The criticism I lay at the feet of the author is this: You do not need to tie yourself down in order to avoid your temptations toward rudeness. You can learn to find that joy is not made by taking rudely. It comes more from sharing and expressing with compassion. Under the tight bands you restrain yourself with, you will begin to tarnish your vision. You will begin to feel that without forced restraint, you must give into selfishness.
Here are some depictions of Ulysses:

Ulysses and the Sirens ~ John William Waterhouse 1891

Ulysses and the Sirens by Herbert James Draper

Mosaic of Ulysses tied to the mast of a ship to resist the songs of the Sirens, from Dougga, Bardo museum

Archaic Greek Vase painting Sirens and Odysseus tied to the mast 340 BCE - Gresk vase med Odysseus og Sirens

Odysseus and the Sirens. Intarsia 19th century. Museo Correale di Terranova, Sorrento.

Claire Watson, flickr
Here are some depictions of Nephi for comparison:

Lost source! Can someone help me find the artist name?

Jeremy Winborg

Unknown artist

Helpmeet, oil on canvas, by K. Sean Sullivan, St. Cloud Ward, Orlando Florida South Stake


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