Message to Women: Cover-up or it's your fault if men leer

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Re: Message to Women: Cover-up or it's your fault if men lee

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MCB wrote:A man sins when he gets an erection.

Complain, complain. Just take responsibility. :twisted:


Is this a joke? It becomes a sin if a man gets an erection? So, a man can gawk, fantasize, and all is well in the catholic faith? I am afraid that you got it wrong.

With your statement, men who need blue pills will never sin as they gawk at women. :biggrin:
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why me wrote:Well, if men on this forum were honest they would admit that when a women walks by in tight jeans with a nice bottom, they are looking. Also, when a woman wears a revealing blouse, the men are looking. It is only natural for guys to look at sexy women. Of course, I kinda like women wearing revealing clothes. It is one of the pleasures of being a man to look.

So, basically the church is right. Why excite the male into a fantasy?


I fail to see how covering up women will prevent men from admiring their beauty. You can cover Angelina Jolie in a burlap sack and I would still find her attractive. Since you struggle to have healthy interactions with attractive women, maybe you should just stay away from them.
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Morley wrote:
It's not a woman's responsibility. It's mine.
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Well, a guy is a guy. If a woman wears something revealing, the guy will look and imagine what if. That is just the way it is. And women know this too. Mind you, I am not complaining.
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why me wrote:
Morley wrote:
It's not a woman's responsibility. It's mine.
.


Well, a guy is a guy. If a woman wears something revealing, the guy will look and imagine what if. That is just the way it is. And women know this too. Mind you, I am not complaining.


Nobody is complaining about guys looking. But when a guy turns into a lecherous ass, who's fault is it? If you have a nice car that you worked hard for, and you like to drive it around to turn heads, and a guy steals it, is it your fault for tempting him?
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DarkHelmet wrote:
I fail to see how covering up women will prevent men from admiring their beauty. You can cover Angelina Jolie in a burlap sack and I would still find her attractive.


A modest dressed woman is more appealing. It leaves more to the imagination. But to dress sexually or in an enticing way, can cause thoughts inside the man that he should not have if he is religious. It is just in dna of the natural man.
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why me wrote:
Morley wrote:
It's not a woman's responsibility. It's mine.
.


Well, a guy is a guy. If a woman wears something revealing, the guy will look and imagine what if. That is just the way it is. And women know this too. Mind you, I am not complaining.


You are correct why me. I assume you are a guy, rather you have a penis between your legs.

You are admitting you can not, will not, and deliberately refuse to control your thoughts and actions. You might want to read the AoF, there are only 12, but I am pretty sure there is something in there about being responsible for your sins.
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why me wrote:
Morley wrote:
It's not a woman's responsibility. It's mine.
.


Well, a guy is a guy. If a woman wears something revealing, the guy will look and imagine what if. That is just the way it is. And women know this too. Mind you, I am not complaining.

why me, just because you are a pig doesn't mean that all men are. Stop projecting your inability to exercise self-control onto others. When a woman wears a low cut blouse, I am more than capable of keeping eye-contact.
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DarkHelmet wrote:
Nobody is complaining about guys looking. But when a guy turns into a lecherous ass, who's fault is it? If you have a nice car that you worked hard for, and you like to drive it around to turn heads, and a guy steals it, is it your fault for tempting him?


Unfortunately, the analogy does not work. Women know that when they wear something hot, sexy and revealing they will get the reaction that they are seeking and our putting thoughts into the male mind.

I will give you an example. I remember an university professor telling me about one of his students. She would always come to class in a low cut blouse and she had nice size breasts. The poor guy did not know where to look when she would speak to him or bend down to get her pencil. Did she know that she may get such a reaction from the men? I think so.
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why me wrote:
DarkHelmet wrote:
Nobody is complaining about guys looking. But when a guy turns into a lecherous ass, who's fault is it? If you have a nice car that you worked hard for, and you like to drive it around to turn heads, and a guy steals it, is it your fault for tempting him?


Unfortunately, the analogy does not work. Women know that when they wear something hot, sexy and revealing they will get the reaction that they are seeking and our putting thoughts into the male mind.

I will give you an example. I remember an university professor telling me about one of his students. She would always come to class in a low cut blouse and she had nice size breasts. The poor guy did not know where to look when she would speak to him or bend down to get her pencil. Did she know that she may get such a reaction from the men? I think so.

Eyes when speaking. Duh. Her breasts could not have been so big that he couldn't look anywhere else without staring at them. He sounds like a pervert too.
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aranyborju wrote:why me, just because you are a pig doesn't mean that all men are. Stop projecting your inability to exercise self-control onto others. When a woman wears a low cut blouse, I am more than capable of keeping eye-contact.


Most men look unless of course they are with their wives or girlfriends. I can sit on a bench near the sea and know that a woman walking down the path will get looks from the men by what she is wearing. And the men do look admiringly. But women who are dressed more modestly are more attractive. But they don't elicit sexual thoughts.

It is natural for men and women to look at each other and size each other up. It is called attraction. However, revealing clothes elicit more than just attraction.
I intend to lay a foundation that will revolutionize the whole world.
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We are “to feed the hungry, to clothe the naked, to provide for the widow, to dry up the tear of the orphan, to comfort the afflicted, whether in this church, or in any other, or in no church at all…”
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