Is homosexuality a choice?

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Re: Is homosexuality a choice?

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Buffalo wrote:
gdemetz wrote:I have a gay friend in the church who is getting married (to a woman) in June. He is determined to keep striving to live the principles of the gospel. I admire him for that! Most people in his situation would just give up, become bitter toward the church, and constantly try to find fault with it in a vain and futile attempt to feel better about themselves by doing so.


I hope you'll be there for him when he gets divorced.


...and attempts suicide.
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Polygamy-Porter wrote:I am not picking sides here, as I think it is more complex the merely genius OR choice.
(bold mine)

Maybe that explains Alan Turing.
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gdemetz wrote:I have a gay friend in the church who is getting married (to a woman) in June. He is determined to keep striving to live the principles of the gospel. I admire him for that! Most people in his situation would just give up, become bitter toward the church, and constantly try to find fault with it in a vain and futile attempt to feel better about themselves by doing so.
Buffalo wrote:I hope you'll be there for him when he gets divorced.
Drifting wrote:...and attempts suicide.


I'm more interested in what the guy's wife thinks than in what gdemetz thinks. Hey, gdemetz, have you asked her?
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Nomomo wrote:
gdemetz wrote:I have a gay friend in the church who is getting married (to a woman) in June. He is determined to keep striving to live the principles of the gospel. I admire him for that! Most people in his situation would just give up, become bitter toward the church, and constantly try to find fault with it in a vain and futile attempt to feel better about themselves by doing so.
Twisted


I want to cry. :cry:
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gdemetz wrote:I have a gay friend in the church who is getting married (to a woman) in June. He is determined to keep striving to live the principles of the gospel. I admire him for that! Most people in his situation would just give up, become bitter toward the church, and constantly try to find fault with it in a vain and futile attempt to feel better about themselves by doing so.


I'm pretty certain the Church counsels against marriage as a method of attempting to cure Gayness.
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I don't know that they do, but apparently he feels that he is ready for that step.
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gdemetz wrote:I don't know that they do, but apparently he feels that he is ready for that step.


You can see where that is headed...right...?
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I hope that it works out, but I have to admit that I have my concerns about that.
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gdemetz wrote:I hope that it works out, but I have to admit that I have my concerns about that.


You are going to need to be a good friend at some point.

Good luck.
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Re: Is homosexuality a choice?

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Yea, thanks!
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