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Re: What Counts For Spiritual Abuse?

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Nightlion wrote:Ah, jo, ya just don't know, do ya? lol

Warning: This is a correction. I am not scolding you or putting you down neither do I have any desire to rebuke you.

First off let's get a visual aid in here shall we. I saw on The Apocalrock of late what seemed like Jesus having something to do with this other fella. I have mused over it for more than a week. Today, on my way to work I thought upon it again and asked the Lord who it was and it was put into my mind that it was.......no kidding.......wait for it.........Peter! How about that. Now here you go whipping me using Peter for a waling stick.


Hello NightLion!!

I was not rebuking you either. I'm sorry you thought I was whipping you using Peter as a waling stick. I very much appreciate your use of kindness toward me in your response. You are sincere in your dealings with me; and I love you for it. God bless you!!

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I see Jesus on the left looking somber at Peter who is aghast at having denied Christ thrice. Almost like in the movies.

Even though Peter knew of God that Jesus was the Christ he was not yet accountable before God because so long as Christ was in the world Jesus was the light of the world and the power of the Holy Ghost COULD not come upon any.* So Peter waffled back and forth as a result of this reality. Jesus spent 40 days among the Jews who believed on him and told them AFTER he was gone to WAIT for the promise of the Father which is the baptism of fire and of the Holy Ghost.


I believe that there are a few different types of manifestations of the Holy Ghost. He is shown to have been active during Old Testament times. When Peter responded to Jesus "thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God", Jesus' response was:

Matthew 16:17-19 (KJV)

17 And Jesus answered and said unto him, Blessed art thou, Simon Barjona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven.

18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.

19 And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.


How does Father reveal things to us? Through the power of the Holy Ghost. Also, regardless of how or why the Holy Ghost works with us, either by guiding us someplace we can hear the Gospel message and so be drawn to accept Christ, or to act as a witness to Christ or Father after someone exercises faith and their desire to believe, or whether as a continuing guide to All Truth, man still makes mistakes and sins.

Even having Jesus present in front of the people as He walked the earth in the flesh did not constitute danger for the soul of a man to reject Him. Jesus is the one who explained this when he taught about blashpheme against the Holy Ghost. John furthers our understanding by teaching us this:

1 John 5:7-8 (KJV)

7 For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one.

8 And there are three that bear witness in earth, the Spirit, and the water, and the blood: and these three agree in one.


Jesus, as the Word, did not personally have the power and authority to convert man.

After Pentecost the Holy Ghost began to fall upon many. Peter became a fearless witness and apostle of the Lord. The matter of the two saints who held back part of the money in their consecration was certainly NOT on account of Peter's passions or his lack of anything.


The Apostles did have the power and authority to do miracles and cast out devils from the time Peter gave Jesus' true identity. Then in the evening of the day He arose from the dead,

John 20:20-22 (KJV) (emphasis added)

20 And when he had so said, he shewed unto them his hands and his side. Then were the disciples glad, when they saw the Lord.

21 Then said Jesus to them again, Peace be unto you: as my Father hath sent me, even so send I you.

22 And when he had said this, he breathed on them, and saith unto them, Receive ye the Holy Ghost:


Pentecost was not for at least another 40 days, at which time the earth received the Holy Ghost specifically as a gift to guide man to All Truth. It appears that at that time, is also when the process of being baptized by fire begins. And so we have at least three purposes and ways for the Holy Ghost to work upon the earth.

Peter did nothing but discern the lie. Ananias fell down and dies of his own accord. When his wife came into the play and Peter inquires as to whether or not she is implicit with her husband she affirms his suspicions. Peter does NOT curse her he simply foretells and accurate prediction that God is about to take her as well.


My take on this incident is not one which is taught by the Church. It is one which was taught to me by the Holy Ghost. I can think of no where else in the Bible where the Holy Ghost is used to smite someone. In fact, it is either Angels who are called upon by God to smite people, or God commands man to fight against other men.

