jon wrote:DrW,
Thanks for your response earlier to my question.
If I may ask, what were the LDS sources that you sourced the Joseph Smith information from that your wife read?
There is a fairly extensive file of such sources on my desktop computer at home. These have been gleaned from discussions on the various boards over the years. Right now, I am on vacation and only have my laptop with me.
If descriptions of the sites (in most cases without without specific URL's) would be on any help, they included the following:
- First on the list was a Church Family records site that lists many (29, I think) of the wives of Joseph Smith, including the dates of the "marriage" and sealing and deaths.
- The next site was "Remembering the Wives of Joseph Smith"
http://www.wivesofjosephsmith.org/where she could read short histories and personal statements (with original sources references) of the wives whose names she had just seen on the official Church records site. The stories and statements of Helen Kimball and Fanny Alger were two on this list that seemed to affect her as I pointed them out.
- I had queued up D&C 132 from the Mormon scriptures text site, and contrasted this to the Book of Mormon passage from the same site in which it is forbidden for a man to have more than one wife. I pointed out the relative approximate dates that the two were passages of "scripture" were written.
- Apologetics regarding the Book of Abraham from DCP over on MADB were also helpful. She was never told that the papyri from which the Book of Mormon was translated were common Egyptian funerary texts, which, far from being written "by the hand of Abraham upon papyri" had nothing whatsoever to do with Abraham and were, in fact, anachronistic to the biblical Abraham by millennia.
While this latter information is well known to those who have the curiosity to look, my wife was one who simply trusted what the Church told her and obeyed the admonition to not even look at "anti-Mormon" materials (i.e. factual materials that happen to not be "faith promoting" or properly "correlated".)
The realization that Smith had simply made this stuff up and then lied about it (a realization that she reached after reading apologetics on the issue, including some comments by DCP over on MADB to the effect that DCP does not care how the Book of Abraham came to be, but cares only about what it says). As I showed her DCP's apologetics on the issue, I reminded her that if one does not care that the author of a book lied about its provenance, one cannot trust the contents to be other than fiction. And when "inspired works" of truth turn out to be poor fiction (e.g. the sun gets its light from Kolob), one can be pretty sure that one is deep into the realm of, well, BS. (Being married to a scientist for several decades helped her to appreciate the significance of this kind of BS being passed off as "eternal truths".)
- As I recall, somewhere on the list was the Ensign article about Joseph Smith translating the Book of Mormon using a rock in a hat with the golden plates nowhere in site.
http://library.LDS.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Magazines/Ensign/1993.htm/ensign%20july%201993.htm/a%20treasured%20testament.htmThis little tidbit seemed to bother her as well because, like the rest of us, she had been taught through verbal lessons, painted images and the written word that Joseph Smith had used the U&T and physically worked with the golden plates leaf by leaf as he translated the book. This was just one more "little lie", along with hundreds of other little lies (and a few whoppers) that served to erode her trust.
Instead of waiting while she read these in order, I simply took her through each of the pages I had queued up and explained to her what was on them and why they were significant. I then left her alone to go back and read the details for herself.
This is what I can remember off hand of an event that took place more than a year ago. I have the complete list of sites on my computer at home and will post it once I return there. The list I post will contain live links that can be followed directly from the post.
The point is that when one starts to search, in earnest, the weight of evidence against the truth claims of the LDS Church becomes overwhelming in short order.