Eric for much at all, but I have to respect the fact that he is passionate about a worthy cause--fighting child abuse. To think Eric would subject other children to danger goes against what I understand about him.
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Re: Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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Eric wrote:Thanks for explaining all of this Kevin. I don't really have anything to add. Anyone who knows me knows I'm above this kind of thing. Plus I'd like to think of myself as much more clever than whoever did it. And little kids? Come on...


Exactly. And the idea that you would do something like this and then be stupid enough to shine the spotlight on yourself early in the morning by immediately informing me about it, is too much to swallow.
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Just one more thing:

I'm friends with Kevin on Facebook (and a few choice others) because I like him and trust him with my personal information. I'm not trying to see how many friends I can get. In turn, I wouldn't use his Facebook page (and a picture of his kids of all things) to make an unfunny meme.
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Re: Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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Nemesis,

Also yes Kevin I am inviting you back for the day to day interaction if we can keep it on a somewhat civil level and hopefully be able to leave some of that past baggage outside of the board and move on


I'll keep it under advisement. That forum seems to have changed quite since 2006. I used to be interested in several discussions a day as apologist and critic were constantly engaged in debate, but now it seems to be more of an echo chamber for the faithful, and anything resembling debate is usually a squabble between Mormon and Evangelical interpretations of the Bible, which really doesn't interest me anymore since I'm neither an apologist nor an Evangelical.

I might pop in if a thread catches my interest, though I'll have to open another account since I forgot my old password and I no longer use the email associated with it. I'll make sure you know who I am when I do.
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Re: Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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This whole thing sucks. Thinking on it, makes my tummy upset.
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Re: Regarding Nemesis and Eric

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stemelbow wrote:This whole thing sucks. Thinking on it, makes my tummy upset.

I recommend pep-pep--to-Bismol. ;)
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