The Mormonstories website follows this general pattern. What will emerge from this is, as we will se, is a clear and broad based bias toward:
sansfoy's translation: This is the pattern of the stories posted to the site:
I do see a pattern, yes.
1. Exit from the Church as the answer to crisis of faith or personal behavioral/psychological attributes found to be incompatible with church membership and standards.
sansfoy's translation: When members suffer a crisis of faith, they are encouraged not to leave the church. (I think. The writing is so flowery here I had to read this sentence several times.)
I know. The overly common Jr. high school level intellectual processing of complex or more than Dick and Janeish prose causes unending difficulty in this forum.
However, I don't think your understanding here is correct. I've been clear, on several occasions, that Dehlin encourages apostatizing members to continue in that process if that is their desire. He also encourages others who wish to stay in the church, in a technical sense, but who do not accept any number of its central truth claims, to stay as well. What I do not see him doing is encouraging or facilitating conversion to and acceptance of those truth claims. But then, of course, that would make him something of an apologist, which is clearly not a part of his project.
2. Support for remaining within the Church, but only as a "cultural" Mormon with attachment to certain internal values and cultural elements of LDS society, but without faith or acceptance in its core religious truth claims.
sansfoy's translation: However, Mormonstories supports nominal membership only, encouraging cultural affinity, but denying the truth claims of the church. (That one was closer to English and easier to translate.)
I think that's essentially correct.
3. Strong support for and defense of various ideological, political, and philosophical claims within the surrounding secular world that are incompatible with those truth claims, and with the body of the teachings and standards of the Church.
sansfoy's translation: Mormonstories encourages a skeptical approach to the truth claims of the gospel that is incompatible with the church's core theology and standards.
True, but to be clearer, it encourages not just skepticism, but is neutral or supportive of personal philosophical/ideological commitments that are, at least as organized, coherent views, out of harmony with gospel teachings and, therefore, not only productive of skepticism, but a generator of cognitive dissonance and internal conflicts that must be resolved, one way or another.
If so, then yes, I agree with your three statements. That seems to be what Mormonstories is about. Boiled to its essence: stay Mormon but throw out anything you don't like.
Stay or leave, would be more accurate, but either way, you won't get any argument from Mr. Dehlin, so long as you don't say, "Stay
and be faithful to Church teachings."