John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Mayan Elephant wrote:
Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:
ME,

Who are dehlinites, specifically?

- Doc


For this conversation, you, lemmie, kish and cwald. We can't have a dehlin conversation without mentioning cwald and the pleasures of pleasure.

But if you want to expand it, lets just say for now, the group outside the chapel with those signs and candles and s***, kish again, you again, and the mosto subscribers and Facebook groupies.

Its not a formal thing, ya know. You get that?


What makes a person a dehlinite? I don't consider myself a fan of his; I haven't listened to any of his podcasts, for example.

- Doc
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Mayan Elephant wrote:I think the persecution complex may be alive and well in dehlin and dehlinites.


ME,

Who are dehlinites, specifically?

- Doc


ME wrote:For this conversation, you, lemmie, kish and cwald. We can't have a dehlin conversation without mentioning cwald and the pleasures of pleasure.

But if you want to expand it, lets just say for now, the group outside the chapel with those signs and candles and s***, kish again, you again, and the mosto subscribers and Facebook groupies.

Its not a formal thing, ya know. You get that?


Wow, I had no idea I was a dehlinite! Clearly it's 'not a formal thing' because I have done none of the things listed above. Is this going to be like the damn Mormons all over again and I have to send in some formal name removal/resignation to headquarters? Or could I just become, say, a Runtu-ite, and that would qualify as apostasy and get me ex'd?

Dammit, I need help on this, people! If the dehlinites start coming to my door once a year I'm turning the hose on them.
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Lemmie wrote:
Mayan Elephant wrote:I think the persecution complex may be alive and well in dehlin and dehlinites.


ME,

Who are dehlinites, specifically?

- Doc


ME wrote:For this conversation, you, lemmie, kish and cwald. We can't have a dehlin conversation without mentioning cwald and the pleasures of pleasure.

But if you want to expand it, lets just say for now, the group outside the chapel with those signs and candles and s***, kish again, you again, and the mosto subscribers and Facebook groupies.

Its not a formal thing, ya know. You get that?


Wow, I had no idea I was a dehlinite! Clearly it's 'not a formal thing' because I have done none of the things listed above. Is this going to be like the damn Mormons all over again and I have to send in some formal name removal/resignation to headquarters? Or could I just become, say, a Runtu-ite, and that would qualify as apostasy and get me ex'd?

Dammit, I need help on this, people! If the dehlinites start coming to my door once a year I'm turning the hose on them.


I'm in a pickle. My opinion of JD continues to drop, just as my opinion of Joseph Smith does. Just can't get into this "faith in a man" thing. I see his arc as almost complete. There's a whole lot out there that will follow and replace him.

I liked a lot of his podcasts. The rest of his activities had too much theater to them for a crabby old introvert like me.
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Guess that makes you a jackdehlinite, doc. Ya lazy sinner.

To me, one becomes a dehlinite when one is willing to defend this dude or attach meaning to their own life or the world based on dehlin's views and experiences.

Snufferites are similar. don't see it as much with rock. People seem to really enjoy rock as a person or friend but don't seem as attached to his star or ride.

The dehlin thing is something else though. Even otherwise intelligent people will believe the stupidest and most ridiculous crap from john dehlin. Or worse, dismiss ANYTHING his detractors or critics may ask or say.
"Rocks don't speak for themselves" is an unfortunate phrase to use in defense of a book produced by a rock actually 'speaking' for itself... (I have a Question, 5.15.15)
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Kishkumen wrote:
I believe bullying is an apt description. ...The way the LDS Church handles its boundary maintenance is bullying, in my view. And, I think that bullying style does come from the Church's collective sense of identity as a persecuted and marginalized sect.

It seems to me that in some ways the LDS Church behaves like a milder form of Scientology when it is challenged. Does every organization behave like the Church of Scientology? I don't think so.


...they did what they did at least partially out of their sense that they valued their LDS identity and cared about the future of the LDS Church and its people. They placed a lot on the line to pursue what they did, and they paid an emotionally devastating price for it.

Do I canonize them as saints or see them as innocent victims? No. Do I sympathize with the good intentions they had and the price they paid for acting on them? I sure do.


Yes. This is the way I see it as well.

I have talked to John about the "emotional devastation" he has gone through. I believe him. I have also witnesses first hand the pain and emotional trama the church is inflicting on the heretical members. It's real. And whether one agrees with JD's tactics or whatever, the issue of the church corporation bullying it's members and "spying" is a serious problem they are going to have to address and face up to eventually.

Just my opinion.

Sincerely, a "Dehlinite" :rolleyes:
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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Mayan Elephant wrote:[

...without mentioning cwald and the pleasures of pleasure.


