Why me said:
This is not very faith promoting and it ignores the fact that the women who were sealed to Joseph had very powerful spiritual experiences that cofirmed the truthfulness of the principle before they accepted. Also, the Kimball quotation can be challenged but they on MormonThink did not do so. Here is FAIR:
Why me, polygamy and polyandry were then and are now controversial issues which bring out strong feelings on all sides. That Joseph Smith failed to tell William Law, Hyrum Smith and arguably his own wife till relatively late indicates that 'he' knew it was a controversial issue also.
I was one of those persons who grew up believing that Joseph had but one wife, Emma. Brigham was the polygamist.
Polygamy for many women, even those who felt they had spiritual experiences (and who am I to argue with that) were troubled by the doctrine and practice. Mormon Think could have quoted Mary Ettie Smith or Fanny Stenhouse which support a more negative view. Have you read Fanny's account of her husbands own journey into plural marriage. It is utterly heartbreaking. Even Eliza Snow (I think it was her - correct me if I am wrong) argued that within polygamy it was better if 'love' were NOT included.
Except in agricultural societies and societies where there is little social security for widows and orphans then polygamy makes no sense. It's not just polygamy that is an issue Why me it's that the church did and still does teach it as a law of heaven as far as I understand and it is the 'way' it was practiced which was fraught with problems and issues. It's very messy.
It will always be a controversial area of the church's past. What are the Mormon Think editors to do. Ignore it? They linked to the Farms review of Todd Compton's book, which is good and quite comprehensive and makes a fairly decent argument against the sexual nature of Joseph's polyandry whilst recognising the troubling evidence and thoughts of Sylvia Sessions. That in itself is not particularly faith promoting. Should someone at FARMS be reprimanded for even recognising the complexity of the early evidence?
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