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marg wrote:
You were extremely stubborn at the time and very persistent ( I can be the same way)..so perhaps with that context in mind it might explain why some such as Cabbie posted with intent to “get your goat” so to speak.


Blame the victim.

I think that the point is: people should be treated with respect. On the postmo it was recommended that I get professional help. Such things should not be said on any board. The internet can make frustrated people aggressive. It can let off steam and even feel good for a moment. But the bottomline is that it doesn't make this world a better place.
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marg wrote:
I do understand Dan's reception. It's a little bit like this board posting nasty posts to whyme. So many people disagree with whyme that when he posts..he get a pile of people here not just one person ...taking pot shots, being nasty or just simply disagreeing with him.



This may be true. But people here don't claim that I was a victim of incest or an abusive dad and that I live a lonely life devoid of human contact. The personal does not appear here on this board. And if it has, I have forgotten it.

I do have thick skin.
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angsty wrote:
why me wrote:
And remember this about the LDS church too. If you follow the rules, you should have no problem.


This is a very strange thing for you to say in conjunction with other things you have said on this thread.


I was playing on your own position that if one follows the rules on rfm, one will have no problem. Such advice also works for the LDS church.

The Mormon church is a worldwide church with worldwide views based on local cultures. What good for Utah may not be good for moscow where most of the extended family is not LDS. Not to mention the fact that the nearest temple is in kiev. I don't think uncle boris will be getting in his car with his wife to head down to the temple anyway, even if they could get in.

So, no problem there.
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why me wrote:
I was playing on your own position that if one follows the rules on rfm, one will have no problem. Such advice also works for the LDS church.


Oh, I understood the point you were making, no reiteration necessary. I also illustrated why it was flawed in conjunction with other things you have said in this thread.

The Mormon church is a worldwide church with worldwide views based on local cultures. What good for Utah may not be good for moscow where most of the extended family is not LDS. Not to mention the fact that the nearest temple is in kiev. I don't think uncle boris will be getting in his car with his wife to head down to the temple anyway, even if they could get in.

So, no problem there.


Actually, the allowances in the UK for traditional public weddings before private sealings are because the sealing ordinance is not a legally-recognized marriage there. It's not about respect for culture. It's about respect for the law. If it were about a respect for culture, then members outside Utah would be treated differently than members within Utah-- the cultures are very different after all.

Most of my extended family is not LDS-- why doesn't the church care about that if it matters in Moscow? I'll tell you why, because it's not a factor the church considers in shaping policy on marriage conventions at all whether in Moscow or the US or wherever.
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Simon Belmont wrote:Some of the members insult and say the most awful stuff about certain elderly men who are just trying to do good in the world and live their religion. One RfM member even insults his own grandfather. I'm sorry, but that's messed up.


Only if his grandfather is not worthy of insult.
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angsty wrote:
Most of my extended family is not LDS-- why doesn't the church care about that if it matters in Moscow? I'll tell you why, because it's not a factor the church considers in shaping policy on marriage conventions at all whether in Moscow or the US or wherever.


If it is such a concern for you and if you were planning to get married, then you can choose to get married in the chapel and wait a year before a temple marriage. No problem. The temple marriage is about 5 minutes. It is so fast that if a person blinks they will miss it. And how many people can fit in the room? Not many. Members are free to marry in the chapel.

A temple wedding is not a 30 minute catholic or protestant wedding. The couple enter the room, say a few words and leave. End of ceremony.

RFMers love to bitch and moan about the LDS church. It is their hobby and obsession. Why not start your porn thread here as you did on RFM? People on this forum love porn threads.

Take a look at this video when the couple leave the temple. The relatives are waiting outside. No room in the bus for everyone.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8E_ylOaU ... re=related
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selek wrote:
Simon Belmont wrote:Some of the members insult and say the most awful stuff about certain elderly men who are just trying to do good in the world and live their religion. One RfM member even insults his own grandfather. I'm sorry, but that's messed up.


Only if his grandfather is not worthy of insult.


How many people who act like assholes to the younger members of their family do so without the cover of 'just trying to do good in the world and live their religion'? Not a lot, in my experience. It is just too sweet to combine being an asshole with forcing everyone else to agree that you are just doing the Lord's will ...

Let us just imagine how many Taliban grandfathers in Aghanistan are doing just that at this moment. How terrible and how wrong it would be if any of their grandchildren were to speak of them disrespectfully!
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Marg,

No, Marg. I’m just more balanced and moderate in my approach to Joseph Smith and early Mormons. Without your conspiracy theory, you would probably be less dogmatic and extreme. It would also help if you knew Mormon sources and historical methodology better.