I have no idea what this even means.
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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cwald wrote:
Mayan Elephant wrote:
...without mentioning cwald and the pleasures of pleasure.


I have no idea what this even means.


that was the PG version of a previously made comment on this thread and others. :eek:

you know i dig you, man.
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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cwald wrote:
I have talked to John about the "emotional devastation" he has gone through. I believe him. I have also witnesses first hand the pain and emotional trama the church is inflicting on the heretical members. It's real. And whether one agrees with JD's tactics or whatever, the issue of the church corporation bullying it's members and "spying" is a serious problem they are going to have to address and face up to eventually.

Just my opinion.

Sincerely, a "Dehlinite" :rolleyes:


on a lot of things, we agree. i have no doubt whatsoever that heretics and people leaving the church go through some ugly stuff and some hardships that are emotional. none. i have not denied that, ever. i believe that is the case for a lot of people. that is not the case for john. any roller coaster rides he took and the emotional aspects of it are his and they are real. i cannot deny that he had experiences and emotions. he is not devastated and never was at any point. in a recent public event he thanked the church for exing him. now how the hell can he also be emotionally devastated?

his ride and experience was NOT because he was a heretic, it was because he was an antagonist of the institution and people. he was an asshole. he was a public nuisance who was daring the church to ex him. john was not bullied even in the slightest. there is no factual support for this idea, whatsoever. this is where the conflation, based on lies or beliefs or opinions or mormonesque testimonies, is harmful.

john worked his ass off to get exed for his defense of women and gays. he claimed to be persecuted for that, and it failed. he made a surreptitious attempt to prove that this is why he was being persecuted, and it failed miserably. he tried to malign local leaders in that effort. he EDITED a surreptitious recording and still failed to pull it off. and now he and his followers are trying to turn this around and say he was bullied and he was persecuted. that would be great if there were facts to support that claim, but there is not. just feelings and beliefs and hope that john was lying about every other aspect of this, but not lying now. ain't working out so much.
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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cwald wrote:I have talked to John about the "emotional devastation" he has gone through. I believe him. I have also witnesses first hand the pain and emotional trama the church is inflicting on the heretical members. It's real. And whether one agrees with JD's tactics or whatever, the issue of the church corporation bullying it's members and "spying" is a serious problem they are going to have to address and face up to eventually.

Just my opinion.

Sincerely, a "Dehlinite" :rolleyes:


I think it is unfortunate that heretical essentially means disloyal/disobedient to leaders. Sure, one can point to ways in which these so-called "heretics" diverge from normative LDS beliefs, but since no one can define what the doctrine of the LDS Church is in a satisfactory way, the idea of doctrinal heresy in Mormonism borders on absurd.

And, cwald, I notice you have humorously called yourself a Dehlinite in your signature. This raises another interesting issue, which is the model of charismatic leadership in the LDS community and the boundaries erected around it. It seems that anyone who sticks his or her neck out to opine or take action on religious matters is going to face some kind of formal or informal push back from Mormons and ex-Mormons, unless they kowtow to LDS leaders.

Public figures within the faith need to navigate their public Mormon identity very carefully, particularly if their activities touch directly on the faith. Anyone who presumes to step out of the narrow confines of approved speech risks the wrath of present and former members of the faith. Ex-Mormons can dismiss Mormons who speak in line with the Brethren as TBMs, but they will also castigate those who speak out of line with the Brethren as aspiring cultists.

In my own case, I have routinely felt a dislike for people stepping out to form para-ecclesiastical communities. I was not really keen on Mormon Stories becoming a "community." I did not care for the way Kate Kelly seemed to attract a following with its own orthodoxy and techniques of boundary maintenance.

But, I have to wonder, are these perhaps two sides of the same coin? The saintly fiction of Joseph Smith is not to be touched either way. It is not to be touched because it is too holy, or because it is the sham that disappointed people. But, far be it from anyone to stick their neck out. Or, could it be that anyone who sticks her or his neck out is inevitably going to fall into the distinctly LDS kind of charismatic leadership? If you like that model, you will accuse this aspiring person of being an apostate. If you don't like it, the person is the reflection of the evil Joseph Smith.

In any case, I am not "any manner of -ite." I am fascinated by these folk leaders, but I have not followed any of them. I am interested in Snuffer, Waterman, Kelly, Dehlin, the Toscanos, Maxine Hanks, Don Bradley, DCP, etc., etc. I wouldn't say that I have signed on to any person's particular cause, to the extent one of these folks could be said to have one, but I do enjoy talking about them and seeing what their experiences can tell us about being a Mormon or ex-Mormon at this time.
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Re: John Dehlin: A Spy Story

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I guess if ME is going to put more labels on everyone I can label ME an emotional anti-Dehlinite.
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