I don't know who told you that their suffering cold have been worse, so that make God merciful. That's not the poijnt.
http://www.mormondialogue.org/topic/550 ... 1209028429
This is the crux of the problem. They are not suffering in any kingdom. Even thouse in Outer Darkness are not suffering in the sense you are using the word. They have chosen to be in Outer Darkness because that is the place where they are most "comfortable". They choose to be with Satan rather than with God. The prefer to "reign in hel1 as opposed to serving in heaven. They would be miserable in heaven.
Now, the Lord has told us their fate is not good. It is so bad, in fact, that he does not show it to us for more than a moment because it is misery from our perspective. But, from theirs, they are happy.
The nature of God is to allow the results of agency to take place. He does not interfer when the person refuses to allow it.
Lehi
Am I missing something here, or has the need to defend Mormon doctrine at all costs just changed hell (i.e. Outer Darkness) from the worst place imaginable to a place where people can actually be happy?
Second, considering all of the arguments I've heard over the years to defend things like polygamy, Book of Abraham, etc., I really can't think of one that distorts LDS doctrine more than this one. I mean, to reinterpret the meaning of the ultimate hell in Mormonism into a place where people can be happy completely brutalizes the D&C in a way that I just find incredible.
Thoughts?