Mary wrote:Can anyone point me to the best arguments/evidence that suggest that Joseph Smith never committed adultery and never had sexual relationships with any of his plural or polyandrous wives.
Thanks.
The greatest reassurance of Joseph being a righteous man is his own words as he faced certain death. A lot of hay has been made of late by the subliminal comparison between Joseph Smith and the child abusing Warren Jeffs. Anyone who say the cowardice of Jeffs in his afflictions and his denial even of his prophet status and his wicked oppression of his own people punishing them for his afflictions might take pause to compare such with what Joseph is oft quoted as having said:
“I am going like a lamb to the slaughter, but I am calm as a Summer’s morning. I have a conscience void of offense towards God, and towards all men. I shall die innocent, and it shall yet be said of me, ‘He was murdered in cold blood.’”
He could have saved his own skin if he had denied all. You have to wonder then about his integrity and honor and what that says against the railing accusations that are certainly malicious and sought out from every corner to piece together a counter myth motivated by the passions of hate and envy.
Any who read Joseph's own words through the years with love for him in their hearts sense that he was exactly as he openly gave himself out to be. His fierce love for people knew no bounds. When the power to seal dynastic families was finally utilized he was led by that great love to seal unto himself an extended family of those dear to him as friends.
Emma was involved in the promotion of the extended family as witnessed by a black women who served in the Mansion House who said that Emma invited her to be sealed to Joseph. We do not get the impression that the sealing was intended to be that of a wife. (Brigham forbid)
Jane Elizabeth Manning James, Early Member of the Church, 1813–1908
Jane James, a young black woman who had been employed at the Smith home, described that day this way: "I [knew] the Prophet Joseph. That lovely hand! He used to put it out to me. Never passed me without shaking hands with me wherever he was. Oh, he was the finest man I ever saw on earth. . . . When he was killed . . . I could have died, just laid down and died."
In Heidi S. Swinton, American Prophet: The Story of Joseph Smith (1999), 14.