Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:Res Ipsa wrote:No, you’re not making the slightest attempt to understand. You’re disingenuously making up a bunch of crap that I didn’t say and attributing it to me. I’ll say it again: if you want to understand why women don’t report, read what women say. If you want to know I think, ask me. But don’t try and push your idiotic, cartoonish view of liberals onto me. that's’s just dishonest BS.
Well, perhaps they don't report is because they have various reasons to not report? But those reasons, by themselves, don't point to their allegations being true or false. The problem with your insinuation is that it takes a very, very serious matter and reduces it to #justbelieveher.
I didn't "insinuate" anything. That's you. It's weird to see how often you do this and, at the same time, accuse others of doing it. When women are surveyed and asked why they didn't report a sexual assault, there is no reason to reject what they say out of hand unless you live by the creed "bitches be lying." There are volumes and volumes of reports on why women don't report sexual assault. All I've said is that, if someone wants to know why women don't report, rather than make up their motivations for them out of nothing but smoke and BS, they should start by listening to what they say.
Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:I don't really know what your motivations are to want to rush to the defense of women in this case, they're probably pretty altruistic,
Rushing to the defense of women? Because I've expressed the perfectly ordinary positions that (1) accusation of a fairly serious crime should be investigated; and (2) if you want to know why someone does something, you should start by asking them, that's "Rushing to the defense of women?" Maybe this is news to you, Doc, but I don't take a position based on what team someone bats for. Sexual assault has been a difficult crime for our legal system to address for lots longer than I've been alive. There are very understandable reasons for that if you'd stop hyperventilating about "teh menz" and take a couple steps back and think about the whole landscape.
Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:...but whether or not they're subjected to scrutiny, however tough or however delicate, you're talking about an accusation that immediately turns the accused's world upside down.
The accused is branded a rapist on a mere allegation, their reputation is invariably destroyed, their career is tarnished if not outright destroyed, and even if they exonerate themselves they're never the same.
If a woman makes an allegation, but doesn't file a report that's her business. She's free to stop right there. God bless her. But a man has every_single_right to defend himself, his life, his family from a soul destroying rape accusation.
Of course he does. I've never said he doesn't. But you're talking as if accusations of other crimes never affect the accused's life. They do. They cost people jobs, marriages, etc. every day. Try having your employer falsely accuse you of stealing. Or the cops falsely accuse you of selling drugs. You know who's lives are really impacted? Death row inmates. The number of innocent people that have been sent to death row is shocking. The examples of provably innocent people who have actually been executed are unforgivable. Now, I'm not arguing that two wrongs make a right. But I'm suggesting that your hyperventilation over the effect of a false rape accusation that doesn't result in a guilty verdict is way over the top.
Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:This is why due process is an amazing thing. I'm all for rapists being outed, charged, prosecuted, and if found guilty sent straight to jail. The problem is the other side where women who make false allegations don't face a commensurate punishment, despite ruining someone's life over it. They often get away with it. Men who are falsely accused don't get away with it. They wear that scarlet R for life. That needs to change.
Seriously, you're going to wear out that fainting couch.
Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:Now, before you trot the old and tired argument that only x amount of rape allegations are found to be false please read this:
Now there you go again. Why do you think you know what I'm going to argue? Your mind reading sucks.
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Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:Finally, I should state for the record that I don't believe that the numbers of women who've been raped equal or are less than men who've been falsely accused. Obviously the numbers are much higher, in my opinion.
Yeah, in fact you should have stated that a long time ago. I think it's the most important thing you've posted in this or any other discussion of sexual assault here. Would you mind unpacking why you think this is obviously true?
Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:What I think we can't lose in all of this is a sense of innoncent until proven guilty and due process. This current climate of allegations = guilt, and you know it is, all you have to do is read the articles or look at the comments on any given thread and the accused is assumed guilty just as much as the accuser is assumed to be making things up.
- Doc
The traditional climate (as opposed to the current climate) around allegations of sexual assault can best be summarized as:
1. Bitch is lying.
2. Bitch wanted it.
3. Bitch deserved it.
Due process and innocent until proven guilty are both mechanisms we use to promote justice. If you are all for seeing that rapists get sent to jail, then don't you think it would be important to design a system of justice that encourages women and girls who have been raped to report? Do you think we have that here? How many rapists should we let go free in order to protect one man's reputation? I'm not suggesting there are any easy answers. But reflexively branding women who say they were sexually assaulted as liars seems to me to be a piss poor way of addressing the issue.
“The ideal subject of totalitarian rule is not the convinced Nazi or the dedicated communist, but people for whom the distinction between fact and fiction, true and false, no longer exists.”
― Hannah Arendt, The Origins of Totalitarianism, 1951