You'll rejoice when you see your children in hell

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Re: You'll rejoice when you see your children in hell

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Boilermaker wrote:Is that the way Mormons think too? I've never noticed that particular line of thinking among the LDS. I think LDS would say they would grieve to see their child lost from them in heaven. Am I wrong?

As I understand it, Joseph Smith said that the only sorrow God and all the righteous will experience in the Celestial Kingdom is the knowledge of their loved ones who didn't make it there. So no, that's not the way Mormons think; we will mourn over any of our children that end up in Hell, and we'll feel sorrow for the things they have to suffer.

I have gotten to experience a small degree of that myself over the last few years. My wife Sandy and I tried to raise our children in the LDS Church, but all three have had their bouts with rebelliousness, and my oldest got pretty solidly addicted to cigarettes. For a big portion of the last two or three years I have at times wanted the tobacco companies to just go away, because I thought if they did my daughter couldn't smoke, and then she wouldn't die the extremely painful death of lung cancer. Needless to say, I was not happy with the future I thought she was preparing for.

But that story has a sort of happy ending. My daughter quit smoking a few months ago. If she can stay away from tobacco permanently then maybe the lung cancer thing won't be in her future.
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Fence Sitter wrote:While I always enjoy MG's posts it seems to me that the Mormon God also condemns men to an infinite judgement for a finite life. Frankly I don't understand the concept of an omnipotent God punishing mortal beings or allowing them to suffer.

Me neither. That's why I don't believe in an absolutely omnipotent God.

But Joseph Smith didn't believe in one either. The general principle is that God can do all things. Smith mentioned one exception: God cannot create intelligence. It's not a major leap of logic to conclude that God cannot destroy intelligence either.

This is the reason I would have a very hard time accepting Biblical Christianity. Biblical Christians believe God can do literally anything, and in particular they believe God created intelligence out of nothing. Every Biblical Christian I have asked has agreed that the Biblical God has the power to cause souls to cease to exist too, to go from existing back to the nothing those souls started out with.

Why then wouldn't the Biblical God cause the unsaved souls to cease to exist, to put them out of their misery, so to speak, rather than let them suffer unbearable agony for the rest of eternity?

I don't think the LDS version of God chooses to make the unsaved suffer; I think their own consciences make them suffer. God isn't so much a magistrate that decides who goes where and who gets what punishment; rather I think God is a physician, who has found the cure for spiritual diseases. If we don't take the medicine He prescribes, then He is powerless to heal us. So He doesn't put us in Hell; we put ourselves in Hell, and there's nothing He can do to stop us. He can't even cause us to cease to exist because, as I said above, He doesn't have the power to do that.
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Darth J wrote:I don't think there's a parent on this board who hasn't had days when they would rejoice to see their children in hell.

Darth, there have been times when my wife Sandy has declared her desire to murder one of our children, and I have asked if I could join in, :lol: but seeing that child in Hell raises that to a level that neither of us considers funny.
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KevinSim wrote:I don't think the LDS version of God chooses to make the unsaved suffer; I think their own consciences make them suffer.

in my opinion, this is how one creates for themself heaven or hell, and God has no part in it.

If a person's conscience consigns them to hell, then the person's self-forgiveness can free them. Again, God is absent from the equation.

If we can create our own heaven or hell, then we are the very God that we have been projecting as something "out there", external to us. There is no such being.
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LittleNipper wrote:I'm not a Mormon; however, my Biblical based Christian belief is that God will remove all memory of everything that hurts us. The memory of those in hell will be wiped away. It will be as though they never existed. The saved get a new life. The damned will exist forever with all their "if only's."


Isn't your God so wise and just and good? Let us all praise him for being so good that he will torture people for eternity for the sin of believing the wrong thing about the nature of God.
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Fence Sitter wrote:Thanks M&G

A few thoughts regarding the LDS perspective.

1. The length of this life is like the a blink of an eye (or less) in the scope of eternity. "Wasting" 70 years or so here is meaningless when you think about it. A trillion years from now it will make no difference at all as long as there are no permanent judgements based on our actions here.


And yet 70 seconds feels like an eternity if you are in pain. So why procrastinate? And if your choices breed remorse and disrupt relationships, why persist one second longer than is necessary?

2. If there is continued progression in the LDS heaven, what is the point of three kingdoms and God's promise to reward those who are obedient, when eventually everyone can achieve exaltation?


The reward is inherent in who we become. Three kingdoms? Section 76, outside the added heading, only uses the word "kingdom" in the singular. There are various kinds of beings to be sure. You see that already, all around you. Some are absolutely miserable, hell bent, and make choices that are destructive to themselves and others. Some are operating from a place of peace and are able to experience joy even in the midst of adversity. And there are all kinds of folks in between. To be in a place isn't the same as to be a being with a certain kind of "glory" or lack thereof. We are all here together now and the same sociality will exist "there" only coupled with the glory that corresponds to the laws we abide. Celestial beings will minister to (teach, lead) terrestrial beings, and terrestrial beings will pay it forward to telestial beings (D&C 76), each lifting others up and seeking to save them. This is why parents who keep their covenants are promised to have their children with them, for example.

