KevinSim wrote:just me wrote:How dare anyone say that those experiences are to make you stronger or for your good!
Well, Nietzche dared. I don't really know how he dared, but he certainly did dare.
You know, to a rational person someone's mere opinion unsupported by any kind of reasoning or evidence, has just about the same persuasive worth as a pitcher of warm spit, even if it is 'daring'. Even if the someone has a name like Neitzche.
KevinSim wrote:Just Me, you didn't answer my question. How does one tell whether an experience's net effect is harm or whether it might actually be for a person's long range good?
I think Justme might be well advised, before answering, to check with you what you are willing to count as being for a person's 'long range good'. What factors do you count towards that? Do you include. perhaps:
Increasing their span of healthy and active life?
Increasing their opportunities to interact positively with others in both work and recreation, and to enjoy family life?
Increasing the quality of their living environment in aesthetic, safety and health terms?
Increasing their level of education and intelligence?
Increasing their opportunities for artistic expression and creativity?
If you say yes to those, there are at least some of those where it might be possibly to agree in advance on how they might be assessed. The problem is going to be if you start adding in criteria like:
Helping them to fufill the will of Heavenly Father.
Helping them to achieve their Exaltation
Helping them create something of eternal worth.
Once you start doing that the problem is that poor old Justme has no independent means of knowing whether he has hit your target or not. You end up with the right to move the goalposts so that you always get to win. No sensible person will play with you on those rules.