Amore wrote:How do you measure happiness? What statistics did you refer to? ;)
spotlight wrote:Google happiest countries.
I don't believe those results are valid since the pool they drew from is very slanted - as in those that can read & who would answer their questions, those who are on anti-depressants and who know what other factors that would cause the results to be inaccurate.
Anyway, as I've mentioned before, a study (which we both love :) ) sought to see what, if any, influence religious involvement had on physical healing. Of 3 groups, those extremely religiously involved and not religiously involved at all did poorest. The group that did best was those who were moderately religiously involved. Moderation in all things = happiness (according to Brother Aristotle).
I would prefer to exist after death if it were a matter of preference, assuming we were as capable of life experience as something less than material bodies.
Would we be able to see even without the physical eyes that focus light and the nerves that send the signals to a brain? What about the ability to smell or taste? It would be a bland existence without those abilities. They consist of an ability to react to molecules where sight is an ability to react to photons. What of touch? I can't imagine life without touch can you? What if you could not feel anything but watch your "arm" pass through your companion when you reach out to touch them? Could I hear another speak or speak myself? That would require the medium of air and an ability to manipulate the same.
I can't say that I really know, but what makes sense to me is that our conscious energy changes form. Trying to squeeze it to fit into our finite laws of this planet is ignoring the fact that everything's relative -that time is an illusion. Mind-boggling because we're so attached to what we think we KNOW. Maybe it helps us pretend and feel in control, when deep down, we know we're so out of control.
How can I be other than my body?
Especially if people have been judging me (for good or bad) based on how I look - for all my life?
I am NOT my body. "I AM THAT I AM."
Really, if you took away my arms, my legs, my entire body - I am that consciousness that exists.
What do you do to make your life enjoyable now? Would you be able to do that when beyond the grave? How could you create without a medium to record your creations? Could you go for a hike in the woods? Would you feel the air blow in your face or smell the forest or push yourself to make it to the top of the mountain against the fatigue of a tired body? Where would be the sense of accomplishment without that struggle?
All deep questions. I'd like to know how you'd hypothesize the answers, if you had to argue for conscious energy changing form after death.
I love music - and I do love to hike.
I imagine when I am not limited to a body - but just consciousness - I can go anywhere I focus on.
Must my creations be recorded? Why? Why not create just for the sake of creating? What about the unseen but influentially real creations - those sparks of intuitive inspiration? Isn't that what really make the world go 'round - what motivates people?
What would existence be without opposites - without the struggle, as you mentioned?
Is it a realization that life is but a dream - and the good and bad are all part of the whole?
And what meaning would any of this have without the physical union of the sexes? And would that be shallow if it didn't involve offspring? And if there were offspring from eternally existing beings where do they all go? The universe would not be large enough to hold them. It is an impossibility. What meaning would your relationships have when they are continually diluted with time spent with countless others?
Those questions apply in this life - so I think it best to answer them accordingly first, before considering the mysterious possibilities.
I'd say the #1 religious worship, by far, is the god of romance. I have been a loyal adherent since I was young - only recently have I realized - no, I'm still hooked, even if disappointed.
It's not just about reproduction - though no doubt it plays a part subconsciously - in collective conscience or whatever.
Maybe sexual intercourse is one of the few times when the communication is so deep and relating so exact, when it all doesn't depend on symbols (words, gestures). So, potentially, sex is most direct communication - and thus most meaningful - if both are feeling it.
I think about children people have lost - even in miscarriage.
Where do they go? Where are their consciousnesses? Are they moving on to another form of expression? Are they in limbo - how is it when time is not?
Why do you think that the universe is not large enough to hold them?
Do you know how large the universe is?
What if this universe can hold countless consciousnesses - as long as they are only conscious of this universe - and don't think outside it? Maybe the only things the vessel of the universe cannot hold is that which is conscious that more exists - that which can fathom the seemingly impossible, the absurd, but real possibilities?
Spotlight, you asked something that I've been thinking about lately:
"What meaning would your relationships have when they are continually diluted with time spent with countless others?"If I am intimate with many - can I really be intimate with anyone?
Ought I close myself off to you, since I don't know you - and maybe you'll hurt me first chance you get.
Or is it better that I be open to any and all - and allow myself to learn with others?
Another very legit study

suggested that most people cannot maintain more than 50 relationships. I'd suggest it's a lot less - at least relationships that are more meaningful. But most people are and only know how to be superficial friends. So, in the day in and day out, it's best to enjoy superficial relating over being a hermit. And then those deep connections are more meaningful anyway. You know, "Opposition in all things" - the basis of gratitude/joy.
P.S. I know you love science, and you probably love it having had the experience of baptism. Consider the possibility that baptism is like the placebo or Dumbo's feather.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSy1NQx2bJE