3. Why do we assume that those things that make us happy as mortals will also make us happy in the hear after? Why do we assume that a God has need of relationships or emotions? We LDS seem to create concepts of God and eternity based on mortal perceptions of happiness. It is sort of like the little girl who cannot understand why adults don't like to play with dolls.


Because it's what we know.

Because Christ taught that the epitome of godliness was to be found in unity and if He is the Son of God, then His plea that we become one even as He and His Father are one is rather significant. Also because, if God is love, there must be something to this idea of reconciliation between beings or at-one-ment.

And yet playing with dolls foreshadows the loving connections we desire to have with others. We know loving connections are essential. Even our bodies bear this out - babies without these kinds of emotional bonds are scarred and some even die. I don't think we can possibly disregard this as fundamental to who we are or invented.

4. If happiness in this life is only found through belief in Christ, the system in place to bring people to that belief has all the hallmarks of one created by man, not a benevolent God.


I don't disagree with you here, Fence Sitter. And I think all religions, mine included, are only as healthy and godly as the individuals filling the pews. I believe that much of what we need to learn on earth, we can learn without organized religion. Life, for the humble and wise, teaches more than enough. Even Brigham Young, referring to the signs and tokens of the temple, said that the rich get them in the temple, the poor get them on the mountaintop. What I find in my church (not my faith but my church) is a community in which I can learn to live out the atonement in relationships with others who profess the same goal. We serve together, we work together, we study, learn, and pray together. And when our natural frailties disrupt the harmony, we have covenanted to forgive each other.

I appreciate your knowledge and devotion MG but I cannot reconcile a benevolent omnipotent God with how I understand the LDS religion.


No worries. None whatsoever. The way I see things, these spiritual paths we take are purposeful, and where yours leads, you are meant to go.

By the way, I am pretty sure there are those within the LDS Church (Packer is one that comes to mind) who do not believe in progression between kingdoms.


Yes there are. I recommend they return to the temple and notice the path of progression that begins in the initiatory (pre-mortal) and culminates in the celestial room. If they can show me where in the ceremony, some members of the group are separated out and their progression is stopped, I may rethink my position. The temple is the height of LDS orthodoxy.
"In my more rebellious days I tried to doubt the existence of the sacred, but the universe kept dancing and life kept writing poetry across my life." ~ David N. Elkins, 1998, Beyond Religion, p. 81
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mercyngrace,

You're a universalist. I like that.
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sansfoy wrote:mercyngrace,

You're a universalist. I like that.


Shhhhhhh. That's our little secret. ;)

I find that universalism and eternal progression are absolutely consistent with LDS theology. Most members don't know it. Many probably couldn't believe it. And some know but stubbornly reject it. And so large numbers of LDS keep checking boxes and popping anti-depressants and getting plastic surgery and eating too much and chasing a bigger house and crumbling when they find out their kid is gay or considering divorce when their spouse has doubts or just generally wondering why the good news doesn't sound so good...

What a tragedy!
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mercyngrace wrote:
LittleNipper wrote:I'm not a Mormon; however, my Biblical based Christian belief is that God will remove all memory of everything that hurts us. The memory of those in hell will be wiped away. It will be as though they never existed. The saved get a new life. The damned will exist forever with all their "if only's."



Is God perfectly just according to your view?

Would it be just to suffer infinite punishment for finite sins?

Are sins finite or are they cancerous? God cannot look upon sin. And God is infinite.
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KevinSim wrote:...I don't believe in an absolutely omnipotent God.

But Joseph Smith didn't believe in one either. The general principle is that God can do all things. Smith mentioned one exception: God cannot create intelligence. It's not a major leap of logic to conclude that God cannot destroy intelligence either.

This is the reason I would have a very hard time accepting Biblical Christianity. Biblical Christians believe God can do literally anything, and in particular they believe God created intelligence out of nothing. Every Biblical Christian I have asked has agreed that the Biblical God has the power to cause souls to cease to exist too, to go from existing back to the nothing those souls started out with.

Why then wouldn't the Biblical God cause the unsaved souls to cease to exist, to put them out of their misery, so to speak, rather than let them suffer unbearable agony for the rest of eternity?

I don't think the LDS version of God chooses to make the unsaved suffer; I think their own consciences make them suffer. God isn't so much a magistrate that decides who goes where and who gets what punishment; rather I think God is a physician, who has found the cure for spiritual diseases. If we don't take the medicine He prescribes, then He is powerless to heal us. So He doesn't put us in Hell; we put ourselves in Hell, and there's nothing He can do to stop us. He can't even cause us to cease to exist because, as I said above, He doesn't have the power to do that.

It is interesting to note that for Mormonism to exist, the Bible has to be wrong, God isn't all creative, and the Church of Christ became totally without redemption. On top of everything, new books are found whose very existance insinuates God allowed some knowledge (somehow pertinent to salvation) to be lost in the first place...
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