BrianH
I believe the Bible. I don't know what an EV is.
An "EV" refers to Evangelical Christian. Whether you are EV or not, is irrelevant. That fact that you claim to believe in the Bible, leads me to conclude that you are Christian. If I have got that wrong, please correct me.
If you are indeed, a Bible believing Christian, you are entirely messed up. I am a Bible believing Christian and by my own admission and conduct on this board, I can be seen as smooth as butter or rough around the edges, depending on what I am coming in contact with.
Given that, I am likely to be harder on you than I would any other type of poster on this board. Harder on my "own kind" if you will, not that I would claim you for a single second.
If you have a Bible available to you in your home or online, I encourage you to go over 1 Corinthians and review the philosophy of the Apostle Paul who if he were to see your words on these threads you've created, would likely put the smack down on you quicker and more succinctly than the Jersey Girl who is posting to you on the screen.
The Apostle Paul knew how to find common ground in order to relate to people. He made himself accessible by his own life and by his teachings. He was responsible for a multitude of new church starts and bringing the Gospel of Christ to the Gentiles.
You might want to take a lesson or two from him.