Dan there is no historical methodology ..that suggests that primary witnesses' statements should always be accepted at face value. Context and motivation needs to be taken into account. Your acceptance they are sincere and honest is your particular but unjustified mindreading..not historical methodology.


Notice how you don’t really respond to my comment. You only attack. And you completely misrepresent the situation. Of course, I don’t accept Mormon testimony at face value. This is you straw man, myth-making, misperception, or whatever. But it’s getting predictable and boring. If you recall, I was the one quoting methodology books in support of my handling of the documents. I showed that not only were there multiple testimony with regard to Joseph Smith’s method of translation, but that it was given independently—unlike the Spalding witnesses.

It is also plainly wrong to say that I rely on mind reading when I accept the Mormon eyewitness testimony, although you rely on bigotry and an unsophisticated skepticism when you reject their testimony based on their unrelated visionary experiences. I quoted David Whitmer non-Mormon neighbors and acquaintances as to his honesty and integrity—to which you had no response. That’s not mind reading—that’s what historians do.

Of course, I spent hours explaining to you how historians should handle such testimony. If you didn’t get it then, you certainly won’t now. It’s this kind of situation that makes conversing with you a complete waste of time. I took the time on the Spalding thread for the benefit of those who might be researching the topic, but it is quite unnecessary to do it here. So this is probably a one-time response.

You and some of the RFMers that I ran into are the other side of the apologetic coin. The Mormon apologists accept uncritically Mormon sources while rejecting anything that comes from an “anti-Mormon”, you do the opposite.


Not the case Dan, one must look at the context of evidence and take into consideration motives and benefits to the individuals involved.

You on the other hand don't take into account the context in this case, that a fraud is involved and that there are justified reasons for assuming those involved in some capacity would be motivated to present information supportive of their interests and that their claims can not be taken at face value. You pretty much seem to accept uncritically anything the early Mormons claimed, but you don't apply that same standard across the board to evidence non favorable to early Mormon claims.


Again, notice how you do not respond to my comment.

I recall Cabbie quoting a statement given by William Law that was mostly hearsay, and he didn’t like me pointing that out to him. I use the same methodology on Mormon sources, which makes what I do credible. Your accusation that I accept Mormon sources uncritically will find plenty of refutation in the body of my work. Such a silly statement only makes sense to those on the extreme end of critical spectrum.

Again, the eyewitnesses became believers because of what they saw. Bias can be overcome through multiple and independent testimony. Their testimony that Joseph Smith used no MS is support by his inability to replace the lost MS. Believers might be biased, but that doesn’t mean they would lie and fabricate. For that conclusion, you need a different kind of evidence. But this is not the place to rehash the Spalding debate.

I’m not trying to be the middle of anything. I’m making my own way. I’m trying to make sense of all the data.

But you and the RFMers are so polarized that you can’t even rightly judge my position. The prime example of this is the statement above. Your assertion that the only difference in my position and the apologists’ is mine doesn’t have God as an explanation is ridiculous. It makes no sense. You seem to imply that they only way to not be an apologists is to disagree with them at every turn.


Well I'm only considering one area of Mormonism and that is by whom and how was the Book of Mormon written. Your theory rests on a position that Cowdery, the Whitmers, Emma, Harris were all honest reliable people..who would have willingly exposed any fraud going on and would not have willingly participating in any way. To the extent that you uncritically accept Smith, his scribes and Book of Mormon witnesses' claims but apply a different standard which entails complete rejection of evidence not compatible with your beliefs for the Book of Mormon translation process ... I find your position apologetic. You say Smith wrote the Book of Mormon on his own, simply dictated with his head in a hat to scribes and the church says he had divine assistance. So on this issue Dan of how the Book of Mormon was written you are closely aligned to the church's position. But it's the uncritical acceptance of claims favorable to the church and the different standard you apply to evidence not favorable to the church ...that I find apologetic.


Of course, you are clearly wrong—as was Benson when he said I was a Joseph Smith apologist because I called him pious. Utter silliness. If you recall, I went to the real apologists at the FAIR board and conducted a survey—“Is Dan Vogel an Apologist for Joseph Smith?” Well, I don’t have to tell you the results of that survey, do I? Of course I don’t uncritically accept Joseph Smith and the eyewitnesses to his translation method. I’m not aligned with the church on this since they still disseminate the breastplate and spectacles behind the curtain story. How does accepting eyewitnesses’ testimony, which includes two non-Mormons, make me an apologist? You only think that because it conflicts with YOUR pet theory. That’s where the RfMers went wrong. They were intolerant not only of me, but anyone who either supported me or wanted to explore the theory. Beastie wasn’t the only one; there were others who spoke out against Benson’s behavior, and they were attacked as well.

