You are right to call Christians on their selective approach to Jesus’ teachings.
Plesae do.
The hard sayings are usually ignored or downplayed.
which means what? What would it take for you to see it as UNusual?
It’s easier to make Jesus into some sort of apologist for our own culture, values, or aspirations (prosperity gospels, Jesus endorses the American constitution),
Taking a small slice of Protestantism as normative hardly helps your case. Whatever it is.
glossing over just how radical and demanding his teachings really are.
So we must conform to YOUR idea of what is radical? I know lots of Christians who live radically.
I think most of us would find it pretty uncomfortable if we actually spent some time with the Jesus that is portrayed in the gospels.
Not me.
Thomas a Kempis in the 15th century had a better grasp on this than most of his fellow believers do:
“Jesus has always many who love His heavenly kingdom, but few who bear His cross. He has many who desire consolation, but few who care for trial. He finds many to share His table, but few to take part in His fasting. All desire to be happy with Him; few wish to suffer anything for Him. Many follow Him to the breaking of bread, but few to the drinking of the chalice of His passion. Many revere His miracles; few approach the shame of the Cross.
Okay, we get it it. YOu're well read and you, obviously, have done an exhaustive study of this very subject. However, for you to condemn the rest of us, or any of us, you have to explain how we are not doing what is described above. What would this life look like to you? And is your view the only one that has compatability of this?
The book ‘Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream’ by David Platt addresses some of these issues. From the product description on Amazon:
“What is Jesus worth to you?
See above.
It's easy for American Christians to forget how Jesus said his followers would actually live, what their new lifestyle would actually look like. They would, he said, leave behind security, money, convenience, even family for him. They would abandon everything for the gospel. They would take up their crosses daily...
But who do you know who lives like that? Do you?”
What does "American Christians" have to do with anything? I sense a bit of xenophobia here. But, be that as it may, I know several who have done exactly what you've described. I have not. Does that make me "less" in some quantitave way? Qualitative way? Explain how.
I've done things for the cause of Christ that only I can do, given my unique background, skill-set, and expertise. Does this make me any more than anyone else? I don't think so. Do you?