ajax18 wrote:That unnatural way is to try to, temporarily, assume the opposing position and look at the evidence from that viewpoint.
No wonder you're frustrated. I don't think it's really possible to look at evidence from an opposing viewpoint any more than it is possible to be another person. I don't really think we need to listen to each other any more. Our differences are clear. I think we need separate countries and the freedom to practice our political beliefs about which system of government works best in the world. To me that would give people a real choice. I don't think voting really gives people a choice. The country is too big and too factionalized to franchise everyone. If human beings did evolve to live in groups, it was small groups, not giant nations like the USA.
Our country is divided. But there is no Mason-Dixon line neatly separating us geographically. We are over 300 million people, and we are becoming increasingly culturally diverse.
We used to at least read the same newspapers and listen to the same radio and watch the same television. With the internet, MP3 players and cable TV, we can all withdraw to our own cultural 'enclaves' and throw verbal stones at one another. Yes, there is more information in the information age, but what information we consume and how it is digested is not questioned.
In a populous, heterogeneous democracy it is virtually axiomatic that there will be large factions of different opinions. Your opinions are not always going to hold sway. It's a little like being a hitter in baseball: if you fail to hit 7 times out of 10, you're successful.
To put it another way, the more diverse and heterogeneous our country becomes, the less it will represent your (or my) feelings.
The reality is that Red Staters and Blue Staters can overlay like area codes.
For some reason I thought of the partition of India, when East and West Pakistan were born. Millions of of people were displaced because a democracy was unable to find a middle ground between two cultures. It's hard for me to imagine lines of refugees heading north in Hybrids and heading south in SUVs.
But democracy is certainly becoming more challenging. The one thing that discourages me most is when we can't see that the other side means well too.