Bishop Puts Locks On 18 Year Old's Cell Phone

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Re: Bishop Puts Locks On 18 Year Old's Cell Phone

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Let's go over again, Madison, the fundamental problem you are facing, and I'll italicize the core points you missed last time:

And so finally we get to the point. The kid was using his cell phone to look at pornography - a substantial transgression of the law of chastity - and there is no possibility of affirming his worthiness to go on a mission while under the influence of this weakness.

Enter into this fray yet another faux Latter-day-Saint among a rather wolfish band - secularized liberal (neo-orthodox or "NOM") Mormons who have essentially apostatized from the Church but who remain within as "cultural" Mormons - who can bore from within in various and sundry subtle and corrosive ways in the now well understood personal project of attempting to bring the Church into convergence with the fashionable philosophies and nostrums of the surrounding secular culture.

Those who once tasted of the fruit of the tree of life and then looking around and seeing the mockery and jeering of the cool, hip people in the Great and Spacious Building, began to fell ashamed, want nothing more than like-minded company to justify their spiritual, intellectual, and moral cowardice.


Its always a good idea to clear the air and clarify the fundamental issues and concepts involved in any debate over values and first principles.
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why me wrote: They feel good stroking each other with their words.

If anyone should know about stroking, I'm pretty sure it's you.

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Droopy,

A couple of tips on being a more effective apologist. Instead of responding with heavy-handed admonishing that everyone finds humorous and then dismisses, "Looking at pornography is a serious breach of the law of chastity and firm measures must be taken to ensure the integrity of this sacred law," which just pits your point of view against theirs, why not read the story carefully and look for ways to analyze it that undermines the logic of the critics?

If you think the critics have once tasted of the fruit of the holy tree and now feel ashamed, how does it help logically, or even carry an insult by telling them this when they think the idea of a sacred fruit tree that good Mormons eat from is laughably stupid?

You are not exposing any fundamental problems here, Droopy, you're just making for an entertaining spectacle.

Even the liberal radical Bob Loblow -- they don't much more to the left than fifth-columnist Bob do they? -- said he is a little suspicious of this story.

For me, there are suspect embellishments like, "tying the hands to the bedpost," which is straight out of the likely fraudulent Mark E. Peterson tract.

The story itself pits the youth as the one driving the measures. It's the youth, not the bishop, who claims to "struggle with the demon," having done so for two years (implying this has gone on underage extensively), and openly confessing his sins and seeking help from the bishop since that time. Any of these critics, if they discovered their underage teens looking at porn, and probably even their 18 year olds, would disable technology features that allow their children access to porn entirely against the will of their children to prevent them from getting access. And if underage children go to their parents openly admitting porn addiction (it is illegal for them to visit these sites, mind you), and the parents don't eventually restrict the technology to solve the problem, if not outright, that's pretty messed up and could border on criminality akin to failing to lock the liquor cabinet, though I doubt there's much case law here. That it's the bishop doing it, and the young man is technically an adult, I don't think adds much fury to a situation where the child had been addicted to porn for two years as a minor, breaking the law to fulfill his needs, and driving "progressive" measures by admitting guilt and confessing openly to the Bishop over a long period of time, not the Bishop doing intrusive detective work and doling out controlling punishments.

An objection might be that the church teaches guilt, so that while the youth is the one admitting to have the "demon", it's the Bishop and the Church that has brainwashed him. Again, we're up against the problem that, he'd been doing this for two years, and society in general, not just Mormons, believe that youth under 18 should not be looking at porn on the internet. It would be OK, I think, for a youth to feel guilty about looking at porn. But there's more, the story seems to have some internal consistency issues to me.

On the one hand, you have the young man who feels terribly guilty, baring his soul to the bishop, and on the other, the sarcastic teen who admits to his friends that he doesn't care about missions but can't piss his parents off. Those who tend to feel guilty to the degree of several years of confessionals with the Bishop about one commandment, probably will feel guilty about breaking other commandments as well. My experience has been those who feel horrible guilt over sex, also feel guilt about breaking the sabbath and trivial stuff, and even become more dogmatic about commandments more in their control as a way of offsetting their more serious issue. Serving a two-year mission is a good way to "pay back" God for two years of service to a "bishop" of another variety. If the kid thinks missions are dumb and boring, has no desire to go on any level including duty to the God who created the law of chastity he is breaking and feeling guilt over, and can lie about really wanting to go on one to his parents and the bishop, then the kid can easily lie to the bishop about his moral failings and slip through the cracks. As presented, one could even interpret his two-year saga with the bishop as an excuse to become unworthy, such that he is not allowed to go on a mission and kill two birds with one stone, all the while retaining a kind of victim status because he struggles with "addiction."

