I was going to let this sleeping dog lie, but since it's been roused anyway...
Quasimodo wrote:I think that conforming to styles and beliefs in a group one belongs to may be instinctual. It might take a learned (and healthy) disrespect for authority to go beyond the 'norms' and follow your own drum beat. Maybe that's what makes a good artist.
I remember being very concerned that the clothes I wore to school passed the fashion test (a good argument in favor of school uniforms).
There are many examples of this outside religion. I have an acquaintance that spent most of his life in the military. He's retired from that now, but he misses it. Everything was laid out for him. Life was easy. If he had any doubts about decisions he needed to make he could just follow the 'manual'. Always safe. Now he has to be concerned with making decisions without guidance. He doesn't care for it.
I have to agree with you. Having served in the military I recognize what your acquaintance describes. I also recognize the type who felt very at home being free from having to think, compete, and otherwise act for one's self.
In the past, there was evolutionary benefit to taking cues from the culture one was in. Both broadly and in an immediate sense. There's a reason we all have a deep instinct to look where the crowd is looking. Any proto homo sapien who failed to do so ran the risk of being eaten by the predator the others were looking out for. Likewise, culture cues could have very specific, unique value that made a group collectively more adapted to their environs and improved their survival chance.
The challenge I think we face today is that this instinct has been co-opted. The masses that are chasing culture often are doing so to the enrichment of someone else's pocketbook or the inflation of someone elses ego. Housing bubbles, pyramid schemes, religious movements, or cliques - at the center there is often someone who is using the collective instinct to be a collective to their own advantage.
I think the key point is it takes thoughtfulness to navigate in the modern world. We can not rely on the reflex to join in without reflection, but we also should not be mislead into thinking we can go it alone and be successful as human beings, either.
For example, when I see the emotional reactions directed towards John Dehlin as has been brought up on the board I can't help wondering why so many people are so angry at having been "manipulated" into being part of a group based on being angry at having been manipulated into being part of a group?
Joseph Campbell wrote:This is the threat to our lives. We all face it. We all operate in our society in relation to a system. Now is the system going to eat you up and relieve you of your humanity or are you going to be able to use the system to human purposes? ... If the person doesn't listen to the demands of his own spiritual and heart life and insists on a certain program, you're going to have a schizophrenic crack-up. The person has put himself off center. He has aligned himself with a programmatic life and it's not the one the body's interested in at all. And the world's full of people who have stopped listening to themselves.
To me, it's important to realize this happens at all scales. But the correct action is always the same: Be mindful. Choose. Don't let others choose for you. And have the courage to accept the consequence of your own choices. Somethings that means moving with the flow of the river, sometimes against, sometimes stepping out all together. Sometimes diving under to a whole different current.
Be mindful. Choose.