https://LDS.org/youth/for-the-strength- ... h?lang=eng
Here are quotes from the pamphlet, followed by the thoughts I had as a youth, who took this stuff pretty seriously.
Anything? The Lord has left me. I am in the dark.Do not do anything else that arouses sexual feelings. Do not arouse those emotions in your own body. Pay attention to the promptings of the Spirit so that you can be clean and virtuous. The Spirit of the Lord will withdraw from one who is in sexual transgression.
what do you mean by "any type"? Anything that arouses emotions? I guess the Lands End catalog really is pornography. I'm in trouble.Do not participate in any type of pornography. The Spirit can help you know when you are at risk and give you the strength to remove yourself from the situation.
what behavior? Hand holding? How serious?Homosexual and lesbian behavior is a serious sin. If you find yourself struggling with same-gender attraction or you are being persuaded to participate in inappropriate behavior, seek counsel from your parents and bishop. They will help you.
I can't overcome inappropriate thoughts and feelings. I've tried 100 times. I overcome for maybe a month but there is always something that comes up and causes me to have inappropriate thoughts and feelings. I'm not repenting enough.If you are tempted to commit any form of sexual transgression, seek help from your parents and bishop. Pray to your Father in Heaven, who will help you resist temptation and overcome inappropriate thoughts and feelings. If you have committed sexual transgression, talk to your bishop now and begin the process of repentance so that you can find peace and have the full companionship of the Spirit.
I have already delayed it a long time. I have lost many opportunities.If you delay repentance, you may lose blessings, opportunities, and spiritual guidance. You may also become further entangled in sinful behavior, making it more difficult to find your way back.
How serious? It must be really serious!Serious sins, such as sexual transgression or use of pornography, need to be confessed to your bishop. Be completely honest with him. He will help you repent. If you have a question about what should be discussed with the bishop, talk with your parents or with him.
I thought I did it but I still don't *know* for myself. When will I come to *know*?When you do what is necessary to repent and receive forgiveness, you will know for yourself the power of the Atonement and the love God has for you.