Also, I am certain that there are similar incidents in the lives of most men who believe in and "fear" God wherein their fear would be so remarkable that it could cause a man to faint. But to die from their fear? I do not know, off the top of my head, of any other story in the Bible or in other Holy Canon, which indicates a man dropped dead from his fear of Father, or of the Son, or of the Holy Ghost.

Now, if this was an example of how it is that man can suffer physical death because they lie to God or any other member of the Godhead, I would say that much of mankind would be guilty and would have died as a result.

What I believe happened is that Peter did use the power and authority of the Priesthood on both Ananias and Sapphira. I do not believe that God gave Peter the instructions to do this. I believe Peter took it upon himself to cause their deaths because he was angry with them. Because they were not innocent of the sin of lying to the Holy Ghost, Peter's action would not have been considered an unpardonable act.

Anyways, you see now, don't you that it is you who are acting rash in deliberate ignorance of sublime realities.

Anybody who pretends to know anything about true religion who forfeits, forgoes, omits, skates, evades, or simply does not appreciate the core gospel of being visited of the power of the Holy Ghost as the prime axis that rivets ones feet upon the Rock of Christ will be judged a fool and all their words and teachings suspect in the hopes of their eventual redemption.


I am sorry, but I do not see this the same way that you do.

Have a wonderful day, James!!

Blessings,

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What counts for spiritual abuse?

Telling a 14 year old girl that if she marries the "prophet" she will save her whole family.

A man in a position of trust and authority telling a girl that if she doens't marry him an angel with kill him.
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just me wrote:What counts for spiritual abuse?

Telling a 14 year old girl that if she marries the "prophet" she will save her whole family.

A man in a position of trust and authority telling a girl that if she doens't marry him an angel with kill him.


I'd tell him no just to see the angel do it.
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jo1952 wrote:
I am sorry, but I do not see this the same way that you do.

Have a wonderful day, James!!

Blessings,

jo


My point exactly. Being corrected in spiritual things takes time to well up inside. It will niggle at you until you relent.
By then you will probably have forgotten that I ever said anything.
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just me wrote:What counts for spiritual abuse?

Telling a 14 year old girl that if she marries the "prophet" she will save her whole family.

A man in a position of trust and authority telling a girl that if she doens't marry him an angel with kill him.


I am going to refer to these sorts of legends as, well, legends. You love so much saying it that it craves itself to be true. Diggers who call themselves scholars and historians love legends the most. They strain all the day to see them and invent them and bring together the sight of them from any obscurity wanting them to be there so very, very much.

Their meditations is a torture not unlike the Buddah who tortured himself with the fond expectation of Nirvanna and lo and behold the body finally relents and gives him his damn vision so he will stop the abuse. Damn enlightenment.

Tell me extreme yoga meditations are NOT self abusive and torturous.
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Nightlion wrote:My point exactly. Being corrected in spiritual things takes time to well up inside. It will niggle at you until you relent.
By then you will probably have forgotten that I ever said anything.
Enjoy.


Hello NightLion!!

Indeed, I hope that as time goes on you will also remember what you have said to me and to others in correcting us. There is a difference between sharing what has been personally revealed to us, and rebuking and correcting others. The same difference can be applied to a person's current understanding and interpretation of Scripture.

Ultimately, our efforts should be to edify one another; not try to destroy one another's beliefs or faith. I am still learning how to do this; as are you.

Blessings on your journey!

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Nightlion wrote:
I am going to refer to these sorts of legends as, well, legends. You love so much saying it that it craves itself to be true. Diggers who call themselves scholars and historians love legends the most. They strain all the day to see them and invent them and bring together the sight of them from any obscurity wanting them to be there so very, very much.

Their meditations is a torture not unlike the Buddah who tortured himself with the fond expectation of Nirvanna and lo and behold the body finally relents and gives him his damn vision so he will stop the abuse. Damn enlightenment.

Tell me extreme yoga meditations are NOT self abusive and torturous.


Hi NightLion!

