Kishkumen wrote:I agree with you that it is a rare trait. It is one I am willing to attempt with a person who is engaging in an honest conversation in good will. There are many times, however, when I have other motives for starting a thread or participating in one. Some are designed to have fun. Some are posted to vent. Some are fishing for support, agreement, or sympathy.
And sometimes folks just want to shoot the bull without too much picking apart. I'm not saying that there was too much picking apart on this thread. I can't recall half of what was deleted.
I do think there might have been some level of venting factor involved. Perhaps his expectations weren't met or his expectations weren't realistic?
Ceeboo is in a real minority here, and, frankly, most of his pro-Trump allies on this board (I know he did not vote for Trump) are people I would be ashamed to be associated with. Sorry, but it's true. But Ceeboo is someone I find likable for the most part, and, to my knowledge, a decent fellow. Maybe he hangs out here partly because he is amused by the views and behavior of people whose experience is so different from his own. But there are times when it must be tempting to express alienation and disdain, and I would not be surprised if this atmosphere brought that out in him.
Well of coure it's tempting to express a sense of alienation and disdain, particularly when you're in the minorty. I recall that after my first few days online, I had written something (I can't recall just what) where the posters took it mean I was giving up (I was surrounded by atheists and agnostics) and one or more posters emailed me. My attitude at the time was Me? I'm not going anywhere. ;-) But that's me compared to a Ceeboo who doesn't seem to like the push and pull of the argument, and the personal growth that can come from it. I'm not saying he doesn't want to learn anything. I'm not sure if he sees that it can come from the argument itself? I dunno.
As for the speculation, the "maybe" of why he participates and why he participates the way that he does, perhaps that question should have been asked long before this.