Anyway, with the information given, there are other interpretations than merely a bishop overstepping his bounds. Try to come up with something other than apostates are mocking God's tree and will pay for it one day.
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Ceeboo wrote:
why me wrote: They feel good stroking each other with their words.


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why me wrote:
It does. Can't you tell?


Must be bothering you though.
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A couple of tips on being a more effective apologist. Instead of responding with heavy-handed admonishing that everyone finds humorous and then dismisses, "Looking at pornography is a serious breach of the law of chastity and firm measures must be taken to ensure the integrity of this sacred law," which just pits your point of view against theirs, why not read the story carefully and look for ways to analyze it that undermines the logic of the critics?


You're apparently under the impression that I take anecdotal leftist outrage stories that the sacred dogmas of the sexual revolution have been blasphemed seriously.

If you think the critics have once tasted of the fruit of the holy tree and now feel ashamed, how does it help logically, or even carry an insult by telling them this when they think the idea of a sacred fruit tree that good Mormons eat from is laughably stupid?


If they do, then this is, itself a part of the pattern of tasting of the fruit, glancing at the cool, hip, enlightened people in the Great and Spacious Building, and then looking around as if ashamed. I was simply pointing out a spiritual pattern - an eternal truth about human nature and the human condition in mortality - not constructing a logical argument. I did not intend to in this instance (and frankly, Gad, in all the countless times in the past when I have, its hasn't stimulated, for the most part, anything but the standard polemical, ad hominem howling that defines this board).

Even the liberal radical Bob Loblow -- they don't much more to the left than fifth-columnist Bob do they? -- said he is a little suspicious of this story.


I suspect that "Bob" is actually one of those odd mutant creatures, the fiscal conservative/social liberal hybrid that isn't really so much a hybrid as a paradox.

The story itself pits the youth as the one driving the measures. It's the youth, not the bishop, who claims to "struggle with the demon," having done so for two years (implying this has gone on underage extensively), and openly confessing his sins and seeking help from the bishop since that time. Any of these critics, if they discovered their underage teens looking at porn, and probably even their 18 year olds, would disable technology features that allow their children access to porn entirely against the will of their children to prevent them from getting access.


But this doesn't seem true of Madison, who is outraged over the Bishop doing precisely that.

That it's the bishop doing it, and the young man is technically an adult, I don't think adds much fury to a situation where the child had been addicted to porn for two years as a minor, breaking the law to fulfill his needs, and driving "progressive" measures by admitting guilt and confessing openly to the Bishop over a long period of time, not the Bishop doing intrusive detective work and doling out controlling punishments.


There were no "controlling punishments." That what all the faux liberal anguish is all about. The guy is 18, he didn't have to hand over his cell to the Bishop and there is no way the Bishop could have made him do so. He quite obviously gave the Bishop the phone of his own free will, with the idea of being subject to whatever controls the Bishop had offered to impose on his cell phone usage.

Anyway, with the information given, there are other interpretations than merely a bishop overstepping his bounds.


I agree.

Try to come up with something other than apostates are mocking God's tree and will pay for it one day.


But that is the sugar that makes the honey sweet, Gad. That's the truth of the matter at its very core. Sometimes a body of internally consistent, logical argument is required. At other times, just telling the truth and testifying of the spiritual roots of human relations is more appropriate.
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why me wrote:
keithb wrote: Maybe this is just because I haven't been exposed to a lot of other religious belief systems.

I think that the Mormon church needs to take a chill pill on masturbation. The age of easy internet pornography has arrived. I think that the Mormons can either learn to adapt to that or force increasingly larger amounts of guilt on their young members, probably leading them to inactivity later in life.


No religious organization can condone porn or masturbation. They may either ignore the topic or not stress it. But if a member of a church asks their pastor or priest about whether it is okay, the priest or pastor can not condone it or ignore it. The advice will be try to avoid it.

What church can make an announcement to its members that states: masturbation is good for you and so is porn...so just do it.


They should quote the scripture below that condemns masturbation. Look it up for yourself:


Okay, so there is no scripture that condemns it. There is one that condemns taking one's tool out before it makes a baby but that it more a condemnation of birth control, not masturbation. By the way, God wasted the guy who did that.
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Fiannan wrote:
They should quote the scripture below that condemns masturbation. Look it up for yourself:


Okay, so there is no scripture that condemns it. There is one that condemns taking one's tool out before it makes a baby but that it more a condemnation of birth control, not masturbation. By the way, God wasted the guy who did that.

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Fiannan wrote: There is one that condemns taking one's tool out before it makes a baby but that it more a condemnation of birth control, not masturbation.

Wait a minute. Are You one of that damned atheist again, who misinterprets the unambiguous words of God?

If one take his tool out before he plug it in, it is masturbation.
The Scripture is clear, as usual.

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