Indeed, while we are still in our body of flesh and being influenced by our earthliness, we are capable of creating our own hell to live in. Yet all things we experience, whether self-inflicted or inflicted by others, whether evil or good, are for our benefit. God's purposes will prevail. Regardless of the route we choose in our seeking of Truth, we WILL learn something, even if the something we learn is to try another route. Or, should we discover that others have stolen our free will for any length of earthly time, this also creates a hell we need to reach to God to help extricate us from.

I have become more and more cognizant of how my choices and my experiences are interwoven with the choices and experiences of others; and vice versa. It does not surprise me, therefore, that we are supposed to pray for one another. There is much more going on than we think is going on.

Our journey into Light, and escaping the darkness, is not one of ease. In fact, if we allow ourselves to stop progressing, we only wind up prolonging the suffering. It is God who provides the hope and the strength and the peace we need. The Truth does set us free. The more parts of All Truth we receive, the freer our spirit becomes; the more we turn only to God and thus forsake our bondage to sin (turning away from God).

Blessings,

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Nightlion wrote:
just me wrote:What counts for spiritual abuse?

Telling a 14 year old girl that if she marries the "prophet" she will save her whole family.

A man in a position of trust and authority telling a girl that if she doens't marry him an angel with kill him.


I am going to refer to these sorts of legends as, well, legends. You love so much saying it that it craves itself to be true. Diggers who call themselves scholars and historians love legends the most. They strain all the day to see them and invent them and bring together the sight of them from any obscurity wanting them to be there so very, very much.

Their meditations is a torture not unlike the Buddah who tortured himself with the fond expectation of Nirvanna and lo and behold the body finally relents and gives him his damn vision so he will stop the abuse. Damn enlightenment.

Tell me extreme yoga meditations are NOT self abusive and torturous.


Okay. I'll make it simpler.

It is religious abuse for a man to claim to be a prophet, gain a following and trust and then use that position to gain sexual favors from his followers.
It is spiritual abuse to tell people that they must be married to enter the highest degree of heaven.
It is spiritual abuse to tell people that they must live a polygamous lifestyle to enherit the highest degree of heaven.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_abuse

Of that list I've experienced:

Any act by deeds or words that demean, humiliate or shame the natural worth and dignity of a person as a human being;

Submission to spiritual authority without any right to disagree; intimidation;

False accusation and repeated criticism by negatively labeling a person as disobedient, rebellious, lacking faith, demonized, apostate, enemy of the church or a deity (a god);

Isolationism, separation, disenfranchisement, or estrangement from family and friends outside the group due to cult-religious or spiritual affiliation and indigenous beliefs;

Exclusivity and elitism: dismissal of outsiders' criticism on the purported basis that the assessment, opinions, and criticism of the critic is invalid because he/she does not understand or rejects the unorthodox nuances of the belief system of the group or group guru; it is not uncommon for outside critics to be accused of being or being influenced by a demon;
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madeleine wrote:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_abuse

Of that list I've experienced:

Any act by deeds or words that demean, humiliate or shame the natural worth and dignity of a person as a human being;

Submission to spiritual authority without any right to disagree; intimidation;

False accusation and repeated criticism by negatively labeling a person as disobedient, rebellious, lacking faith, demonized, apostate, enemy of the church or a deity (a god);

Isolationism, separation, disenfranchisement, or estrangement from family and friends outside the group due to cult-religious or spiritual affiliation and indigenous beliefs;

Exclusivity and elitism: dismissal of outsiders' criticism on the purported basis that the assessment, opinions, and criticism of the critic is invalid because he/she does not understand or rejects the unorthodox nuances of the belief system of the group or group guru; it is not uncommon for outside critics to be accused of being or being influenced by a demon;


I am certainly condemned by this. Good for me that I do not take any
spiritual definition from men. I strive to look at all things spiritual from God's perspective. Some people need to be managed to see their folly.
It is no Political Right never to be made to feel wrong in spiritual matters. Our culture is certainly going that direction however. I see this a symptomatic of out time of greater arrogance against God's right to rule his own dominion.

No good Catholic is going to think Christ abused the Jews calling down on them as vipers, hypocrites and gnat straining camel eaters. Even though they repeatedly said that he had a demon.
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