Personally, I could care less about what they do there, because it reminds me all too much of certain conformist aspects of Mormon culture. I guess Benson and Cabbie thought they had been assigned to the correlation committee.
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why me wrote:
angsty wrote:
Most of my extended family is not LDS-- why doesn't the church care about that if it matters in Moscow? I'll tell you why, because it's not a factor the church considers in shaping policy on marriage conventions at all whether in Moscow or the US or wherever.


If it is such a concern for you and if you were planning to get married, then you can choose to get married in the chapel and wait a year before a temple marriage. No problem. The temple marriage is about 5 minutes. It is so fast that if a person blinks they will miss it. And how many people can fit in the room? Not many. Members are free to marry in the chapel.

A temple wedding is not a 30 minute catholic or protestant wedding. The couple enter the room, say a few words and leave. End of ceremony.

RFMers love to bitch and moan about the LDS church. It is their hobby and obsession. Why not start your porn thread here as you did on RFM? People on this forum love porn threads.

Take a look at this video when the couple leave the temple. The relatives are waiting outside. No room in the bus for everyone.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8E_ylOaU ... re=related


Dear, I was married in the temple. I know what it's like. I said that earlier in the thread. You keep explaining your point of view as if I don't understand. I do understand, I just think you're wrong and I have given good reasons already to support my position. What you have restated here, I have already addressed earlier in the thread. You are just running around in circles-- ignoring responses in favor of restating the comment the response was directed at.

There's nothing wrong with my porn thread over at RfM. I posted it there because I know some of those people. I'm new to this board, so I'm not going to start threads until I get a better feel for it.

I see you can leave RfM, but you can't leave it alone, can you? It must be the one true message board. LOL.
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Dan Vogel wrote:
Notice how you don’t really respond to my comment. You only attack. And you completely misrepresent the situation. Of course, I don’t accept Mormon testimony at face value. This is you straw man, myth-making, misperception, or whatever. But it’s getting predictable and boring. If you recall, I was the one quoting methodology books in support of my handling of the documents. I showed that not only were there multiple testimony with regard to Joseph Smith’s method of translation, but that it was given independently—unlike the Spalding witnesses.


Dan I did no more attacking than you, I did not completely misrepresent the situation. You complain about being attacked but you are the one doing most of it.

Your methodolgy book doesn't support you. McCullagh's "Justifying Historical Descriptions" gives a number of examples in which the primary witnesses' claims originally accepted by some historians or historically get rejected based upon evidence with better explanatory power which takes into account the context of the situation involved and the motivations of the primary witnesses. It doesn't matter how many multiple witnesses and/or if they gave their statements independently for the Book of Mormon translation, Dan if they all have a vested interest. And if there's only a few who didn't have a vested interest (like 2) but their experience is within the control of the fraudsters..then their statement don't help to support the fraudsters claims. Sheesh Dan.

And just as you didn't want to talk about Spalding with Criddle I'm not going there in this thread either. All I'm dealing with is your discussion on RFM..and how it leans towards apologetics for Mormonism. Your pious fraud theory and so much of your views on Smith rely upon the assumption that the primary witnesses..Emma, Cowdery, The Whitmers, J. Smith mother and father, M. Harris are essentially sincere trustworthy witnesses. It all rests on that assumption...which Dan ..leans towards apologetics.

It is also plainly wrong to say that I rely on mind reading when I accept the Mormon eyewitness testimony, although you rely on bigotry and an unsophisticated skepticism when you reject their testimony based on their unrelated visionary experiences. I quoted David Whitmer non-Mormon neighbors and acquaintances as to his honesty and integrity—to which you had no response. That’s not mind reading—that’s what historians do.


I'm tired of hearing you say "that's what historians do", or that you have no other choice but to accept their claims or telling me my problem is I don't understand historical methodology.

What you do is not what historians do. I know because I read McCullagh's book and he gave a number of examples in which primary witnesses' statements were rejected. McCullagh points out that understanding people's mental states is the hardest to justify. You are not the least bit skeptical of any of the Book of Mormon witnesses. This despite the fact they are involved in a fraud, which you acknowledge.

And as far as the Book of Mormon testimony statements..I've explained that the "nature of a claim" calls into question people's credibility. And if you can't see that ...you are not much of a skeptic. Calling me dogmatic is ad hom fallacy.

Of course, I spent hours explaining to you how historians should handle such testimony. If you didn’t get it then, you certainly won’t now.


Which is why I bought the book you referenced and found it didn't support you. A theory's explanatory power and scope is the key consideration. Your theory lacks explanatory power and scope.

It’s this kind of situation that makes conversing with you a complete waste of time. I took the time on the Spalding thread for the benefit of those who might be researching the topic, but it is quite unnecessary to do it here. So this is probably a one-time response.


