cognitiveharmony wrote:Were there any answers that you were able to provide regarding this man's issues that you'd be willing to put up on this board for scrutiny?
Let's see . . . it was a 3+ hour meeting over a year ago, but I'll give you what I remember.
Regarding the Book of Abraham, much of it was similar to what I posted in this long thread:
viewtopic.php?f=1&t=33215I also used Jeff Bradshaw's FAIR conference presentation (Germany, 2009), which has pictures and images (no link; I have a .pdf).
For the Book of Mormon, we discussed several things using my stake/community fireside slides and handout, and I sent links to him so that he could read at leisure.
http://www.fillthenet.com/BoMFF.pdfhttp://www.fillthenet.com/BoM_fireside_handout.pdfSome issues we talked about at length were changes in the Book of Mormon, DNA criticisms, witnesses, translation process, etc.
Polygamy was wide-ranging, and we spent quite a bit of time on that. One thing I showed him to illustrate the importance of actual sources vs. critics' representation of sources was this quote from George D. Smith's "Nauvoo Polygamy:"
It was the summer of 1842 when thirty‐six‐year‐old Joseph Smith, hiding from the law down by the Mississippi River in Illinois, confessed: “My feelings are so strong for you . . .
come and see me in this my lonely retreat . . . now is the time to afford me succour . . . I have a room intirely by myself, the whole matter can be attended to with most perfect saf[e]ty, I know it is the will of God that you should comfort me.” Three weeks earlier, seventeen‐year‐old Sarah Ann Whitney had secretly become the fourteenth plural wife of Joseph Smith, founder and leader of the millennialist Latter‐day Saints (LDS).
He was quite blown away to see how Smith had manipulated a source to say something quite different from what he had represented. Smith's text above is in red below:
Dear, and Beloved, Brother and Sister, Whitney, and &c.‐‐
I take this oppertunity to communi[c]ate, some of my feelings, privetely at this time, which I want you three Eternaly to keep in your own bosams; for my feelings are so strong for you since what has pased lately between us, that the time of my abscence from you seems so long, and dreary, that it seems, as if I could not live long in this way: and if you three would come and see me in this my lonely retreat, it would afford me great relief, of mind, if those with whom I am alied, do love me, now is the time to afford me succour, in the days of exile, for you know I foretold you of these things. I am now at Carlos Graingers, Just back of Brother Hyrams farm, it is only one mile from town, the nights are very pleasant indeed, all three of you can come and See me in the fore part of the night, let Brother Whitney come a little a head, and nock at the south East corner of the house at the window; it is next to the cornfield, I have a room intirely by myself, the whole matter can be attended to with most perfect safty, I know it is the will of God that you should comfort me now in this time of afiliction, or not at [al]l[] now is the time or never, but I hav[e] no kneed of saying any such thing, to you, for I know the goodness of your hearts, and that you will do the will of the Lord, when it is made known to you; the only thing to be careful of; is to find out when Emma [Smith] comes then you cannot be safe, but when she is not here, there is the most perfect safty: only be careful to escape observation, as much as possible, I know it is a heroick undertakeing; but so much the greater frendship, and the more Joy, when I see you I will tell you all my plans, I cannot write them on paper, burn this letter as soon as you read it; keep all locked up in your breasts, my life depends upon it. one thing I want to see you for it is to git the fulness of my blessings sealed upon our heads, &c. you will pardon me for my earnestness on this subject when you consider how lonesome I must be, your good feelings know how to make every allowance for me, I close my letter, I think Emma [Smith, his first wife] wont come tonight[,] if she don't fail to come to night. I subscribe myself your most obedient, and affectionate, companion, and friend.
We talked about average ages of marriage and age differences between grooms and brides during the early Church period, famous and respected historical figures who married teenage wives who were much younger than they were, Richard Bushman's treatment of polyandry, etc.