The Double Standard in the LDS Law of Chastity (pic heavy)

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Re: The Double Standard in the LDS Law of Chastity (pic heavy)

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CSA wrote:I personally don't care if people choose to live a homosexual life here on earth. In the hereafter there will be no homosexual relations, just heterosexual relations, so why should there be any endorsement of that type of lifestyle within the church?


Let's make one thing clear. I did choose to live a homosexual life here on earth after divorce (my 20 year marriage failed) having lived in the closet for so long. Being gay is who I really am. It's as natural as the rain coming from a cloud or the plant that springs up out of soil. I was born that way and always liked boys -- I did not choose my sexual orientation. You did not choose yours either.

If there is a hereafter I will continue to love boys in any manner I wish according to my desires. It is evil to forbid one to be who they really are -- live, love, be.

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There is no double standard because the LDS Church coinsiders homosexuality to be sin. Therefore heterosexual courtship cannot possibly be compared to homosexual courtship in terms of standards.
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Let's make one thing clear. I did choose to live a homosexual life here on earth after divorce (my 20 year marriage failed) having lived in the closet for so long. Being gay is who I really am. It's as natural as the rain coming from a cloud or the plant that springs up out of soil. I was born that way and always liked boys -- I did not choose my sexual orientation. You did not choose yours either.


What's clear is that if you ever had unforced sex with your wife [insert hilarious picture here] you cannot possibly be homosexual without having chosen it.
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bcspace wrote:
Let's make one thing clear. I did choose to live a homosexual life here on earth after divorce (my 20 year marriage failed) having lived in the closet for so long. Being gay is who I really am. It's as natural as the rain coming from a cloud or the plant that springs up out of soil. I was born that way and always liked boys -- I did not choose my sexual orientation. You did not choose yours either.


What's clear is that if you ever had unforced sex with your wife [insert hilarious picture here] you cannot possibly be homosexual without having chosen it.


bcspace appears to have a somewhat limited experience of the range of human sexuality. That's fine by me: better that he should not get out of his depth.
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It's okay if you're Mormon to get yer ya-ya's out, but only if

1-With someone to whom you are married, and

2-You are married to someone of the opposite gender.

If you have ya-ya's of another ilk, too bad. No relief for you. The Mormon god wants you to have pent up frustrations all your life.

As Mick Jagger once penned for lyrics, "I only get my rocks off when I'm sleeping". Jagger must have had a Mormon homosexual in mind when he jotted that lyric down.
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harmony wrote:
CSA wrote:I personally don't care if people choose to live a homosexual life here on earth. In the hereafter there will be no homosexual relations, just heterosexual relations, so why should there be any endorsement of that type of lifestyle within the church?


Actually... you don't know anything about the hereafter. No one does. You don't know if there even IS a hereafter. You just hope there is, and that is conforms to whatever you've been taught.

Another one of those not "knowing" things.


That's exactly what I was thinking, Harm, my dear. The matter of the hereafter is based on faith but more especially for religious persons to say that there won't be gay love in another life is a dogmatic religious view that has zero proof. It's just heresay or, worse.

Love expressed between two gay men is beautiful. Gay sexual orientation is part of the living cosmos which we live. It's real and runs deep in feeling and affection.

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bcspace appears to have a somewhat limited experience of the range of human sexuality. That's fine by me: better that he should not get out of his depth.


bcspace actually knew and worked with homosexuals in the gay hotbeds of Oak Lawn, Texas and Hollyweird, CA. He also had the specific assignment to teach those seeking to return to the Church.
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bcspace wrote:
bcspace appears to have a somewhat limited experience of the range of human sexuality. That's fine by me: better that he should not get out of his depth.


bcspace actually knew and worked with homosexuals in the gay hotbeds of Oak Lawn, Texas and Hollyweird, CA. He also had the specific assignment to teach those seeking to return to the Church.


But somehow I don't think he had sex with anybody much while he was there. At least I hope not.

(By the way, I like the idea of a 'hotbed'. Is it anything like a hot tub?)
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Droopy wrote:
Droopy, do you remember about a year ago, when I asked you why---if equal protection for gay people is a "liberal" issue---the plaintiffs' attorney in Perry v. Schwarzenegger is well-known as being a conservative?


I don't know. Perhaps the plaintiff's attorney here is a dip in the road. Perhaps he's not really a "conservative" in a substantive intellectual sense (terming certain useful examples (Brooks, Bernake et al, et al) as "conservatives" and then holding others to their standards is a well worn trick I've long grown used to fielding). Perhaps he has personal, emotional or psychological reasons. Do you know? No, I didn't think so.


See: No True Scotsman Fallacy

The one thing I do know is that, from a constitutional and philosophical perspective, homosexual marriage is not an equal protection issue at all. That sophistry is easy to knock out of the ballpark, and I and others have done it time and again.


You have? Oh, for joy! I can't wait for you to show me where you did this!

I would like to see a direct quote from Jesus regarding his feelings about gay people.


Jesus apparently never wrote a book. His apostles, however, did do a great deal of writing, and they, whom Jesus tells us if we do not hear, will not hear him, have made a number of clear statements on the subject, in both ancient and modern times.


In other words, you are unable to show us what Jesus himself thinks about gay people, only what those who purport to speak for him think.

How about if we just limit it to the four Gospels? Plenty of things in there are attributed to Jesus. What did Jesus say in the four Gospels about gay people?

Thank you for conceding the point that the LDS Church's banal platitudes about loving gay people and treating them equally as long as they live the law of chastity are in fact nothing but banal platitudes.


Your own personal phantasm regarding the nature of most homosexual relationships, as well as your substantial misunderstandings (or, more likely, willful misconstrual) of the text of the constitution, have painted you into a corner that allows you very, very little intellectual or moral breathing room.


That is non-responsive either to my statement or to the OP.

However, let's talk about painting yourself into a corner that allows you little breathing room---even if that is a mixed metaphor. We'll start with the rational basis test.

Droopy: name me ONE jurisdiction in the United States that requires having children---or having the ability to have children---as a condition precedent to enter a legally valid marriage.
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bcspace wrote:
bcspace actually knew and worked with homosexuals in the gay hotbeds


See: Freudian Slip
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