I agree..I haven't brought up Spalding here..you did...but your pious fraud theory came up in this discussion.


Again, notice how you do not respond to my comment.


I did respond to it.

I recall Cabbie quoting a statement given by William Law that was mostly hearsay, and he didn’t like me pointing that out to him. I use the same methodology on Mormon sources, which makes what I do credible. Your accusation that I accept Mormon sources uncritically will find plenty of refutation in the body of my work. Such a silly statement only makes sense to those on the extreme end of critical spectrum.


Dan I've spent plenty of time reading your arguments in the spalding thread in celestial forum to fully appreciate that your theory and historical interpretations, rests on your non skeptical, uncritical assumption that the Book of Mormon translation witnesses are honest. From that assumption you assume Smith wrote the Book of Mormon, from that you interpret sections in the Book of Mormon as a reflection of Smith's psyche and argue he's a "pious fraud".

Again, the eyewitnesses became believers because of what they saw. Bias can be overcome through multiple and independent testimony. Their testimony that Joseph Smith used no MS is support by his inability to replace the lost MS. Believers might be biased, but that doesn’t mean they would lie and fabricate. For that conclusion, you need a different kind of evidence. But this is not the place to rehash the Spalding debate.


Exactly , it's not the place.


Of course, you are clearly wrong—as was Benson when he said I was a Joseph Smith apologist because I called him pious. Utter silliness. If you recall, I went to the real apologists at the FAIR board and conducted a survey—“Is Dan Vogel an Apologist for Joseph Smith?” Well, I don’t have to tell you the results of that survey, do I?


I'm aware you posed that question on FAIR..I saw it but I didn't pay much attention to what the replies were. I also don't recall Benson saying you were a J. smith apologist but I don't doubt he did and I'm sure that's something you'd remember much better than I. When you first originally went there and when I knew you on the FAIR board I didn't appreciate your views. So when you started to post on RFM...I thought you'd be embraced.

Without Benson's remarks as to why he argued you were a J. Smith apologist I really can't comment, I don't know what all his reasoning was.. I too, Dan have suggested within the Celestial thread, you are an apologist ..so it's no surprise to me if anyone should think that.

Of course I don’t uncritically accept Joseph Smith and the eyewitnesses to his translation method. I’m not aligned with the church on this since they still disseminate the breastplate and spectacles behind the curtain story. How does accepting eyewitnesses’ testimony, which includes two non-Mormons, make me an apologist? You only think that because it conflicts with YOUR pet theory. That’s where the RfMers went wrong. They were intolerant not only of me, but anyone who either supported me or wanted to explore the theory. Beastie wasn’t the only one; there were others who spoke out against Benson’s behavior, and they were attacked as well.


Well you don't accept J. Smith's claims to divine intervention, however when arguing with you the way you present it's hard to establish that. You've lost me on "I’m not aligned with the church on this since they still disseminate the breastplate and spectacles behind the curtain story".

With regards to : "How does accepting eyewitnesses’ testimony, which includes two non-Mormons, make me an apologist? You only think that because it conflicts with YOUR pet theory."

Well to start with the Book of Mormon testimony in the Book of Mormon due to the nature of the claims they are testifying to does affect their credibility..especially Cowdery. But as well D. Whitmer & Harris. You don't recognize that. And accusing me of bigotry..is just another one of you ad homs which you dish out frequently. The fact that all the Book of Mormon witnesses to the translation process other than the 2 you point out, had a vested interest...affects the reliability of their statements. The fact that we know Smith was involved in cons..which his wife knew and I'm sure others involved knew affects the liklihood that they would be aware the Book of Mormon was a con but your position is that Smith conned them and they are all sincerely believe it all. Not only do you not assume any of them possessed skepticism but you yourself, don't possess skepticism of their intent and motivation.

Personally, I could care less about what they do there, because it reminds me all too much of certain conformist aspects of Mormon culture. I guess Benson and Cabbie thought they had been assigned to the correlation committee.


I'm sure to Beastie and yourself it appeared that Benson and Cabbie controlled the discussion and that the majority went along with what they said. My focus was on the arguments overall, not on Cabbies' insult to Beastie or Benson when he reposted the same post but in new startup threads I believe in a short time period. I've seen that before when someone is ignoring a point and the person wants that addressed. In effect Stak is doing that on this board..he keeps bumping up a thread to get Dan P to respond well. That's similar to what I recall Benson doing..but over a short period of time in one day, it came across as weird.

Be that as it may, you have your perception of that board and what went on, and what would loom large in your mind wouldn't necessarily in mine. Benson and Cabbie I didn't notice nearly as much as some of the other posters and their arguments which I thought were well presented and argued..but at this point I have a weak memory of details.
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