Gadianton wrote:One thing you can feel hopeful for, Rollo, is that if the analysts and third party consultants ever run their equations and supporting SSM comes up as promising a statistically significant gain in image that will translate to monetary gains, then the Church will become SSM friendly. But it's unlikely that there will be a material benefit to the Church taking such a position for several years if ever.
I tend to agree. I think the Brethren directed the Church to take such an active role in the Prop. 8 fight because it was the popular thing to do in CA and they thought they could win (and did). They haven't taken nearly as active a role anywhere else because of the negatives (even though, supposedly, God's doctrine "against" gay marriage is the same everywhere and the Church should fight for that doctrine regardless of the odds against winning), and, of course, the backlash in CA caused the Brethren to back off considerably from future fights. The CA fight was a debacle, and the Church knows it.
I do hope you're right -- when the negatives become too great (especially the monetary negatives) the Church will (hopefully) rethink its stand, and, even if the Church never recognizes gay marriage as a religious sacrament, will accept civil gay marriage as a fundamental civil right. I just hope it happens in my lifetime. If not, then at least I've taught my passel of children that there should never be prejudice of any kind, including against gays and lesbians, and that the Church's political position against civil gay marriage is wrong, plain and simple.